Hello there, Lovelies. How is the day treating you thus far? Or is it night where you are? I feel like I’m having serious deja vu, saying I can’t believe the first of the month is almost over. It seems that I was just saying that for January 2025. Ya time is flying. One of the biggest lessons that I have learn is that time waits for no one. Whether you are ready or not, it shall pass. When I was younger, I used to be so bored with nothing to do, really. I would think ugh time goes by so slowly. I never considered how time and hard lessons learned can impact my well-being. “Lessons learned significantly impact well-being by teaching self-compassion, the value of experiences over things, setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, prioritizing health (mental & physical), and embracing growth through difficult times, ultimately leading to greater resilience, clarity, and a more intentional, joyful life.”

In the end, we all just want to be joyfully happy. Yes, we want to be wealthy with few problems. Additionally, we want to have the support of our friends and family. Nevertheless, overall, we just want to have a happy, fulfilling life. When I was more into my Franchy life in my mid-30s, I came across a YouTube video. The video stated that we become what we think about. It was simple yet profound. Suddenly, my entire life began playing in my mind. The insecure, shy girl began finding some important life lessons. Then again, in my present life, I came across another video. The video exclaims, “You can’t wait for your happiness to come.” It may never come. You have to choose happiness each and every day. Now, as I type this frantastic post, this statement comes to mind. ” You become what you think about. Choose happiness each and every day.” Lovelies, seriously, it seems that I’m experiencing an epiphany of sorts. I need to explore much further. Therefore, we will continue this tomorrow. Have a blessed one. Be safe out there. Bye, take care of yourself. I love you.

Hiya Lovelies. How do you do this wonderful day or night, wherever you are in the world? I’m doing okay, thankfully. I’m working on my happiness and well-being. Today, I want to discuss a familiar topic we all encounter from time to time. That is social media. Let me make it clear: I don’t think social media as a whole is a bad thing—the difference is in how and why we use it. For example, I myself primarily use my social media for my businesses. Yes, I also use it for friends and family. I just mean primarily, my social media is for business. It is imperative that you mind your social media presence as it can significantly impact your well-being. “Social media impacts well-being both positively and negatively, with negative effects including increased anxiety, depression, and poor sleep, often due to social comparison and cyberbullying.”

Yes, Lovelies, social media is a big part of my Franchy life. I believe I’m on almost all social media. Yes, I’m trying to put my brand out there, and social media is one of the best ways to do so for free. However, I also use it to stay in touch with my friends and family. Social media can be a great way to stay connected when used appropriately. Nevertheless, with the ever-increasing prevalence of social media bullying, it is imperative that you monitor your online presence and be selective about who you add to your circle of friends. I’ve heard of stories where a person is bullied so much that they decide it is best to end it all. Lovelies, in my opinion, social media bullying is much worse than real-world bullying. In that you can reach a lot more people, and it is online forever! With the presence of phones and tablets, it’s almost like it is inescapable. Whereas when you were bullied, it was only in the school setting, to keep your well-being in a good place, balance your social media activities. Suppose someone is becoming too intrusive. Tell someone, and get some help. Silence never solves anything. If you feel lonely and want some help, don’t be ashamed to ask. It takes a lot to be strong enough to admit you have a problem and need help. I love you all truly. If you have a story that you feel will be beneficial to our community, please share it in the comment section. I will respond with sweet love and understanding. Remember, you are never alone. I’m here for you always. Please have a great one. I will see you all next time.

I see you are on the merry-go-round of broken dreams once again, sweet, lovely. Your once beautiful blue eyes are covered by self-doubt. Your perfectly imperfect painted fingernails shakily resting on your lap, as you await your next stop to your very own happily ever after. Beautiful, sweet soul angel, your happily ever after has been waiting for you all along. Patiently waiting for you to see the true beauty of your wonderful, sweet dreams. Sweet, lovely, always believe in yourself. Remember to stop dreaming your life and begin living your dream.

Franchys Thought For Tat.

Lovelies, the whole idea for this blog was created by my wonderful, sweet blue dream to just love myself as I am. In fact, loving myself has always been a dream I’ve had over and over again on the merry-go-round of broken dreams. This blog was created at a time when I was going through a really difficult time. I decided to enjoy food to its fullest, and I was getting a lot of negative feedback. People consistently reinforcing that thin was better and I look better that way. What everyone truly madly deeply fails to notice is that I was never happy and had a lot of anxiety. That’s right, when I was bigger, I was happier. Nonetheless, my happiness never mattered. Well, Sweet Lovelies, it truly madly deeply matters to me. Without true happiness, nothing else truly madly deeply matters. Beauties, you can have all the money in the world and be absolutely miserable.

