Hello there, Lovelies. I’m truly madly deeply sorry for my inconsistency here. I don’t know. It’s like at the start of the new year, I was all pumped to grow my business and truly make this the year. Then my self-doubt crept in. Old habits magically begin to appear. Then, inevitably, I was not posting as consistently as I could and should have. My demons and my sweet heart are in a battle forevermore. Then something amazing began happening. I realized that this is really what I want to do. I love you guys and really want to grow our relationship. I’m currently adding different ways to communicate with you guys. The most recent are my daily weigh-ins on YouTube. Stay tuned for more, and I promise to be here consistently. Lovelies, let’s end this lovely post in a more beautiful way with a poem. Hope you like it.

My dream of a happily ever after, how can that be?

I dream that I’m a honey bee with the sweetest taste for honey, but where can that be?

Can it be down yonder with all the honey bees forming a community of happily ever after, where they are as happy as they can be?

A community filled with love and acceptance where all your perfect imperfections can be.

Ya, Lovelies, I hope you enjoy this poem. It really comes from the heart. The reason I wanted to share my frantastic thoughts with you all is that I want to stay authentic and let you know what is going on. Furthermore, I wanted to show my commitment to you all. Again, I promise to be consistent and authentic with you all. If you are currently also struggling with the new year, comment your sweet thoughts and get the support you deserve. I will see you all next time. Bye, take care.

Good day, Lovelies from lovely New York. How are you all doing? I hope everything is going great for you all, truly madly deeply. Yes, Lovelies, I have decided to bring back the daily weigh-ins. I know weighing yourself can cause some anxiety. Moreover, you can also create an unhealthy relationship with a number that can be detrimental to your health. Nevertheless, if you weigh yourself mindfully and create a healthy relationship.”Weighing yourself can be a helpful tool for weight management by increasing awareness and accountability, leading to better outcomes, but it’s only one aspect of well-being, and can become harmful if it causes obsession, anxiety, or disordered eating, requiring personalized frequency (daily for some, weekly for others, or not at all if negative) and focusing on overall healthy habits like diet, exercise, and stress management, not just the number.” 

Ya, Lovelies, in my own experience of weighing myself, it used to cause a lot of anxiety getting on the scale and weighing myself. If the number was too high, I didn’t feel pretty, which was followed by a feeling that I’m not worth it. Just weighing myself would cause a significant amount of stress. So much so that for a while, I simply didn’t weigh myself. I just use how well my clothes fit to tell if I’m alright. Then one day it was time to go to the doctor for my usual check-up. That’s when I realized that I was 173 pounds. I was surprised that I let myself put on that much weight. Thankfully, I was able to create a better relationship with my scale, and now I love weighing myself every day. Which is why I created Franchy Daily Weigh in a more fun, playful way to help you keep track of your weight. Ya, it is really not that serious. That is not to say you should not pay attention to your weight. I just mean don’t give the number so much importance; you are so much more than your weight. Instead, use the scale as a tool for healthy weight management. I want to stress that a good understanding of your weight can do wonders for your well-being. That way, you can weigh yourself with a lovely smile on your face. You can be happy and feel great. Which is awesome. We all just want to be happy in the end. Lovelies, you deserve all the happiness in the world. Take care and be well. I will see you all next time. Bye for now.

Hello Lovelies. I hope you all are feeling amazing and doing great things. Lovelies, like everyone else, I do have a certain routine that I try to follow each and every day. Of course, some days I’m not able to follow my normal routine as I have to do trailer checks in Manhattan. Nevertheless, for the most part, I’m pretty consistent with my mindful routine as I know the positive impact that it has on my well-being. “A mindfulness routine involves focusing on the present moment without judgment, significantly boosting well-being by reducing stress, anxiety, and negative thoughts while improving focus, emotional regulation, sleep, and physical health (like blood pressure).”

