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FRANCHYS DAILY DOSE OF SELF LOVE DAY TO YOUR HAPPILY EVER AFTER.

Sometimes your true natural beauty is never quite fully realized. For last years past of broken dreams has created an eternal mist of many broken promises. So much so you accidently hesitantly got on the merry go round of broken dreams. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel why can’t you just see? You are so beautiful that words simply doesn’t suffice. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel I see you staring at your wonderfully beautiful lovely reflection. While your perfectly imperfect reflection truly madly deeply begins to dissipate to truly madly deeply reveal inevitably the whirlwind of many broken hearts. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel you are visually pleasing and strong. You’ve worked eternally hard to create your very own happily ever after. Sweet Lovely seize the beautifully wonderful day. Never stop dreaming and believing. Don’t dream your life live your dream mmmmmmmm ya.

guten Morgen (Good morning) World Fitters. Good morning to you from Germany.

Hi Lovelies, how are you? I’m doing much better today actually. Today I finally venture out doors to my very own happily ever after ya. I must admit not going out is totally unnatural for me. Moreover it is not good for my perfectly imperfect health either. Lovelies as I mentioned on an earlier post the reason I have been staying home was because I have been depressed. Some people think you can just snap out of it and just smile. Nevertheless I’ll have you Lovelies know that is certainly not the case. As I truly madly deeply wanted to be out and about enjoying my Franchy life. Depression is a very serious disorder that you should truly consult with your doctor Sweet Lovelies. Never feel you are alone and no one would get you. I’m always here for you Lovelies. Ya Lovelies so I wasn’t depress today and I was able to dress up and look cute to head out to the park near my home. I feel absolutely amazing that I can say that I looked good today without any self doubt. Sweet Lovelies truly madly deeply realizing my own natural beauty has been my greatest gift to myself thus far seriously.

Sometimes your true natural beauty is never quite fully realized. For last years past of broken dreams has created an eternal mist of many broken promises. So much so you accidently hesitantly got on the merry go round of broken dreams. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel why can’t you just see? You are so beautiful that words simply doesn’t suffice. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel I see you staring at your wonderfully beautiful lovely reflection. While your perfectly imperfect reflection truly madly deeply begins to dissipate to truly madly deeply reveal inevitably the whirlwind of many broken hearts. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel you are visually pleasing and strong. You’ve worked eternally hard to create your very own happily ever after. Sweet Lovely seize the beautifully wonderful day. Never stop dreaming and believing. Don’t dream your life live your dream mmmmmmmm ya. Ya Lovelies today I did a search for Jessica Simpson, Beyoncé Knowles, Christina Malian, and Rihanna. Lovelies I was truly madly deeply searching for a way off the merry go round of broken dreams. I remembered when I first searched for these beautiful Lovelies I was in my early twenties. I was young I was beautiful and yet I just could not see. I just remember putting myself down and telling myself how much better these ladies looked then me. Now when I think of how strongly against myself I truly was I want to cry. My thoughts were so fractured and unrealistic. I always loved magazines growing up and wanted to be on the perfectly imperfect front page as well. Nonetheless magazines also sometimes place unnecessary pressure on so many young teens. The models are absolutely beautiful and you’re thinking something is wrong with you as you don’t look this way. Which is how Francesca Etheart INC is different. I celebrate perfect imperfections and love them all the same mmmmmmmm ya. I model my perfect imperfections to learn to truly love all of me. I model for my own website and show natural beauty is the best kind of beauty. Additionally I have my very own model pages where I can show case my natural beauty. It is really amazing I’m a model heading to my 40s. I truly madly deeply want you Lovelies to know you can be beautiful at any age. You are beautiful Sweet Lovelies and I love you just as you are and nothing less. Have a blessed day mmmmmmmm ya.

Bye,

Modeling my perfect imperfections 💕💕💕💕😍😍😍😘😘😘🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

FRANCHYS DAILY DOSE OF SELF LOVE DAY TO YOUR HAPPILY EVER AFTER.

