Hi Lovelies, I wanted to tell you about a dream that I had today. It was about my modeling and acting. It gives me the most wonderful feeling. I was so high on life. So happy. That is how it feels to live the life you want. Not living for other people. But doing exactly what your heart desires without any fear. I suddenly become very awear off past mistakes. Past misunderstanding. Do you take your dreams to heart, Lovelies? Do you think dreams have any true meaning? You know life can throw the biggest curveballs, and you are always in a position of catching every last one of them if only you believe in yourself.

Simply believing in yourself is not always easy. Sometimes you may be surrounded by people who put you down and make you doubt yourself. Nevertheless, I believe you can always be your own worst enemy. Stopping yourself from achieving your dreams. Keeping yourself from reaching your happily-ever-after. I say this at the height of the new year. You still have time to achieve all your goals. Many of us give up on our resolutions by the time we reach February. The reason I’m sharing this sweet, helpful information is that we all need to be reminded. Life often gets in the way, and we forget again. Next thing we know, we are 68 and retired with not much to show. The right time is always now because that is all that is promised to us. None of us is promised tomorrow. So ya just sharing again, hoping to inspire. That dream needed to be shared just in case you needed to hear this. I love you. Here is a poem from me to you.

I slowly opened my blue eyes and sat up, mesmerized by the sight before me.

For my last years, past of could’ve, should’ve, and wouldve staring directly at me.

Singing the saddest song of what could’ve been. Crying a melody of what should have been.

Each one is a memory of what would have been. Then suddenly, a mirror of last summer’s past appeared

before me. I see the little girl of last summer’s past. All forgotten and pleading with me.

Please, Sweet Lovely, remember me. The young girl who would run into the rain and dance for eternity.

Not a worry in sight. Don’t dream your life, live your dream. Please don’t forget your dreams.

Never ever give up, no matter what. Now you will go back to sleep and become the woman you always

wished to be.

This dream is just a warning of what could be. Good night, my darling. Wake up to your happily ever after.  

Good day, Lovelies. It is a cold, snowy day here in wonderful New York. I’m currently under the covers typing my sweet thoughts to you. Today I was about to start my waking hour as I usually do. Worrying about everything and nothing at all. I was very much tempted to be sad and depressed. Thankfully, I decided to choose happiness. Is happiness really a choice? “Happiness is often considered a personal, daily choice to focus on positive perspectives, purpose, and gratitude, directly impacting overall well-being.” Today, Lovelies, I want to delve deeper into choosing happiness even in the face of adversity.

Ya Lovelies I have had a lot of adversaries in my Franchy life. A lot of things in my life simply went wrong. Moreover, many people take advantage of my sweet heart. If I want to, I can choose to be angry, full of hate. I can retaliate and start hurting people because I want them to feel my pain. Nonetheless, I choose to be happy. Our time is truly limited. Tomorrow is never promised. That time you are not choosing happiness could be the last choice you will get to make. That’s not to say that choosing happiness will be easy. It most certainly won’t. Life could decide to throw the biggest curveball your way. For instance, I have experienced some of my biggest hardships when I had decided to choose happiness. Believe me, I understand all about the test of life. It’s the one time it is not about passing or failing. Rather, it is about surviving. Lovelies, I wanted to tell you about two different people whose lives ended unexpectedly. I don’t have enough time. I will continue tomorrow. See you all very soon. Bye, take care with sweet love.

Good day, Lovelies. How are you all doing this lovely frantastic Monday? To be rather frank, I’m not doing too well today. I’m thinking, shall I be up front with you guys? Is there such a thing as being too authentic? You know what this site is all about: sharing with the community so we can all get the support we deserve. So ya I will share with you all about my perfectly imperfect day.

Anxiety is define as: “Anxiety is a normal feeling of worry or fear in response to stress, triggering the body’s “fight-or-flight” response with physical signs like a racing heart or sweating, but it becomes a disorder when persistent, overwhelming, and interferes with daily life, often involving excessive worry, panic, and avoidance, with types including GAD, Panic Disorder, and Phobias, treatable with therapy and lifestyle changes.” It feels like a 600-pound person is on your chest, and you are having problems breathing. Today I woke up with an excessively worrying mind. So many thoughts were going through my mind like I was on a bullet train in Japan. I felt trapped, like there was nothing I could do about it. Like there was no hope in sight. Suddenly, my mom and this man were coming downstairs. Trying to solve the problem brewing upstairs.