Yes, Lovelies, when I wake up, I do my two phone check-ins, and I head over to my calm app to begin meditating and clearing my mind. Then afterwards, I lie down and think about things going on in my life and try to resolve any pressing issues. Lastly, I end my meditation perfectly by listening to my lovely audiobook. Yes, it takes a lot of time. Nonetheless, I feel great afterwards, which makes it worth it. Lovelie’s life is highly unpredictable. We need a mindful routine to help heal our perfectly imperfect souls. Lovelies, do you have a mindful routine? If you don’t, I strongly encourage you to start one. It doesn’t have to be something dramatic. It can be something as simple as starting a daily journal entry. You can write down all your concerns in your perfectly imperfect life. It is always good to let go and not keep all your uncomfortable emotions bottled up. Moreover, it is always good to revisit an old entry and reframe your perceptions of life. Remain open to all the wonderful possibilities of life. If later on down the road you feel you have an important message to share, why not start a blog? You can earn an income and help others going through the same situation. Always stay hungry, Lovelies. Never rely on just one source of income. You can lose your job at any moment. Alright, Lovelies, that’s all for now. Stay tuned for tomorrow. I wish you a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world. Bye. Take care.

Hello there, Lovelies. How are you all doing? I’m doing okay, trying my best. Yes, Lovelies, Happy New Year. You know, when it’s the new year, we all get all excited for the start of a whole new happily ever after. We start thinking about letting go of everything that’s not serving us. We try to manifest a whole new happily-ever-after for ourselves. This may last for the first 2 weeks, and inevitably, we lose focus and abandon our New Year’s resolution, which is why I never make a New Year’s resolution. Instead, I just have a set of goals I would like to reach.

What about you, Lovelies, what are your goals for this frantastic year? You know what my secret for making a change for the new year is? It is following my passion and dreams. If you are really passionate about something, you will work hard to achieve it. You will pay the price! Lovelies, seriously, since I have been back to working on this blog consistently, I have felt such passion and pleasure doing precisely what I love. I have found myself thinking about you guys and what I would like to share next. When I have had to make another post, I looked forward to it with great promise in my heart. Because I really love you guys. My feelings are all authentic and completely natural. I have seen so much content that was not sincere. It was all about getting the views and making money. The content creator lacks passion. I believe because of that the success was limited. The content never reaches its full potential. Like Steve Jobs famously said, you’ve got to love what you do.

Yes, Lovelies, this new year, do all the things that you truly love and desire. Don’t waste time doing things that you are not passionate about. Live your dream. Don’t dream your life, live your dream. I believe true success is waking up and living the life you truly madly deeply desire. Money is just a tool that helps us provide for our needs and wants. Never chase money when it is your turn. I believe it will come to you easily and abundantly. So, my new year has started a little bit on the wrong side because I got scammed by an old acquaintance. It really has been hard for me these past years. I’m working to make this year the year. Sometimes you are like Enough is enough. That is where I’m currently in my life, Lovelies. Where are you currently? How is the new year treating you? As always, the comment section is open for your wonderful thoughts. I just wanted to share my Franchy two cents on the New Year. I hope you are inspired to follow your dreams and live life with true passion. Life is too short not to. I genuinely love you guys and wish you all the best. Remember to work hard and never give up. Bye. See you next time.

Hello Lovelies. I hope all is going well for you. As for me, everything is currently okay, and I’m incredibly thankful for that. I genuinely hope I’m inspiring and supporting you on your very own self-love journey. I really consider this as our community where we can help and support one another. I always encourage you to share your perfectly imperfect thoughts in the comment section. I believe that, with all of us coming from all over the world, we can share our unique stories that, realistically, are not all that different. After all, we all just want to be loved and feel connected.

Lovelies, as I previously mentioned, I’m currently working on a different way to connect with you all. We currently have a podcast and a YouTube channel. Now I’m working on creating a platform for all of us. Where we can connect and spread sweet love with each other. I just wanted to update you all. To inform you where I’m currently in the process. In the coming year (2026), I plan to continue to engage with you all. Share more of my stories. Always, no pressure. This community is a safe haven where you can be your authentic self. No judgment ever! When I get another update, I will share it in another blog post. Stay tuned for that. I’m interested in your thoughts. Feel free to share them below in the comment section. Sending you a lovely virtual hug. I love you, and I will see you next time. Bye, take care.