Sometimes you got to lose it all to gain back the self love you so desperately needed. With last years past of broken dream never too far behind as you ride on the merry go round of broken dreams. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel all these years you had your blue eyes closed eternally forevermore. Not realizing your own worth not seeing your true natural beauty. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel always believe in yourself no matter what. I know it wont be easy nor will it last forever. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel you got to truly madly deeply fight for the life you want. Work hard eternally more if you must. Don’t dream your life live your dream mmmmmmmm ya.

Xin chào (Good morning) World Fitters.

Hi Lovelies, how are you? I’m doing well just trying to live the best life I possibly can. I hope you all are doing pretty well yourselves. Lovelies this blog is all about my perfectly imperfect self love journey. My self love journey have truly madly deeply taken me on a roller coaster ride. Ya Sweet Lovelies there have been many ups and downs. A lot of triumphs and perfectly imperfect failures. Moreover there have also been many loses as well. Lovelies every so often you have to lose everything to get back everything. For instance through out the many years that I truly madly deeply hated the way I looked I lost everything. If I truly had a clear hindsight to how my life would turn out I would have changed immediately Lovelies. However I realize how much I have gained from losing everything. It has made me into the hard working women I’m today.

Sometimes you got to lose it all to gain back the self love you so desperately needed. With last years past of broken dream never too far behind as you ride on the merry go round of broken dreams. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel all these years you had your blue eyes closed eternally forevermore. Not realizing your own worth not seeing your true natural beauty. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel always believe in yourself no matter what. I know it wont be easy nor will it last forever. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel you got to truly madly deeply fight for the life you want. Work hard eternally more if you must. Don’t dream your life live your dream mmmmmmmm ya. Ya Lovelies I have been thinking about my perfectly imperfect life lately. Too much should’ve, could’ve, and would’ve melody of many broken promises playing on the merry go round of broken dreams. Lovelies I truly madly deeply have lost a lot. So many tears from last years past of broken dreams to cry me a river into my very own happily ever after. Nevertheless it took me losing everything to know my very own perfectly imperfect self worth. We are all worth every bit of happiness World Fitters. We all truly madly deeply deserve to live the life we truly madly deeply always wanted. Lovelies I have lost everything so you don’t. Learn from my last years past of broken dreams. Stop dreaming your life and begin living your dream. Never say you will do it tomorrow because perhaps tomorrow will never come. Have a blessed day Lovelies be safe. I know the Corona virus is still out there closing blue eyes forevermore. Take care and get the help you truly need. Asking for help turns out takes a lot of perfectly imperfect strength. Strength not too many Lovelies have. I love you all and be well.

Bye,

2021 FRANCHYS IMPORTANCE OF BEING TRUE TO YOURSELF.

The Continuation:

Annisa what do you mean you are going to America? Annisa Marshanda held out the letter excitedly to her mother. Her mother gently took the envelope and begin reading slowly as she was not yet too good at reading in English. She smile and wrapped her arms around her beautiful daughter and said congratulations I’m very proud of you darling. Thank you mom Annisa said grinning from ear to ear. We must celebrate Anna. When dad gets home later today I will tell him the great news and we all will go to dinner as a family. You can invite Arief we all know how much he enjoys eating my mom said giggling softly. Have you also told him the great news Anna asked mom? No mom not yet but I will tell him soon. I’m sure he will really be happy as he is the one that encouraged me to apply. Ok Sweetheart I have to finish fixing our meal we all will talk about this later as a family she said before kissing me good bye.

She is really happy and proud of herself mmmmmmmmmm ya 💕💕💕💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😍😍😍😍

Story 3 Part 2 Annisa Marshanda and Arief Family Is Everything. You Are My Everything.

Interlude:

Annisa Marshanda her father calls out to her. I’m coming dad I said somewhat nervously. No Anna she thought to herself? Her dad usually says her whole name when she is in some kind of trouble. Growing up there certainly were no shortage of that. I was constantly trying new things and seeing what the consequences may be despite stern warnings from my parents. I’m very different from my siblings as I’m seriously truly unfearful of many things. Even my brothers were no match for me to the dismay of my mother. Fortunately eventually my family were truly able to accept me and all my perfect imperfections. Everyday I was told I’m so special and beautiful.

