Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing? I’m doing okay. Ya, Lovelies, you know I’m always authentically honest with you. This post certainly is no different. All my posts are all heart felt and personal. As I really want to share hard-learned lessons. One hard lesson I’m learning is how housing insecurity can occur even when renting from your parents. “Housing insecurity—which includes unaffordability, poor housing quality, and residential instability—is a critical social determinant of health that acts as a fundamental driver of poor well-being across the entire lifespan.”

Ya, Lovelies, I know I have touched on the topic of homelessness. Homelessness results from housing insecurity. In the expansive, lovely state of New York, the median cost of an average apartment is 2000 per month. It is possible to get a cheaper place, but it will be in a very bad neighborhood. Even some bad neighborhoods can be 2000 per month. With how expensive housing is, it is no wonder that there are a lot of families who are homeless. For instance, since the trains and buses run 24 hours here in New York, that is where a lot of homeless people go to for shelter. Moreover, there are some programs available to help with rent if you are eligible. Being self-employed like me makes it difficult to show my earnings and verify my eligibility. What about people like me? We all need to feel secure in our housing situation and protected if we lose our job prospects. Or other unforeseeable problems in the future. True wellbeing is knowing you have a safe haven to lay your head at night and a place to leave your things. Food, shelter, and water are everyone’s right, regardless of their financial situation. In the future, I would like to help with my business, Frans Online Business INC. I will talk more about that in a future post. Until then, take care of yourself with sweet love. Bye for now.

Hello there, Lovelies, and how are you? I’m doing okay for now. Earlier, I was not doing too well. I was experiencing a really bad mindset. “A poor or scarcity mindset—characterized by beliefs of limitation, fear, and chronic lack—severely degrades mental and physical well-being by fostering constant stress, anxiety, and feelings of unworthiness. This mindset restricts decision-making, causes neglect of self-care, and traps individuals in cycles of depression and strained relationships, limiting both personal and professional growth.

Ya, Lovelies, your mindset is everything. Today, when I woke up, I was just not in a good mood. I was very stressed out and worried. Furthermore, I was unable to get out of bed and start my day. Ya my well-being was taking a really hard beating, seriously. It was just a cycle of negative thoughts and worries about what could go wrong. No good thoughts at all. To the point I almost did not do my daily post for the Dare To Post Challenge. I just wanted to end it all, Lovelies. As it was all-consuming. It’s beginning to scare me to have these thoughts again. I just have to remind myself, ya, this too shall pass. When I get this way, I don’t get much work done, and I lose motivation. The I can do anything feeling is completely gone. I’m sharing this very sensitive story to encourage you to get help. I also show you that you are not alone; you have this community behind you. I have read other blogs in my niche, and I stand out. I share deeply personal, sensitive parts of me with you all in the hope of helping you to go through pain with grace. I’m not an expert, I’m just someone who is going through the same thing as you and learning in the way. I’m truly here for you all. I love you all. Be well, and I will see you next time. Bye for now.

Hey there, Lovelies. How are you doing on this wonderful day? I’m doing alright. I feel good. Here at our very own sanctuary, I want to reiterate that you are perfectly imperfect just the way you are, and that is beautiful, truly. Nevertheless, I do believe in looking your best and putting your best foot forward. “Looking your best and enhancing wellbeing involves a symbiotic relationship where physical self-care, such as nutritious eating, exercise, and intentional styling, boosts confidence, reduces stress, and improves mental health.” When you look good, you will also feel good, and vice versa.

Ya, Lovelies, the time we’re living in, it is difficult to tell the real from the fake when it comes to appearances. Nowadays, if you are not born with the best features, you can easily get plastic surgery if you can afford it, that is. I personally am about natural beauty and accepting all my perfect imperfections. When you see me online and across all my profiles, you are getting the real, authentic Francesca, always. I’m me, accept me, and love me is what I say. After all, I can only be me. Now, that is not to say you should let yourself go and just look like whatever. So many people like to say, ” Don’t judge me.” We all know that we live in a very judgmental world. Where people are constantly judging you by the way you present yourself. I’m not one to say you should care too much about what people think of you. At the end of the day, no one ever really has walked in your shoes and knows what you are going through. They don’t feed you when you are hungry, and they don’t pay your rent either. So don’t look your best for them. Do it for yourself. Glow from the outside like you are glowing on the inside. Look as good as you feel on the inside and take care of your beauty. Which will inevitably help with your overall well-being? For myself personally, I find that when I’m depressed and anxious, I stop taking good care of my appearance. Lovelies, eventually the bad on the inside is going to pour out into the outside. For instance, Ashly Lovelace was an absolutely beautiful girl on the outside, smiling and looking like a beauty queen. Nevertheless, on the inside, she was experiencing a lot of pain. Eventually, the ugliness on the inside begins showing itself on the outside. Lovelies, I would like to continue and share some more information with you tomorrow. Have a blessed rest of your day. See you next time, ya. Bye for now.