Hiya Lovelies. How do you do? I hope all is truly madly deeply going well for you. Thankfully, I’m feeling better. I’m trying to be positive through it all. More specifically, be more body positive. “Body positivity promotes self-love by accepting all bodies, reducing anxiety, depression, and body dissatisfaction, boosting self-esteem, and improving overall mental wellness by focusing on your body’s function and strength, not just its looks, though some find body neutrality (accepting without judgment) more helpful than forced positivity. “

Lovelies, as you all know, it is all about positivity. You can’t truly live the life you desire by being negative all the time and constantly focusing on your shortcomings. Likewise, you won’t live a rich, happy, healthy life by not being body positive. You only have one body. You have to take very good care of it. If you don’t feel confident in your very own body, then other areas of your perfectly imperfect life will also suffer. For example, my dating wasn’t easy when I didn’t feel attractive to my partner. I was constantly looking at other women and comparing myself to them. I didn’t feel like I was worth it and was pretty enough. Consequently, I got into so many bad relationships. Lovelies, I have more I would like to share with you. So please stay tuned to Part 2. I love you all. Please take care of yourselves. Bye for now with sweet love.

Hello there, Lovelies. I genuinely hope you are doing wonderful today. Now, Lovelies, let me assure you that I’m by no means conceited. I know and understand that true beauty comes from inside. Nevertheless, it is no surprise that your natural beauty is forevermore interlocked with your well-being. “Your beauty and well-being are deeply connected: taking care of your physical health (diet, sleep, exercise) enhances your appearance (glowing skin, energy), while nurturing mental and emotional health through self-care, confidence, and appreciating beauty boosts overall well-being, creating a positive cycle where feeling good leads to looking good, and vice versa.”

Yes, Lovelies, we all want to feel and look our very best. We only have one body; it is essential to take the very best care of our perfect imperfections. When we meet someone for the first time, we want to make a great impression, look great, and feel great in our own skin. This all starts with our mental health. If everything is not alright within, sweet emotions will start pouring out and coming to the surface. For instance, I remember seeing this beautiful young girl. She was gorgeous on the outside. She has lovely hair and skin. She was a Black-and-Asian beauty. Nonetheless, inside, something catastrophic was happening. Eventually, what was within her began to come out for everyone else to see. Which invariably led to her ending it all at just 16. Lovelies, that is why I stress talking to someone you trust and not letting your emotions be bottled in.

Keeping everything inside can have devastating consequences. Be well. Take great care of your well-being. True beauty has many layers. This includes your physical and mental well-being. Beauties, I believe our bodies are our temples. It is a special vessel that we are placed in for our lifetime to make our mark on this earth. To make the best impact, we must first love ourselves. There is no greater practice of self-love than taking care of your perfect imperfections. Let your beauty from within shine bright. Lovelies, I truly, madly, deeply believe that we are all beautiful in our own special way. So no, you don’t need any plastic surgery. You are perfectly imperfect, and you are beautiful just the way you are, seriously. You need to love yourself and take care of your natural beauty and your well-being. Be happy and smile often. Tomorrow is not promised; enjoy every breath you take. I love you all. I will see you next time. Bye for now.

Hiya there, Lovelies. Hope all is going well for you, truly madly deeply. Today I have decided to forgive myself. I let my self-esteem and self-doubt truly madly deeply affect my natural beauty. My teeth and hair need to heal. It is not something that I’m proud of. As a matter of fact, I feel great shame for what has happened. Thankfully, I was able to forgive myself and was able to start my perfectly imperfect self-healing journey. “Forgiveness is a powerful tool for well-being, significantly boosting mental and physical health by reducing stress, anxiety, and depression while improving heart health, sleep, and immunity, and fostering healthier relationships; it’s an act of self-care that releases emotional burdens, allowing for greater resilience, peace, and life satisfaction by choosing to let go of resentment, not condoning harm.” 

