Hiya, Lovelies, how are you doing? I truly hope all is going well at the moment. If you know me, then you will realize that I’m literally addicted to worrying. I worry about everything seriously. My thinking is very negative, unfortunately. Which is really bad when “your thinking is deeply connected to your well-being, as thoughts influence your emotions, actions, and even physical health.” Yes, Lovelies, you can’t have negative, doubtful thoughts and expect to succeed in all you do. In short, if you think you will win, you are right, and if you think you will lose, you are also right. As you become what you think about.

Lovelies, imagine you are at a restaurant having a good time with your friends and family, celebrating a new job prospect. Then, all of a sudden, your mind is bombarded with negative thoughts. Suddenly, you become tense and stressed. You are no longer having a good time. That’s precisely how it can get for me. Lovelies, I know I have a problem with worrying. Which is why I use an app like Calm to help quiet my mind. When I’m in a better place, I’m thinking about using Better Help. I also need therapy. Like with anything else, realizing you need help is the first step. Then take it one step at a time. Another thing I’m thinking about giving a go at is my online diary. It also helps to write down your thoughts. Just doing my meditation is good for my well-being. You don’t need to make a significant change for your life to take a turn for the better, Lovelies. Sometimes one little decision can make all the difference in the world. Choose happiness every day, and everything else will begin falling into place. I love you all. Be well, and take care of yourself. Remember, you are perfectly imperfect and you are beautiful.

“Money and wellbeing are closely linked; financial stress can cause or worsen mental and physical health issues, while financial stability improves wellbeing.” Yes. Which is why I wanted to talk more about how money can impact your well-being. With all these different ways to earn an income. Things have become quite pricey. For example, a McDonald’s meal is no longer as cheap as it used to be. Yes, the cost of living is much higher, and the price of an apartment has become intolerable. Luckily, working for a company is a lot more flexible. Allowing for different ways to earn every breath you take. Many people like me enjoy the convenience of working from home. Additionally, now, being a model and an actress is made easier by platforms like YouTube. For instance, I myself am an independent model. But I’m much more.

Yes, Lovelies, I’m much more than a pretty face. I have a dream and I’m determined to make it come true. If you have dreams, don’t let your hardships define you. I just wanted to be authentic and transparent with you all. The last three years of my life have been difficult financially. With me working on my dreams and no longer exchanging my time for money, my finances have really dwindled, and I have personally been struggling with my well-being and mental health. Yeah, some days are easier than others. There are days when I’m too depressed and don’t want to get out of bed. Moreover, there are days when I’m like, “What are you doing? Get a job and forget your dreams.” But I do have jobs, and those are my two businesses, Francesca Etheart INC and Frans Online Business INC. I do various jobs and I’m everywhere. I love that! I love controlling my own destiny. What I don’t love is the impact of my financial problems on my well-being. I need to remember why I wanted to work from home: to write my dreams and model my perfect imperfections. I have come a long way from not even making a penny online to now paying my bills and surviving on my online work. Yes, money is necessary, but not having enough of it doesn’t define you. You can make a whole lot of money and lose it all on a bad business deal, and make it all over again. But your health and mental health are priceless and not so easily restored. I wanted to share this with you all to support you in your time of need. Let you know you are not alone and remind you to keep fighting for your dreams. Like I always say, I’m not a guru with all the answers. I’m just a girl sharing pieces of her perfect imperfections in the hope of helping those in need. I love you and take care. Bye for now.

Francesca Etheart INC

Hi Lovelies, and how are you doing? I hope you are well and safe wherever you are. Today, I wanted to discuss the impact of money stress on your well-being. “Money significantly impacts wellbeing, with financial stress linked to physical and mental health issues like anxiety, poor sleep, and chronic diseases.” Money worries can keep you up all night and be the first thing you think of when you wake up. From rent to groceries everything has a price tag. I’m in beautiful New York, and everything is expensive here. Just rent a lone can take most of your paycheck. Money is not everything, but it is everything.