Why be miserable every day is a gift? Every chance you have to stop dreaming your life and begin living your dream is a celebration of your very own happily-ever-after. So Sweet, Lovely, let’s dance, floating in the air. Emojis of heart and sweet kisses disappear and appear as the true meaning of life becomes more apparent. Lovelies, this blog post is for us all. Whenever we are going through a very exciting moment, let us share it here with our own wonderful online family. We can encourage and support each other. Seldom are their good news. All we hear about is other people’s difficulties. Here in our very own happily ever after, no negativity is allowed; nothing but sweet love will bring the blue back in your beautiful eyes. Carpe diem, seize the wonderful day. Don’t dream your life, live your sweet dreams.

Good day, Lovelies. I certainly hope you are doing well today. If the day is not particularly going your way, remember this too shall pass. Similarly, when we lose someone we love, what helps us cope with our broken heart is remembering that this too shall pass. We know that time heals almost all wounds. You know what, Lovelies? I don’t think we ever completely heal. We just learn how to deal with the pain better. That doesn’t change the fact that our well-being is greatly affected. “Losing love profoundly impacts well-being, triggering grief, anxiety, and depression, but healing involves acknowledging your feelings, practicing self-compassion, leaning on support systems (friends, family, therapy), maintaining self-care (exercise, healthy eating), finding distractions, and creating new routines to build stability and rediscover your worth, recognizing it’s a process that takes time and looks different for everyone. “

Yes, ya Lovelies, on this blog, I get very personal. From day one, it was about sharing my own personal self-love journey. I will always be authentic, and that will never change. On that note, I wanted to continue talking about my lost love. A man who has forever touched my heart and freed my soul. Being in love makes life worth living. Every day seems extraordinary. I really agree that it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I believe that love opens you to a completely different experience and helps you notice things you might not otherwise. When suddenly you lose that love, it’s as if the entire world stops, and you lose part of yourself. That is how I felt losing him. Nevertheless, as time passed, I had to move on. I dated a different man. Till this very day, no man has ever made me feel the way he did. To be honest, I don’t think I ever will find such a man who takes my breath away. I’m currently in a relationship. There are some things I have to sort out so we can be together completely. I knew it was important for my well-being to open my heart again and to heal. Arguably, heart aches can be one of the worst pains you ever experienced. Nevertheless, being able to overcome your loveless grief will make you a stronger, determined person. Lovelies, I wanted to inspire you this new year, open your heart to love. No one wants to be alone for the rest of their life. Let that special someone in. Fall in love and dance to your happily ever after. Knowing you are loved will do wonderful things for your well-being. Then everything else will fall into place with sweet love. I love you, Lovelies. Be well. Be happy. Take care of yourself. Bye for now.

Good morning or good night, wherever you are in the world. I hope you are all doing frantastic and are truly happy. Today I wanted to talk about a universal language, the love language that is. Yes, I’m a hopeless romantic and love writing extraordinary love stories. When I hear a lovely love song, I get really deep into the lyrics. Needless to say, the thought of losing someone I love just shatters my soul into a million pieces.”Losing love significantly impacts well-being, causing grief similar to other losses, but healing involves accepting feelings, leaning on support, and prioritizing self-care like exercise, healthy eating, and new routines, while also reflecting on personal needs and seeking therapy if needed for mental health challenges like depression or anxiety.”

Lovelies, when I’m truly madly deeply in love, I will do anything for that special someone I love. I’m very loyal and incredibly loving. Furthermore, when I fall in love, I do it completely. Nothing is really off limits; truly, the sky’s the limit. With that said, I wanted to tell you about a dream I had this morning. It is a story of a lost love. We met when I was 31, and he was 34. I was doing my usual daily walks in the park when he suddenly stopped me. He introduced himself and told me his name. At first, I was not terribly interested. Day after day, I would spend time with him in the park. I really started getting to know him, and he was just as eager to get to know me. He seems to understand and know me as no one else has ever done. Like he really sees me. Then last summer passed, I lost him. That was back in 2014. He asked me how I felt about him, and I lied. I told him I saw him only as a friend, nothing more. That day has forever haunted me, even to this very day. Lovelies, my heart is aching, and I have a lot more things I would like to share. Stay tuned for the continuation. Bye, see you later.