Lovelies, my low self-esteem has taken more from me than just my looks. It has also taken away my dreams at one point. I remember being 18 years old, bright-eyed, wanting to be successful, yet not believing I would succeed, so I never tried. I would write my stories in my notebooks and never publish them. It really makes me sad to think about where I would be now if I had followed my dreams. Forgiving myself for these lost opportunities was not easy. I was feeling a lot of shame and guilt for letting my life pass me by. Nevertheless, I understand that it takes a lot of guts to follow your dreams and never give up. In my older years, I’m able to fight for my dreams and understand the consequences of giving up again. Lovelies’ forgiveness gives a feeling of being free like no other. It’s a huge burden that you no longer have to deal with. So, forgive yourself for your peace of mind. Remember you are perfectly imperfect, and that is beautiful, truly madly deeply. Moreover, the best lessons are learned from making mistakes. So don’t be afraid to fall. Just enjoy the free fall. Then have a laugh, then get back up and try again. Forgive yourself and show yourself some compassion. Love yourself enough to know that you are much more than your mistakes. What defines you is your perseverance. I love you lovelies. I’m going to bid you farewell for now. See you next time. Bye.

Hello there, Lovelies. How are you all doing today? I’m doing alright, just trying my very best. You know, Lovelies, this site has been active since 08-18-2015. Ya, I have been sharing my self-love journey in the hope of inspiring you all to live your best lives ever. It’s through my own struggle with self-acceptance that these frantastic pages are created. I get extremely personal here with my true stories about my life. Yes, ya, a lot of thought goes into making this frantastic community, which is why I wanted to create a new way to engage with you all. It is a product that I have been considering for a bit now.

The product I’m referring to is an online life-coaching service for those of you who could use extra support. I’m by no means a licensed therapist. However, I have an open mind and a sweet listening heart. I genuinely feel I can help those of you who are struggling and provide insight to help you live your best lives ever. As I said, no, I’m not perfect and don’t have all the answers. What I do have is experience and knowledge that can be beneficial for you all. This service is just here if you feel you need it. Otherwise, go through the helpful content that I created just for you. I want you to thrive, beauties. As this year slowly comes to an end. Leave all the heartache that has been holding you back. Make 2026 the year you head to your happily ever after. When this product is ready to be published, I will write an article about it. To help you know if it is right for you. No pressure, just sweet love and a nice virtual hug. I love you all. Have a blessed day or night wherever you are in the world. Take care.

Hi there, Lovelies. I hope you all are doing well and are happy. Today, I wanted to discuss something I have struggled with and still have issues with, and that is self-acceptance. As I got older, the importance of self-acceptance to my overall well-being has become increasingly apparent. “Self-acceptance is crucial for wellbeing, involving embracing your whole self (strengths, flaws, imperfections) without harsh judgment, which reduces self-criticism, anxiety, and boosts resilience, confidence, and inner peace, creating a foundation for personal growth, better relationships, and overall happiness by treating yourself with kindness and focusing on your unique worth.” Lovelies, sometimes we are our very own worst enemies, always putting ourselves down. It is essential to restore our self-worth and to love our perfect imperfections.

I’m perfectly imperfect, and I love that. I know one thing for a fact: no one is perfect. It’s our perfect imperfections that make us unique and beautiful. Far too many of us are turning to plastic surgery to fix our perceived flaws. I know a lot of our self-esteem issues are from looking at magazines and stars, seeing how beautiful and perfect they seem to be, and we end up having unrealistic body images. Unfortunately, many of us don’t practice self-acceptance. We don’t know our worth and understand how amazing we are. We spend so much time just picking out our flaws that we don’t see our true beauty. For example, I used to stare at the mirror, just telling myself how unattractive I was. This really sacrificed my confidence and enabled me to get into a lot of unhealthy relationships. All I needed to do was accept myself just as I am. I don’t need to change anything, just change how I view myself. Lovelies, accept yourself. Really open your eyes and see how gorgeous you truly are. Stop comparing yourself to others. You are an original, not a copy, which is incredible. The sooner you accept all your perfect imperfections, the sooner you can head to your happily ever after. Lovelies, love yourself. Stop worrying about what other people think. Be yourself, and your people will naturally follow you. I love you. Be well. I will see you next time. Bye for now.