Yes, some people say money doesn’t bring you happiness. It doesn’t help you find true love. While it is true that some people can be absolutely miserable and be wealthy. Similarly, true love is not defined by how much money you have in your bank account. However, having money is necessary for your mental health and overall well-being. There is not much you can do if you don’t have money. For example, if you are in a relationship, financial problems can lead to many arguments. Nevertheless, even though having money is essential, it is not worth constantly stressing about it. As a matter of fact, the more you worry about not having enough money, the longer you are going to be in your financial situation. You will continually struggle with the daily necessities of life. Instead, I encourage you to seek help. Look for financial assistance online. Also, working a side gig can be beneficial. There is a lot more I would like to say. Stay tuned for part 2. Have a blessed day or night wherever you are, ya.

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Happy birthday to me. Yes, today is my perfectly imperfect day. So many years of living and trying to make all my dreams come true. Having a great well-being will help me to celebrate many more days. If today is your birthday or you are about to celebrate a birthday, awesome. Birthdays are our special day. A celebration of life. To see how far you have come. Boy, I have come so far from no pictures online to a host of pictures. Now, when it comes to my well-being, I can still use a bit of work.

Yes, guys, of course, I’m always authentic with you, even at the grand old age of 43. I’m still trying to find my place in this perfectly imperfect world and thinking about getting therapy for some unresolved issues. Moreover, I learned a bit more about myself just from cutting my hair and starting over. Yes, life and all its beautiful possibilities. Focusing on more important things. At my age, I didn’t need many presents. Some people taking the time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday was fulfilling enough. So, if you are also near my age or just trying to find life’s meaning, you are not alone. My birthday wish is that all of you are doing well. If you have something on your mind and would like some support, please share your beautiful thought in the comments. Have a blessed, gorgeous day or night, wherever you are.

Hello Lovelies. Hope all is well with you. I genuinely care and wish the best for you all. Today, I wanted to continue our discussion about procrastination because there is a lot I want to say about it. “Procrastination is the act of unnecessarily delaying or postponing a task despite knowing there could be negative consequences.” Gosh, that is so true. I keep saving a task for later when I know it has to be done. Which inevitably leads to unnecessary stress. Which is extremely bad for my well-being. The truth of the matter is that later or tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Anything can change within a split second. Knowing our time is limited and the negative consequences of procrastinating. Why are so many of us willing to risk it all?

My self-doubt is linked somewhat to my procrastination. Since when you doubt yourself, and you make excuses to put off the work for later? Then you keep putting it off, and it just never gets done. Lovelies, that is my true story, and one of the main reasons why I’m still not successful. I keep putting off my dreams because I honestly don’t believe I can do it. Wow, what a revelation. Needing accountability is one great reason to start a blog, as your audience holds you accountable. That way, you can’t blame your failures on anything else. Another reason I procrastinate is my fear. Yes, my fear of actually succeeding. Lovelies, doesn’t that sound unbelievable? Why be afraid of something you truly, madly, deeply desire? Yet we all do that, don’t we? Let our fears keep us away from our dreams on the merry-go-round of broken dreams. Lovelies, let’s support each other and help one another stop procrastinating for our well-being, with sweet love. Have a good one.

Hello Lovelies, and how are you all doing today? I’m doing alright —thankfully, I’m doing well. I wanted to apologize for my recent procrastination on my content. The thing is, procrastination is not only counterproductive. “Procrastination can significantly impact well-being, leading to increased stress, anxiety, and even depression.” Moreover, “It can also negatively affect self-esteem and productivity, and lead to missed opportunities and poor time management.” 

Ya Lovelies, while I know when I procrastinate, I can miss out on my productivity for the day. Nonetheless, it is something I always find myself continually doing on the merry-go-round of broken dreams, which is extremely bad for me as I work for myself in my own businesses. Working for myself requires discipline and the ability to get as much work done as possible. What’s more likely is that I don’t get my required work done. Now I’m stressed out, trying to get everything done on short notice. What I have noticed is that my unproductivity is linked to my depression. Lovelies as I have a lot more I would like to say on this topic. Stay tuned for part 2. I will see you all next time with love. Bye take care.

Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing? I hope you are doing well and are healthy. Truly madly deeply. I never forget the actual reason for creating this frantastic blog. To help people who are also going through a difficult situation in life. As I continually face difficult situations, my passion to help is even stronger. I want to share what I’ve learned so you don’t have to go through it yourself.