Hello there, Lovelies. How do you do? Today I’m having a serious nostalgic moment back into my Franchy past. More specifically, my teenage years. Back when time seemed infinite, and my biggest problem was getting my homework done. Gosh, where does the time go, seriously? No, I’m a 43-year-old woman and owner of two small businesses. Between running my businesses and handling other life events. I never seem to have enough time. Ya, time poverty is nothing to shrug off. “Time poverty—the feeling of having too many tasks and not enough time—severely diminishes well-being, leading to chronic stress, burnout, poor physical health, and lower life satisfaction.”

Today I was in bed, dreaming of all my sweet dreams. Like if I had waited until I was in my 60s to make them come true. Then I thought I don’t even know if I will make it into my 50’s, let alone my 60s. As a matter of fact, even tomorrow is not promised. Ya, Lovelies, let’s go back into time. I’m in bed, going through the mails I have been getting from colleges, inviting me to visit their schools. I also got mail from Coca-Cola and an invite to a pageant in New Jersey. Of course, on my TV was the most popular show of the time: Dawson’s Creek. Lovelies, my childhood is totally over. James Van Der Beek has run out of time. He passed away in the morning today after losing his battle with Colon Cancer. I’m genuinely sad. I’m wishing his family and friends nothing but great things in the future. He left behind 6 young children and a beautiful wife. He called his children the blond army. Which I can definitely see, as they all have beautiful blond hair. That reminds me of the sweet blond girl I saw when I was 11. In this post, I want to dedicate it to James Van Der Beek, my teenage nostalgia. May he be in eternal peace. Lovelies, time poverty is absolutely real. You never know when your time will run out forevermore. Don’t put off your dreams for a future that may not be meant to be. Don’t walk sadly through the rain. Dance excitedly, looking for the rainbow. Time poverty, unlike other poverties in life, is one that, when it goes on for too long, can cost you a century of happiness. Choose happiness; that is something no one can ever take from you. You are worth all the happiness in the world. I have more to share, stay tuned for tomorrow, ya. Bye for now with sweet love.

Hello Lovelies, how do you do? I’m doing okay. Things are not perfect, but I still have faith that everything will sort itself out. With the new year starting anew, I wanted to be in the best possible health. As we are now in month two of the new year, I still want to be at my optimal health. Because without your health, nothing else really matters, truly. For example, the Asian man wins the lottery and is now worried, will he have enough time to enjoy his newfound wealth? “Feeling as though there is not enough time—often called time poverty—is strongly linked to lower subjective well-being,, increased stress, burnout, and reduced physical health.”

Lately, having enough time is all I have been thinking about after watching many self-help videos. As children, we feel that we have an unlimited amount of time to live the life we truly, madly, deeply desire. I remember it being summertime, school out, me bored out of my mind. I would take my unfinished school notebooks and write one of my stories. Daydreaming about the life that I always wanted. Now, as a middle-aged adult, there never seems to be enough time seriously. I do so many different jobs and have different responsibilities. For example, making content for my fan pages and still making time for my boyfriend. Additionally, I manage several YouTube channels with sweet love. Ya, with time, there is an even more sensitive, relevant issue: having enough time for the things that truly matter. Lovelies, let’s discuss this further in our next post tomorrow. I will see you guys later if time permits. As you never know what tomorrow holds. I love you all. Take care of yourself. Bye for now.

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Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing today? I hope all is going well for you, truly madly deeply. Ya things are going okay with me. As long as I wake up to see another day, all is good in my world, truly madly deeply. I was watching a bunch of crime shows. A lot of unexpected victims are suddenly losing their precious lives without any warning. It led me to realize how fragile life can truly be. Like you can be here one second and be gone the next. For instance, the last 30 minutes of you being upset with your partner can be your last. As I mentioned in previous blog posts, things have been really difficult for me. I just was not happy.