It is always great to remind yourself that we all have problems and there is always hope. Never feel ashamed or like you are a burden. To continue the story, the man went to the boiler room, then my room, and was able to resolve the issue. Over time, I realize that my anxious mind just wants the problems to be resolved. We all want our problems to be fixed. I just want to help Lovelies truly madly deeply. On that note, I would like to offer a service that I’m providing for free. I feel like all the things I viewed as negative are really something I can make into a good thing by simply changing my mindset. I have a gift, and I want to share it. I will be providing this service in my Facebook group “Franchys Luv and Acceptance For The World.” I will write an update when I’m ready to begin. I don’t mind suffering so I can share. How can you help if you never suffer? Similarly, you can’t have the rainbow without the rain. Alright, Lovelies, today was an eye-opening and painful day. Yes, ya I go there. It is all worth the pain if my suffering taught you a lesson. Have a good one, and I will see you all next time. Bye, take care.

Hello, my sweet Lovelies. I do hope that you are doing exceptionally well and are truly happy. Today, I wanted to discuss a topic that always brought anxious feelings and still does. I’m referring to aging. I know many people say it is a blessing to be given the opportunity to age. Which, of course, is true. It is not in the years but rather in the special moments that take your breath away. Keeping that mindset can perhaps help you age well and have a balanced life full of hope. “Aging well means maintaining physical, mental, and social health through positive habits like nutrition, exercise, staying connected, and managing stress, even as biological changes occur, focusing on overall well-being, finding purpose, adapting to change, and seeking joy to enhance quality of life and independence.”

Lovelies, just before writing this post, I came across a woman who passed on in her early thirties, still relatively young, with so much to look forward to. Yes, ya tomorrow is never promised to any of us. Similarly, not all of us are given the opportunity to age gracefully. When you think about it, ageing is just your body slowly deteriorating. Your muscles are losing their strength, and your beauty is slowly slipping away through the years. I look at my mother now, and I see the weaker and more frail woman she has become. She can no longer walk and stand for as long as she used to when she was younger. Moreover, she is having difficulties climbing the stairs as we live in a two-story house. Age is a reminder that our time is limited and we will not be here forevermore. Which can take its toll on your well-being. I find myself struggling with my mortality every day. I’m 43, and this year will make me 44. Sometimes I really don’t think about my age. Like it has not completely sunk in. Now most of my hair has turned white, and my face is beginning to show signs that I have been on this earth for a long time. Which is good. I think we spend so much money and time trying to preserve our youth that we forget to enjoy ourselves. Well-being is all about self-acceptance and living your best life at any age. To be honest, as we look in the mirror and our wrinkles are staring back at us, it is not easy to feel blessed and thankful. Going to a nearby drugstore and making a Botox treatment appointment is much easier. Lovelies, remember it is only a body. Your body is aging, not you. You may very well be young at heart. I know I’m. Instead of worrying about how old you are getting. Think about all that you been through and celebrate that you are still here. Be well, take good care of your body. Change your mindset and preserve your well-being for as long as possible. You only have one body. Be good to it, and it will help you enjoy as many years as possible. To be honest, Lovelies, I’m still struggling with my own perfectly imperfect aging journey. That’s okay, I’m perfectly imperfect, and I’m beautiful as is. Yes, we all are beautiful. Now let’s dance to our own happily ever after. I will see you all next time. Bye for now. I love you.

Hello there, Lovelies. I’m truly madly deeply sorry for my inconsistency here. I don’t know. It’s like at the start of the new year, I was all pumped to grow my business and truly make this the year. Then my self-doubt crept in. Old habits magically begin to appear. Then, inevitably, I was not posting as consistently as I could and should have. My demons and my sweet heart are in a battle forevermore. Then something amazing began happening. I realized that this is really what I want to do. I love you guys and really want to grow our relationship. I’m currently adding different ways to communicate with you guys. The most recent are my daily weigh-ins on YouTube. Stay tuned for more, and I promise to be here consistently. Lovelies, let’s end this lovely post in a more beautiful way with a poem. Hope you like it.

My dream of a happily ever after, how can that be?