I slowly walk into the living room space to greet my father with a kiss and to ask how was his day. He said he had a very busy day and was very happy to be home with his family. As he said this my whole family looked up from whatever they were doing and they all smiled knowingly ya we are a very close family. Honey my mother softly added did you want to discus something with Anna? Oh yes my father said I read your letter from New York. I have to say I’m very proud of you at getting into a very prestigious school such as Juilliard. I don’t know if your mom told you that when we first met she wanted to be a very famous actress then her plans changed when she became a mother. We got married young to make our families happy and now here we are. Oh no mom never told me that I responded with a smile and curiosity shining from my blue eyes. Tell me mom did you ever wonder what life would be like if you didn’t ever get pregnant? Yes darling of course I did said my mom with a hint of nostalgia in her beautiful blue eyes. Nevertheless being a mother is truly a blessing and I simply would not have it any other way my mom said smiling. Where is this New York ask my father? I really hope it is not too far away from your family. Yes daddy New York is very far it is all the way in the west side of the world. What my father said? Then you simply can not go Annisa. Come now darling this is really a good opportunity for Anna and we can not stand in her way said my mother. Lets discuss this during dinner at the local farmers restaurant. Anna call Arief to meet us there. Ok mommy see you soon I have to ready myself.

To be continued until next time Lovelies 💕💕💕🌹🌹

Beautiful Indonesia 💕💕

Happy Self Love Birthday Now and forevermore.

Sometimes it is the littlest commodity that can create the most beautiful wonderful eternity. Yet still with every moment things truly madly deeply begin changing for the better. Your very own perfectly imperfect happily ever after no longer seems so far away and unattainable. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel for you have finally open your beautiful wonderful blue eyes to all the wonderful possibilities that this beautiful wonderful life has to offer. You vow to truly stop dreaming your life and begin living your dream. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel this is only the beginning. Wont you go outside and have a wonderful twirl and twist out in the storm of your perfectly imperfect life? After all that wonderful frolic you can now finally create your very own happily ever after ending. You are truly madly deeply beautiful smile for me. I just want to know you are truly happy. I love you now and forevermore.

Franchys a special day indeed.

Hi Lovelies how are you all doing today? I doing great actually thank you. I truly hope you all are doing frantastic mmmmmmmmm ya. Lovelies 6 years ago on exactly this Franchy day loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com was created. Back then I was just 32 years old with eyes as blue as the beautiful wonderful blue skies. I was truly madly deeply tired of hearing how much better I looked when I was thinner. Nevertheless I kept hearing the echo of the many broken promises of last years past of broken dreams. There were many nights I cried myself to sleep not feeling beautiful or attractive. Peoples rude comments were certainly not helping me love myself any more better. Then one day I begin wondering if anyone else was feeling this deep dark emptiness from deep within their souls? So I brought loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com and decided to truly madly deeply give it a go. Now here we are 6 years later.

This was the beginning lets write the endings Lovelies. This is how the site use to look. I truly madly deeply appreciate all your wonderful support mmmmmmmmm ya 😍😍💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹🌹💖💖💖💖😘😘😘😘🌹🌹🌹🌹

Six years and counting to our own special happily ever after.

Six wonderful years World Fitters. I’m so proud of myself at the amount of time I truly dedicated to this wonderful beautiful blue blog of hope. There is now really a lot of articles to get lost in. Thousands upon thousands of motivational words to help you through your darkest days mmmmmmmmm ya. Lovelies I promise you all as long as I’m able to breath I will keep my dream (this blog) alive and well. This is our special day lets celebrate till our heart is truly content. From the bottom of my Franchy heart I thank you all for all your lovely support through the years. May we have many more. I love you all have a blessed day mmmmmmmmm ya.

Bye,

2021 A Self Love Poem From Me to You.

Hi Lovelies how are you all doing? I’m doing well trying to do the very best that I can ya. I truly madly deeply hope you are doing well too. Today I wanted to share my poetry with you all. As you all may know it is my dream to publish many books. Until then I will share my poetry with you all via my blogs. Visit https://www.myearninglifegog82.com/ and Franchys Poems and Short Stories (writingmyverybeststory.blogspot.com) for more great poetry. I truly madly deeply love you all. Let me know what you think leave me a lovely comment below mmmmmmmmmm ya.

Enjoy this wanderlust of my Poetry Sweet Lovelies:

I see you Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel your blue eyes are glistening full of many wonderfully beautiful hopes and dreams.