Hello Lovelies. How are you doing? I do hope you all are doing well and that your new year is off to a good start. Next thing you know, it will be the holidays all over again, and we will be welcoming 2027. I don’t know about you, Lovelies, but to me, time is just flying. It just seems like not too long ago. I was a sweet teenager, and now I’m in my 40s. Time is indeed our most valuable resource; it is absolutely free, and everyone takes it for granted. Needless to say, time can really impact your well-being. “Time and well-being are deeply connected: effective time management reduces stress, anxiety, and burnout by creating control and balance, allowing space for self-care, rest, and important activities, while poor time management leads to overwhelm and negative health impacts.”

Lovelies, I’m living my dream life. I work from home and for myself. I’m the owner of two frantastic businesses, Francesca Etheart INC. and Frans Online Business INC. It is really great to work when you want to. Not having a boss breathing down your neck is icing on the cake. However, since you don’t have someone to tell you to get to work, you have to constantly push yourself for greatness. You have to remind yourself to stop doomscrolling on Instagram and Facebook. These sites are built to keep you scrolling and scrolling. Before you know it, you have wasted 2 hours of your life that you can never get back. I was on YouTube yesterday, just checking my account and seeing how my business is going. When I came across a channel with older people teaching lessons to the younger generation. They talk about what truly, madly, deeply matters. They mention thinking they had enough time and realizing they did not have as much time as they thought. Stories of regrets with should’ve, would’ve, and could’ve silently dancing in the air. Nevertheless, the primary message was not to waste your time on unimportant things. Time is the most valuable resource we often misuse. We all have 24 hours in a day. Yet some of us are living in big Mansions, living a life of luxury. While others are in the street, not sure where their next meal will come from. The main reason being how they use their time. Lovelies, speaking of time. I realize this blog will take more time than I anticipated. Stay tuned for more inspiration tomorrow. I love you. I appreciate you spending your precious time here with me. Bye, take care.

Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing? I hope all is going well. I wish you all the best New Year’s ever. Wow, I can’t believe I started this blog back in 2015. I have changed so much. As I’m sure you also have changed. I want you guys to make 2026 a New Year that you will never forget. This will be the year that you truly live the life you desire. You are the captain of your ship. You alone are at the driver’s seat of your life. Be proactive to achieve your happily-ever-after.

I started the New Year with a deep reflection on my life, the past year, and what I wanted to accomplish this year. I found I was very reactive. I was the victim and poor me. I blamed my mother and grandmother for not being there for me when I needed them and for not believing in me. The truth of the matter is, I did have a bad childhood. My mother and grandmother were unfit at times. They contributed to my low self-esteem. I don’t hate them because they made me the strong woman I am today. For instance, I had to take care of myself since I was 16. Gosh, I have been through a lot, and I’m still here. Yes, I have been hurt. Lied to. Mistreated. Cheated on and a lot more to be frank. I’m always authentic with you guys. I share very personal information just because I want to help and inspire you all. As usual, I’m getting quite emotional and have a lot more to say, so I will finish this tomorrow. Before I go, I just wanted to leave some inspiring quotes. To help inspire a whole new direction in life. Quotes to love by:

1. “Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom to climb to the top.”
2. “Sometimes not knowing all the right answers makes you the smartest person in the world.”
3. “Don’t dream your life, live your dream.”
4. “When life hurts the most, it means you truly have the biggest heart.”
5. “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know which one is sweeter until you decide to give love a chance.”
6. “As long as your beautiful heart is in the right place, everything will be alright.”
7. “Love is so beautiful, but what becomes of a broken heart?”
8. “Live like today is your last day, and one day you will be right.”
9. “Money is just a tool. Use it wisely and pay your last fare to the merry-go-round of broken dreams.”
10. “Fight for the life that you want or lose to the life that comes easy.”

I really hope you find the quotes inspiring and enjoyable. Make this the year. As next year is not promised. I love you, Lovelies. Happy New Year.

Good day, Lovelies. How are you doing? I’m doing well, just enjoying my life. Lovelies, I love sharing my perfectly imperfect life with you all. I share special sweet pieces of me with you all in the hope of being a positive inspiration in your life. Let me be honest, my sharing has not always been as consistent as I would like. For instance, I have gone months without posting. It is just that I do a lot and am busy. Nevertheless, I do understand the correlation between success and consistency. It can mean the difference to a consistently happy well-being. “Consistency is crucial for well-being because it  builds stable routines, reduces stress, fosters self-trust, and creates sustainable healthy habits in areas like sleep, nutrition, and exercise, leading to better physical and mental health, emotional stability, and a sense of accomplishment, proving that small, regular efforts compound for big, lasting results, far more effectively than sporadic perfectionism.” 