I dream that I’m a honey bee with the sweetest taste for honey, but where can that be?

Can it be down yonder with all the honey bees forming a community of happily ever after, where they are as happy as they can be?

A community filled with love and acceptance where all your perfect imperfections can be.

Ya, Lovelies, I hope you enjoy this poem. It really comes from the heart. The reason I wanted to share my frantastic thoughts with you all is that I want to stay authentic and let you know what is going on. Furthermore, I wanted to show my commitment to you all. Again, I promise to be consistent and authentic with you all. If you are currently also struggling with the new year, comment your sweet thoughts and get the support you deserve. I will see you all next time. Bye, take care.

Good day, Lovelies from lovely New York. How are you all doing? I hope everything is going great for you all, truly madly deeply. Yes, Lovelies, I have decided to bring back the daily weigh-ins. I know weighing yourself can cause some anxiety. Moreover, you can also create an unhealthy relationship with a number that can be detrimental to your health. Nevertheless, if you weigh yourself mindfully and create a healthy relationship.”Weighing yourself can be a helpful tool for weight management by increasing awareness and accountability, leading to better outcomes, but it’s only one aspect of well-being, and can become harmful if it causes obsession, anxiety, or disordered eating, requiring personalized frequency (daily for some, weekly for others, or not at all if negative) and focusing on overall healthy habits like diet, exercise, and stress management, not just the number.” 

Ya, Lovelies, in my own experience of weighing myself, it used to cause a lot of anxiety getting on the scale and weighing myself. If the number was too high, I didn’t feel pretty, which was followed by a feeling that I’m not worth it. Just weighing myself would cause a significant amount of stress. So much so that for a while, I simply didn’t weigh myself. I just use how well my clothes fit to tell if I’m alright. Then one day it was time to go to the doctor for my usual check-up. That’s when I realized that I was 173 pounds. I was surprised that I let myself put on that much weight. Thankfully, I was able to create a better relationship with my scale, and now I love weighing myself every day. Which is why I created Franchy Daily Weigh in a more fun, playful way to help you keep track of your weight. Ya, it is really not that serious. That is not to say you should not pay attention to your weight. I just mean don’t give the number so much importance; you are so much more than your weight. Instead, use the scale as a tool for healthy weight management. I want to stress that a good understanding of your weight can do wonders for your well-being. That way, you can weigh yourself with a lovely smile on your face. You can be happy and feel great. Which is awesome. We all just want to be happy in the end. Lovelies, you deserve all the happiness in the world. Take care and be well. I will see you all next time. Bye for now.

Hello Lovelies. I hope you all are feeling amazing and doing great things. Lovelies, like everyone else, I do have a certain routine that I try to follow each and every day. Of course, some days I’m not able to follow my normal routine as I have to do trailer checks in Manhattan. Nevertheless, for the most part, I’m pretty consistent with my mindful routine as I know the positive impact that it has on my well-being. “A mindfulness routine involves focusing on the present moment without judgment, significantly boosting well-being by reducing stress, anxiety, and negative thoughts while improving focus, emotional regulation, sleep, and physical health (like blood pressure).”

Yes, Lovelies, when I wake up, I do my two phone check-ins, and I head over to my calm app to begin meditating and clearing my mind. Then afterwards, I lie down and think about things going on in my life and try to resolve any pressing issues. Lastly, I end my meditation perfectly by listening to my lovely audiobook. Yes, it takes a lot of time. Nonetheless, I feel great afterwards, which makes it worth it. Lovelie’s life is highly unpredictable. We need a mindful routine to help heal our perfectly imperfect souls. Lovelies, do you have a mindful routine? If you don’t, I strongly encourage you to start one. It doesn’t have to be something dramatic. It can be something as simple as starting a daily journal entry. You can write down all your concerns in your perfectly imperfect life. It is always good to let go and not keep all your uncomfortable emotions bottled up. Moreover, it is always good to revisit an old entry and reframe your perceptions of life. Remain open to all the wonderful possibilities of life. If later on down the road you feel you have an important message to share, why not start a blog? You can earn an income and help others going through the same situation. Always stay hungry, Lovelies. Never rely on just one source of income. You can lose your job at any moment. Alright, Lovelies, that’s all for now. Stay tuned for tomorrow. I wish you a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world. Bye. Take care.