Lovelies, I wanted to reiterate that happiness is a choice. You have to choose happiness despite all the hardships you may be facing. We are all on borrowed time. Time keeps going; it doesn’t stop for you. Every moment you spend being sad is time you will never get back. Time is the most important resource of all time and one that is irreplaceable. Every day I wake up and start my day, and next thing you know, with a bat of my eyelashes, the day is done seemingly. I’m not saying that choosing happiness above all will be easy. As a matter of fact, it certainly won’t be easy. I wanted us to give it a go as a family. What I’m referring to, Lovelies, is a challenge that I want us to complete together. Anyone, anywhere in the world, can take this challenge.

Happiness Happily Ever After Challege

For this challenge, Lovelies, it starts tomorrow, 2-12-2026, and ends 12-26-2026. All I want you to do is be happy and live your best life. On 12-26-2026, I will write a post about my own experience and take it from there. This is an international challenge. All are welcome to join. There is no right or wrong way to do this. Just be happy and live your best life ever. If you have any questions or concerns, message me in the comments. All right, everyone, best of luck. On that note, see you all tomorrow. Hope you are ready to change your life. Stay blessed. I love you all. Bye for now.

Hello there, Lovelies. How are you all doing today? Lovelies, have you ever finally gotten what you wanted in life, only to do everything you could to destroy it? Sometimes we can be our very own worst enemy, holding ourselves back from living our dreams. Self-destruction can leave the quietest crime scene, yet have the most everlasting consequences. “Self-destructive behaviors are actions that harm your physical or mental well-being, often stemming from underlying emotional pain, trauma, or mental health conditions like depression or anxiety, serving as maladaptive coping mechanisms for stress, shame, or low self-esteem, and can include substance misuse, self-harm, procrastination, or sabotaging relationships, requiring self-awareness, new coping skills (like mindfulness), and professional help (like DBT) to replace with healthier habits for better overall well-being.”

Lovelies, it is no secret that I suffer from low self-esteem. I was very grateful to start my self-love journey on November 1, 2016. This entire blog is based on this personal journey. There are plenty of inspirational stories and motivational quotes throughout this frantastic site. I have included two additional platforms for connecting with you all. I want our connection to be as authentic as possible. We are all truly a family and are part of this wonderful community. Ya, Lovelies, I have so many dreams and things I wish to accomplish. I have always wanted what most would consider extraordinary. I have a beautiful, brilliant mind. It is very clear that I think differently from other people. Nonetheless, no matter how brilliant my mind is, I always somehow self-destruct. For example, as the new year starts, I’m all excited about changing things and finally living my sweet dreams. Then, as the new year unraveled, I began to self-destruct, and by the end of the year, I had ruined my chances at a better, happier life. Lovelies, does what I say resonate with you? Do you also self-sabotage? When many of us fail, it is so much easier to look outside ourselves when asked what went wrong. Many of us like to use a bad childhood as an excuse for not being able to live our dreams. The truth is, if you look at your life and are not happy with how it’s currently going. You only have yourself to blame. Accountability is needed for success. When we self-destruct, we give up responsibility. We don’t believe we would succeed anyway. So, we do everything in our power to ruin our chances of reaching our very own happily ever after. This year, I want it to be different for us Lovelies. Let’s talk more about that tomorrow. I love you all, be well, and take good care of yourself. Bye for now. Until next time, with sweet love ya.

Hello there, Lovelies, and how do you do? I’m okay, ever so hopeful, ya. Ya, I’m trying to be more positive these days. No need to be sad. This is your life, and you must be in the driver’s seat, driving to your happily ever after. Lovelies, it is essential to take control of your happiness. Happiness is what makes this perfectly imperfect life worth living. Similarly, in order to be happy, you must be in control of your finances, as it can severely impact your well-being. “Financial difficulties severely harm well-being, causing stress, anxiety, depression, and isolation, while also leading to physical issues like poor sleep, headaches, and fatigue, creating a vicious cycle where money problems worsen mental health, and poor mental health makes managing finances harder.”