Though I know last years past of broken dreams has never been too kind.

With the merry go round of broken dreams never too far behind patiently waiting for any misstep or perhaps a fall from right out of haven.

Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel for haven is what you truly madly deeply are.

A face right out of a magazine and a body with curves nothing like the highest mountains I have ever seen.

Nevertheless each and every night you close your beautiful blue eyes that are stained with self doubt and lack of faith deep within your soul.

Why do you cry Sweet Lovely? If you truly madly deeply are not happy with your very own happily ever after get off the merry go round of broken dreams forevermore.

Don’t dream your life live your dream. For this is your life and you must live the life that you truly want now and eternally forevermore.

This life is short and full of many unpredictability. With tomorrow never being promised and every breath could righteously be your very last.

Always love yourself Sweet Lovelies. I love you.

From Francesca Etheart with sweet love: This poem is dedicated to anyone going through a hard time. Have faith things will get better all you have to do is just believe in your dreams. For nothing last forever not even this difficult time you are going through. Open you blue eyes to all the beautiful wonderful possibilities that is this perfectly imperfect life of yours. Always remember to be blue, be you.

Franchys Daily Dose Of Self Love day 65

Sometimes the ultimate epiphany is being able to look at your life through a glass with no judgment without an attempt to change. For then we truly are able to see ourselves through Gods eye.

By Francesca Etheart, for your well being

Good morning World Fitters

Today is promised to be a very busy day. I have a lot of blogging to do and other important things to tend to. Furthermore, I’m waiting for a new job to let me know whether or not I got in. As I need the extra job so I can earn more money. In the past, I applied for many jobs online. I got rejected over and over again. It took a lot of courage to get back up and try again and I’m glad I did. 🙂 When we don’t get the job of our dreams it is easy to blame ourselves and try to figure out what we did wrong. We are full of so much judgment and disappointment that we see our selves through an obstructed glass.

Sometimes the ultimate epiphany is being able to look at your life through a glass with no judgment without an attempt to change. For then we truly are able to see ourselves through God’s eye. We all can be so hard on ourselves at times. Not willing to accept that everyone makes mistakes and are not perfect. What makes us strong is getting back up each time we fall. So you didn’t get this job there is always a second and even perhaps a third chance. Being understanding instead of judgemental is wonderful for your mental health and your overall well being. Give yourself a break you did your very best that is what counts. I want you to be happy World Fitters be good to yourself. Have a great day.

Bye,

Franchys Daily Dose Of Self Love day 31

Sometimes it really can just be Deja vu as shatter pieces of your soul is being played for your subconscious mind over and over again.

By Francesca Etheart, for your well being

Hello there World Fitters.

Today was another extraordinary day I was alive to see another day praise God. After my morning meditation, I went on my job sites to read some emails about some new updates. Drinking some tea you know just relaxing as I work. On one of my extra money sites, I read a post saying that 2019 is already flying by. I believe it is true 2019 is already flying by. Next, thing you know it will be the holidays again. It will be Deja vu all over again.

Sometimes it really can just be Deja vu as shatter pieces of your soul are being played for your subconscious mind over and over again. Sometimes as I’m going about my day as normally as possible I’d have this eerie feeling as if I have already gone through this before. Is this life of ours a whole scenic of Deja vus? For instance, each of our life cycles is scheduled for us to be young and then to reach our old age. This has happened time after time it’s how this world of ours is repopularized. This world is beautiful full of the unknown. Always know that you are loved and are cared for world fitters. Don’t be afraid of the unknown get to know it. I hope my daily dose of self-love is helping you in getting to know me better. Have a great day or night in the world, love you.

Bye,

Deja Vu self love over and over again.

Franchys Daily Dose Of Self Love day 3

Sometimes you got to listen to your body as it can tell you the most interesting stories.

Hola, World Fitters!

Today I had to take an extra day off from work as I was still not feeling well and was pretty drowsy from the medication. My body said take it easy so I did just that yesterday. Sometimes you just have to listen to your body and give it the love and attention that it deserves. Many people think body positivity is about being in love with your body at any size and it is. However, to me, it is also about having a relationship with your body and really getting to know every crevice that makes up your body.