Ya, Lovelies, I’m on a lot of social media sites and have many videos and pictures of me online. I remember being 18 and not even having a single picture of myself online. Now you do a Google search, and you will find lots of pictures. One of the reasons my brand is so well defined is my consistency. My brand of self-love is strongly associated with me. Which I absolutely love. I love people being able to find me from all over the world and me helping them. Lovelies, one consistent theme about my life is that I want to help and spread love. Similarly, one consistent theme with a happy, healthy wellbeing is self-acceptance and eliminating stressors to promote an overall happy, happily ever after. Everything in life requires consistency in order to strive. Having a healthy, happy well-being is no different. You have to work on it each and every day. Never giving up, no matter how difficult it is, truly madly deeply. I find it very helpful to keep a journal to keep track of your perfectly imperfect thoughts. To help discover your triggers and get the help you desire. Furthermore, I wanted to say thank you so much for the support that I have been getting. You truly help more than you know. I promise from here on out I will be consistent, as I want to be here for you all. Yes, I know life is difficult; that is why we have each other. This wonderful community of love and acceptance is your safe haven to a happily ever after. Have a great day or night wherever you are. I love you. Take care of yourself and be well. Bye for now.

Hello Lovelies. Hope all is going well for you this lovely Christmas Day. It’s a magical day, and as such, should be a truly happy day for all. No, that does not mean everything is going perfectly well. It just means you are willing to not worry about your struggles just for one day. I know it won’t be easy at all, but it will most certainly be worth it if you find yourself alone on this Christmas Day. You are in luck, for today, we, as a lovely family community, will be spending the day together. You are never alone, as we are forever here for each other. Yes, I truly, madly, deeply mean that from the bottom of my lovely, Franchy heart.

Today is a special post. I will not be doing my regular postings on Christmas Day, as I say it is truly a magical day filled with love. Today, I wanted to share a story to bring in the holiday spirit. To put a smile on your sweet faces. Let’s all get under the covers, with our friendly mug in hand, drinking our favorite drink. Let’s escape to our happily ever after, and let’s enjoy Franchy Lovely Story Time. Yes, from time to time, I like to take it back to where it started. My love for writing is always with me. I have a big imagination and would like to share it all with you. I hope you all enjoy it. Merry Christmas, my lovely online family. I love you all so much. Truly madly deeply.

Before I tell you the story, please read this wealth prayer to help you out of a bad situation. I know life is hard and unfair. We all need hope and something to believe in. Here is the wealth prayer, believe it so it will work: “I pray today my financial situation will change forevermore. Let me have the freedom and peace my heart truly desires. Let me be healthy and see many more sweet years. Let me be wealthy to my heart’s content.” Here you go, Lovelies, a nice wealth prayer to help you through a difficult situation. PS, the more you read and believe it, the more powerful it will truly be. Are you ready for the story? This shall continue tomorrow. Stay tuned for Part 2. See you all very soon, ya. Bye for now.

Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing today? I wanted to say that I appreciate the last few days of sharing my authentic story with you all. This lovely community is all about love. Sharing stories of perseverance and self-determination in the hope of inspiring one another. Stories of never giving up, no matter how hard things become. It’s during our most difficult times that we truly know what we are capable of. Lovelies, I have been all over the internet. Hearing about different stories. Stories of unimaginable wealth as well as heartbreaking stories of poverty. I’m from one of the poorest countries. I have had a good amount ot money in my bank account as well as barely scraping by. I’m working to accumulate a good amount of wealth so I can help others.

At my core, I’m a people pleaser. Always trying to make people happy and feel good, even at my own expense. I’m a kind soul trying to spread love and unity. Even as I experience my own hardships and self-doubt, I still manage to smile and find ways to help others. Lovelies, there are families in hotel rooms celebrating their Christmas. They are unable to celebrate the holidays the way they truly desire. My sweet heart goes out to them. If you are also experiencing a hard time, have faith that everything will be okay in the end. Sometimes we have to be at our worst to see our true beauty. Lovelies, I catch myself feeling bad when I don’t see the amount of money I would like to see in my bank account. I know the life that I want to live, and I see how far I’m from my very own happily ever after. Lovelies, I have forgotten to think about how far I have come in my self-love journey. I see a beautiful girl with blue eyes consistently working on her sweet dreams. I have a gift, and I want to use my knowledge to help you all. If you are spending this holiday by yourself, you are no longer lonely; you have this wonderful community behind you. We are a lovely online family—Lovelies from my family to yours. I hope you have a frantastic Christmas. Take care of yourself with sweet love. Bye for now until next time.