So, where am I currently in my perfectly imperfect journey? I’ve lost a lot of weight due to stress. I remember these days when people came bothering me about my weight. Now looking back on old pictures, I realize I was still beautiful. Most importantly, I was happy. Now I have started a new relationship. Still slowly working things out. I have some stuff on my end to mend, and luckily, he is patient. I have come to realize the role that being in a supportive relationship can play in your overall well-being.

My overall well-being needs work. I am always honest with you guys and never want to claim that I know all the answers because I don’t. I’m perfectly imperfect, and I’m learning as I blog. This website is a community space to show each other support. I thank you guys for being here with me since 2015. Have a wonderful day or night wherever you are. Take care of yourselves.

Good evening, Lovelies. Today I feel much better. It’s amazing what a breath of fresh air can do for you. It can take your well-being on a ride right to your happily ever after. From reading my other blog posts, you can gather that I love walking and nature as a whole. The natural beauty of waterfalls, the green grass, and the blue skies can be truly breathtaking. You can easily fall in love with nature and give in to its effortless beauty. That’s truly madly deeply beautiful. Having peace and a wellbeing that is incomparable is what I genuinely want for you all.

Yes, Lovelies, what I’ve noticed for myself is that when I don’t go outside, even for a little while, to get a breath of fresh air, it can have an adverse effect on my mood for the entire day. I need to see the sun and the beautiful skies. It doesn’t seem to matter even if it is raining. I just got to get out and about. Can you relate, Lovelies? Something about nature takes me to my happily ever after. I feel good, I feel alive. I can clear my thoughts and heal my heart. So I’m starting a new wellness journey activity. Every day, I will step out, even if it is for a little while. Now you know, being in New York, stepping outside daily can be challenging during the colder months. That will be fun to see what I do then. I have made this decision because, for a while, I have noticed that it is what my body needs. It is always a good idea to listen to your perfectly imperfect body. It can tell you the most beautiful stories and keep you healthy. What are your thoughts, Lovelies? Do you also notice that sometimes you just need to be out in nature? I’m always interested in your thoughts. I believe that having a community that supports and shares helpful tips is terrific, as it helps you never feel alone. Which is and will always be my goal. Have an excellent rest of your day or night wherever you are in the world. Bye, take care, Lovelies.

Hiya Lovelies. I hope this lovely article finds you well. I’m not sure if you’re aware of this, but my wellness posts are based on real-life situations I’m currently experiencing, so they can sometimes be a bit personal. With my branding for Franchy Luv, I share sweet, imperfect pieces with you, hoping to inspire. I genuinely hope to help you and inspire you. With that said, I wanted to talk about a topic near and dear to my sweet heart. I feel overwhelmed and learning how to balance my life with my perfectly imperfect business. “Being overwhelmed negatively impacts overall well-being by causing both mental and physical health issues. “

Ya Lovelies, I do a lot as I have multiple streams of income and work seven days a week. But I’m not complaining, this is what I wanted and decided to do. I said I wanted to work on my own perfectly imperfect dreams, not someone else’s. For the most part, I enjoy working for myself and having the flexibility to choose my own schedule. It can just be overwhelming at times, impacting my well-being and state of mind. This Friday was one such day I had to do trailer checks and lobby checks at AMC theaters. I got home at night and left in the morning. Additionally, I’m expected to attend to some work on my other business activities when I return home. That is the thing about owning a business. You can never truly clock out. You are always on the clock, working, it seems. I have accepted that I can never take the entire day off; I can only take part of the day off. As mentioned before, one thing I have been doing to improve my well-being is taking some ‘me time’ through meditation. Sometimes, doing nothing and watching a movie can also be equally helpful. The primary way to prevent burnout is by maintaining a schedule that supports your overall well-being. Many people don’t truly grasp the importance of mental health and life-sustaining wellbeing. We are always concerned about our physical health. What we fail to realize is that it begins and ends in the mind. So be good to yourself, Lovelies. Grab some of your favorite ice cream and sit down in front of the TV, take a well-deserved wellness break. You are worth it. Have a blessed day or night wherever you are in the world. Bye, take care with love.