Not too many people can say they truly know their body well. Well, I can! I know every scar and stretch mark that lines my body. This body realization is from an unhealthy fixation of my body. I would constantly look at my body of which I hated, I thought I had the ugliest body full of imperfections. Now I know differently, I love all the imperfections that is me. World Fitters get to know your body, love your body.

Thirteen Pounds Of Weight Loss Freedom

Good day World Fitters!

I’m happy to let you guys know I’ve lost 13 pounds so far during my weight loss journey. I know, I know 13 pounds doesn’t seem like much it certainly doesn’t seem like something that I need to celebrate. Wrong, you should celebrate any pounds lost because losing weight is not easy.

Loving me, that’s the way to be.

It certainly wasn’t easy saying goodbye to my favorite foods or getting my butt up and exercising when I didn’t really want to. You know sometimes you want to relax and grab your favorite food and enjoy life. That was my intentions when I first decided to stop starving myself. I didn’t intend on putting on as much weight as I did. In my highest recorded weight I was 173 pounds at 5’5 when I was thin I was approximately 5’3 130 pounds that is a total of 43 pounds of weight gain.

Wow World Fitters I can’t believe I just told all of you my weight. For many months my weight gain have been a source of great shame and regret. Many people kept openly telling me about their disappointment in my weight gain. Now my weight gain is a source of great strength and perseverance. I had to persevere despite all the negative opinions I was getting. It is my body my business plain and simple, I don’t care about what others think anymore.

World Fitters don’t care about what others think either. Truth be told when it comes to people opening their wallet to help you no one will volunteer their money. All they want to do is explode your head with all their opinions. World Fitters it took me a long time to trully love and appreciate all of my flaws. If you are not there yet don’t worry you will get there. I hope that each blog that I post bring you closer to loving your perfectly imperfect body. I love you all, thank you for joining me here I will see you all next time.

Stay Bless,

Bye

Body Positivity Corissa Edition ??

Hello World Fitters!

How are you? Me I’m fine this lovely early morning, writing to you guys. I like to think loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com is a safe heaven for all body types. If you want to lose weight that’s great and if you want to stay at your perfectly imperfect weight that’s fine too, beauty does not come with a specific size. However you wouldn’t know that with the way the media glorify thinness.

One blogger is fed up with today’s standard beauty, her name is Corissa Enneking. Normally I agree with Corissa we should all love our bodies for the perfect imperfection that they are.  What am I talking about Corissa is the best blogger? Yes I agree I enjoy her blog “Fat Girl Flow” with which she blogs about finding clothes for larger size women. Nevertheless one of her videos talking about if you want to lose weight and join weight watchers you are not being body positive have changed my view of her. What???? So If you want to better your health you’re are not body positive? To me that makes absolutely no sense,  In my opinion wanting to better your health is the most frantastic way to show love to your body. Perhaps knowing more about her life will give us a better insight into why she feels the way she does about dieting.

Just who is Corissa Enneking? Corissa is a 30 something plus size women living in the midwest, USA. She currently reside in a house with her husband with whom they share it with their dog and cat affectionately called Kanka and Meouse. Another thing worth knowing about Mrs Enneking is that she loves nature and adores every artifact that makes it as lovely as it is. For instance  rocks, dirt, flowers, animals, and sunshine etc……. Corissa decided to create fatgirlflow.com after receiving a lot of support from the “fat community.” “The fat community welcomed me with open squishy arms.”

It’s this very support that body positive communities encourage that got a lot of people rub in the wrong way about what Corissa say body positivity is not. I’m sure many people are thinking who gives Corissa the authority to say what body positivity is not? She made it seem like in other for someone to be body positive they have to take a class and get a certificate in other to say they are body positive. Huh????? The whole point of body positivity is to feel comfortable and be yourself, how can you be that way if you have to think am I being body positive now? I’m sorry I don’t agree with Corissa on this matter no one should be excluded from being body positive because they decided to lose weight.

What do you think, do you agree with Corissa? As I mention before I don’t agree with her, however I respect her opinion. We all are entitled to our opinions. Most importantly we all are entitled to love our perfectly imperfect bodies. I trully hope you feel safe to be yourself, I’m always here for you either way. Have a great week, see you next time.