Hello there, Lovelies. How are you all doing? I’m doing okay, trying my best. Yes, Lovelies, Happy New Year. You know, when it’s the new year, we all get all excited for the start of a whole new happily ever after. We start thinking about letting go of everything that’s not serving us. We try to manifest a whole new happily-ever-after for ourselves. This may last for the first 2 weeks, and inevitably, we lose focus and abandon our New Year’s resolution, which is why I never make a New Year’s resolution. Instead, I just have a set of goals I would like to reach.

What about you, Lovelies, what are your goals for this frantastic year? You know what my secret for making a change for the new year is? It is following my passion and dreams. If you are really passionate about something, you will work hard to achieve it. You will pay the price! Lovelies, seriously, since I have been back to working on this blog consistently, I have felt such passion and pleasure doing precisely what I love. I have found myself thinking about you guys and what I would like to share next. When I have had to make another post, I looked forward to it with great promise in my heart. Because I really love you guys. My feelings are all authentic and completely natural. I have seen so much content that was not sincere. It was all about getting the views and making money. The content creator lacks passion. I believe because of that the success was limited. The content never reaches its full potential. Like Steve Jobs famously said, you’ve got to love what you do.

Yes, Lovelies, this new year, do all the things that you truly love and desire. Don’t waste time doing things that you are not passionate about. Live your dream. Don’t dream your life, live your dream. I believe true success is waking up and living the life you truly madly deeply desire. Money is just a tool that helps us provide for our needs and wants. Never chase money when it is your turn. I believe it will come to you easily and abundantly. So, my new year has started a little bit on the wrong side because I got scammed by an old acquaintance. It really has been hard for me these past years. I’m working to make this year the year. Sometimes you are like Enough is enough. That is where I’m currently in my life, Lovelies. Where are you currently? How is the new year treating you? As always, the comment section is open for your wonderful thoughts. I just wanted to share my Franchy two cents on the New Year. I hope you are inspired to follow your dreams and live life with true passion. Life is too short not to. I genuinely love you guys and wish you all the best. Remember to work hard and never give up. Bye. See you next time.

Hello Lovelies. I hope all is going well for you. As for me, everything is currently okay, and I’m incredibly thankful for that. I genuinely hope I’m inspiring and supporting you on your very own self-love journey. I really consider this as our community where we can help and support one another. I always encourage you to share your perfectly imperfect thoughts in the comment section. I believe that, with all of us coming from all over the world, we can share our unique stories that, realistically, are not all that different. After all, we all just want to be loved and feel connected.

Lovelies, as I previously mentioned, I’m currently working on a different way to connect with you all. We currently have a podcast and a YouTube channel. Now I’m working on creating a platform for all of us. Where we can connect and spread sweet love with each other. I just wanted to update you all. To inform you where I’m currently in the process. In the coming year (2026), I plan to continue to engage with you all. Share more of my stories. Always, no pressure. This community is a safe haven where you can be your authentic self. No judgment ever! When I get another update, I will share it in another blog post. Stay tuned for that. I’m interested in your thoughts. Feel free to share them below in the comment section. Sending you a lovely virtual hug. I love you, and I will see you next time. Bye, take care.

Hiya Lovelies. How do you do? I hope all is truly madly deeply going well for you. Thankfully, I’m feeling better. I’m trying to be positive through it all. More specifically, be more body positive. “Body positivity promotes self-love by accepting all bodies, reducing anxiety, depression, and body dissatisfaction, boosting self-esteem, and improving overall mental wellness by focusing on your body’s function and strength, not just its looks, though some find body neutrality (accepting without judgment) more helpful than forced positivity. “

Lovelies, as you all know, it is all about positivity. You can’t truly live the life you desire by being negative all the time and constantly focusing on your shortcomings. Likewise, you won’t live a rich, happy, healthy life by not being body positive. You only have one body. You have to take very good care of it. If you don’t feel confident in your very own body, then other areas of your perfectly imperfect life will also suffer. For example, my dating wasn’t easy when I didn’t feel attractive to my partner. I was constantly looking at other women and comparing myself to them. I didn’t feel like I was worth it and was pretty enough. Consequently, I got into so many bad relationships. Lovelies, I have more I would like to share with you. So please stay tuned to Part 2. I love you all. Please take care of yourselves. Bye for now with sweet love.