Yes, Lovelies, being in New York, the beautiful city that it truly is, can be very expensive. Just renting itself can be 2,000 per month. Plus, when you add in groceries and other necities ya financial stress can set in and seemingly never leave. I’m a model and content creator, and going for my dreams has been truly satisfying. Going from not even making 1 cent to paying bills with my online earnings is proof that consistency pays off. However, I still currently have financial stress, so I truly madly deeply know how it impacts my wellbeing. For example, waking up with anxious thoughts and having trouble sleeping. If you are currently facing financial hardship, my heart goes out to you. Life can be extremely challenging at times. I’m here to support you the best I can. I will keep you all updated on my financial situation. When I find a solution, I will share it. As we all deserve financial freedom and to be happy. I know this site is all about loving your perfectly imperfect body. Having financial security can help you better care for your body. However, though money is not everything, it is everything. You need money to take care of all your needs. Not being able to take care of your basic needs, food, shelter, and water, can really impact your well-being. Be well, Lovelies. Comment your thoughts below and get the support you deserve. I love you. I want you to be happy and stress-free. Be kind to yourself. You may not have everything you desire while you are still here. You can work on reaching your happily ever after. Keep fighting for the life that you deserve. Bye, I will see you next time.

Hello there, Lovelies, and how do you do? I myself am doing alright. Just trying my best day by day. As I mentioned in previous posts, things have been hard for me the last few years. Ya, Lovelies, my decision to pursue my dreams has put a huge strain on my finances. Consequently, this has led me to hard times. Which inevitably led me to learning some hard lessons. “Hard lessons often serve as catalysts for improving personal well-being, teaching that true balance requires intentional, sometimes difficult, choices.” “Key lessons include prioritizing self-care over constant busyness, setting firm boundaries to avoid burnout, and accepting that some things—including others’ actions—are beyond your control.”

Lovelies, I struggle with worrying about things out of my control. Even though it makes more sense to not worry. I just don’t seem to be able to stay calm. Speaking of staying calm, there is an app with the same name that I use to support my mental well-being. Calm is very affordable for everyone, which is great. I have used them for many years and will continue doing so. One of the hardest lessons I had to learn is that you can’t help others without first taking care of yourself. Self-care is beautiful and not selfish at all. Afterall you are of no use to me if you yourself are not doing well. So, begin with yourself and slowly spread the love. You know, Lovelies, I’m all about love. However, another one of the hardest lessons I learned is to be careful about whom you give your heart to. Make sure they deserve your love and attention. Lovelies, I thought I would be able to complete my thoughts with this frantastic post. I’m afraid I’m wrong. So, we will finish this tomorrow. Have a blessed day or night wherever you are in the world. Stay safe. I love you. Bye for now.

Hello there, Lovelies. How is the day treating you thus far? Or is it night where you are? I feel like I’m having serious deja vu, saying I can’t believe the first of the month is almost over. It seems that I was just saying that for January 2025. Ya time is flying. One of the biggest lessons that I have learn is that time waits for no one. Whether you are ready or not, it shall pass. When I was younger, I used to be so bored with nothing to do, really. I would think ugh time goes by so slowly. I never considered how time and hard lessons learned can impact my well-being. “Lessons learned significantly impact well-being by teaching self-compassion, the value of experiences over things, setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, prioritizing health (mental & physical), and embracing growth through difficult times, ultimately leading to greater resilience, clarity, and a more intentional, joyful life.”

In the end, we all just want to be joyfully happy. Yes, we want to be wealthy with few problems. Additionally, we want to have the support of our friends and family. Nevertheless, overall, we just want to have a happy, fulfilling life. When I was more into my Franchy life in my mid-30s, I came across a YouTube video. The video stated that we become what we think about. It was simple yet profound. Suddenly, my entire life began playing in my mind. The insecure, shy girl began finding some important life lessons. Then again, in my present life, I came across another video. The video exclaims, “You can’t wait for your happiness to come.” It may never come. You have to choose happiness each and every day. Now, as I type this frantastic post, this statement comes to mind. ” You become what you think about. Choose happiness each and every day.” Lovelies, seriously, it seems that I’m experiencing an epiphany of sorts. I need to explore much further. Therefore, we will continue this tomorrow. Have a blessed one. Be safe out there. Bye, take care of yourself. I love you.