Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing? I’m doing okay. Ya, Lovelies, you know I’m always authentically honest with you. This post certainly is no different. All my posts are all heart felt and personal. As I really want to share hard-learned lessons. One hard lesson I’m learning is how housing insecurity can occur even when renting from your parents. “Housing insecurity—which includes unaffordability, poor housing quality, and residential instability—is a critical social determinant of health that acts as a fundamental driver of poor well-being across the entire lifespan.”

Ya, Lovelies, I know I have touched on the topic of homelessness. Homelessness results from housing insecurity. In the expansive, lovely state of New York, the median cost of an average apartment is 2000 per month. It is possible to get a cheaper place, but it will be in a very bad neighborhood. Even some bad neighborhoods can be 2000 per month. With how expensive housing is, it is no wonder that there are a lot of families who are homeless. For instance, since the trains and buses run 24 hours here in New York, that is where a lot of homeless people go to for shelter. Moreover, there are some programs available to help with rent if you are eligible. Being self-employed like me makes it difficult to show my earnings and verify my eligibility. What about people like me? We all need to feel secure in our housing situation and protected if we lose our job prospects. Or other unforeseeable problems in the future. True wellbeing is knowing you have a safe haven to lay your head at night and a place to leave your things. Food, shelter, and water are everyone’s right, regardless of their financial situation. In the future, I would like to help with my business, Frans Online Business INC. I will talk more about that in a future post. Until then, take care of yourself with sweet love. Bye for now.

Hello there, Lovelies, and how are you? I’m doing okay for now. Earlier, I was not doing too well. I was experiencing a really bad mindset. “A poor or scarcity mindset—characterized by beliefs of limitation, fear, and chronic lack—severely degrades mental and physical well-being by fostering constant stress, anxiety, and feelings of unworthiness. This mindset restricts decision-making, causes neglect of self-care, and traps individuals in cycles of depression and strained relationships, limiting both personal and professional growth.

Ya, Lovelies, your mindset is everything. Today, when I woke up, I was just not in a good mood. I was very stressed out and worried. Furthermore, I was unable to get out of bed and start my day. Ya my well-being was taking a really hard beating, seriously. It was just a cycle of negative thoughts and worries about what could go wrong. No good thoughts at all. To the point I almost did not do my daily post for the Dare To Post Challenge. I just wanted to end it all, Lovelies. As it was all-consuming. It’s beginning to scare me to have these thoughts again. I just have to remind myself, ya, this too shall pass. When I get this way, I don’t get much work done, and I lose motivation. The I can do anything feeling is completely gone. I’m sharing this very sensitive story to encourage you to get help. I also show you that you are not alone; you have this community behind you. I have read other blogs in my niche, and I stand out. I share deeply personal, sensitive parts of me with you all in the hope of helping you to go through pain with grace. I’m not an expert, I’m just someone who is going through the same thing as you and learning in the way. I’m truly here for you all. I love you all. Be well, and I will see you next time. Bye for now.