All posts by Francesca Franchy

Francesca is a blogger and freelancer in the New York area. Writing and helping people is her passion she hopes that you are enjoying getting into her Franchy mind. If you would like to know her better visit https://www.myearninglifegog82.com/p/about-fran.html?showComment=1548829755687

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 11-12-2025 With Luv “Your Frantastic Self-esteem Looking and Feeling Great and Your Well-being.”

Hello Lovelies. Hope you are all doing well. Today I wanted to talk about a topic that is near and dear to my heart. Something we all suffer from time to time is low self-esteem. Growing up, I was teased mercilessly and was told I was unattractive. Moreover, my caregivers kept telling me that I was slow mentally. Understandably so, I developed a really low self-esteem. I just never felt that I was good enough. I thought everyone was better than me. Eventually, my low self-worth began taking its toll on my well-being. “Self-esteem is a core component of your well-being, affecting how you think, feel, and act; high self-esteem is linked to resilience, confidence, and better mental health, while low self-esteem can contribute to negative thought patterns, insecurity, and mental health issues like depression and anxiety. “

I’ve developed a lot of anxious thoughts due to my self-esteem issues. Always thinking about what people think about me and who likes me. Having low self-esteem has had a destructive impact on all my romantic relationships. I have gotten my heart broken many times from being with guys who did not care about me. Similarly, my non-romantic relationships have also suffered. Ya, Lovelies, I’m being very transparent with you right now. I’m sharing something that has been buried deep in my soul for many years now. I’m very vulnerable, and I hope that by sharing my story, I can help you. Life is much more complicated when you don’t love yourself and constantly put yourself down. Never seeing the beautiful mind that you possess, which can propel you to great things. Lovelies, there is so much I have to say on this topic. I will have to continue on this topic. I feel I have a wealth of knowledge to share. Please, if there is something you wish to share with the community, never hesitate to comment. I will respond with sweet love. I want this to be our safe space for sharing knowledge. I want all of us to be wealthy and happy. We all deserve to be happy, living the life we truly desire. This is our special place. Alright, Lovelies, see you all next time. I love you all, be safe out there. Take care with sweet love.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 11-08-2025 With Luv “Dreaming of my happily ever after and your well-being.”

Hi Lovelies. How do you do? I’m doing pretty awesome, thanks. I hope you are doing amazing. Today, I wanted to talk about how having dreams can support your well-being. For me personally, my dreams are what help me get up and start my day. Dreams are the reason I never give up, no matter how bad things get. Dreams give me purpose and fulfillment. I want to live my best life. To do that, I have to make my dreams come true. “Living your dream while maintaining your well-being involves aligning daily actions with your vision, prioritizing your needs, and practicing self-care.” After all, dreams only work if you do.

Yes, L,ovelies, I have such big, beautiful dreams. I remember, as a young dreamer at just 12, knowing I wanted to do great things with my life. I don’t want to collect a paycheck and then my time is done, which is precisely why I created Francesca Etheart INC and Frans Online Business INC. My dreams keep me going as I navigate this challenging transition in my life. What brightens your eyes, Lovelies? What drives you? I’m here to tell you never give up on your dreams. It may seem impossible at first. Remember, anything is possible if you are willing to put in the work. Go for your dreams and never look back. Lovelies as I’m always authentic with you all. I will have to do regular life updates about my life. So that you too can live a successful, happy life. I don’t want to be on top by myself —please join me. I will always share helpful information to help you guys out—alright, Lovelies, time to say goodbye. I love you all. Have a great day or night wherever you are in the world.

Dreams only work if you do.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 11-04-2025 With Luv “Happiness and your wellbeing.”

Lovelies, your happiness and well-being are closely intertwined, much like a commitment is to a healthy relationship. You can’t have one without the other. Similarly, you being wealthy if you’re not happy doesn’t make much sense to me either. Does it make sense to you? Ya, your happiness is very important. When it comes to your wellbeing, feeling good and living the life you truly desire is key to keeping your wellbeing intact. “Happiness plays a crucial role in overall well-being, acting as both a contributor to and an outcome of a healthy and fulfilling life.” 

So, currently, I’m not happy. My old demons are presently visiting me unexpectedly. Needless to say, my well-being for today is not good. It’s making it hard to get any work done and do other chores that I needed to get done for today. Gosh, I’m always writing about things I’m currently experiencing in my perfectly imperfect life. Lovelies I genuinely hope you appreciate my transparency in my business. So why am I sharing these personal facts with you all? I’m sharing firstly to offer you support if you are also currently going through a difficult time. Moreover, I wanted to provide you with an example of how your happiness or lack thereof can impact your well-being. Which inevitably keeps you from going on with your day and doing all the things you need to do. Sometimes we go through life like we are zombies, doing all the things that are necessary while feeling miserable. The stress from all that can really hurt your health in the long run. Causing irreversible health conditions that keep you from living your sweet dreams. Lovelies, you deserve all the happiness in the world. Take care of yourself and be well. Wishing you all the best, bye for now.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 10-30-2025 With Luv “Faith and your wellbeing.”

Hiya Lovelies. Yesterday wasn’t the best day ever. Let me be honest, that is a total underestimate. In my mind, the worst thing that could have happened did just that happen. Needless to say, this created a great deal of stress, which was accompanied by considerable worry. You know what, Lovelies? All I needed was some faith, as not everything is as it seems. Moreover, not everything will be clearly determined and explainable. This is when your faith and well-being come together to create your happily-ever-after. Sometimes, the best thing that could have happened to you is something you can’t explain, so you smile.

Growing up, one of my favorite shows to watch was Unsolved Mysteries, hosted by Robert Stack. Yes, I actually began watching Unsolved Mysteries when I was 9 years old. Ya, I was still a baby. Something about the mysteries in our perfectly imperfect lives truly piques my interest. As mysteries are rarely provable, we need faith to understand and make sense of the perfect imperfections. Yes, Lovelies, our faith can go a long way toward supporting our well-being. “Faith can significantly contribute to overall well-being by offering a sense of purpose, hope, and peace, while also fostering social connections and providing coping mechanisms during difficult times.” On my blog, I try to avoid discussing my religious beliefs. For one thing, I believe that it should be private and is deeply personal. Additionally, you guys come from all over the world and believe whatever you feel, and that is perfectly fine. When I mention faith, I’m not referring to your religion or spiritual beliefs. I’m referring to the optimistic belief that everything will be okay, no matter how bad things may seem now. The ever-optimist smiles through life’s perfectly imperfect derailments. For example, a childhood personality I used to watch in my teen years just recently died from Cancer. Her name was Annada Lewis, the ’90s VJ who grew to fame. It was heartwarming to see that she still had faith, despite knowing she didn’t have much time with her friends and family. She had a son whom she wanted to watch grow up into a wonderful man. Her faith allows her to live just long enough to see him graduate from middle school. If she had been miserable, feeling sorry for herself that she was dying, she might not have lived that long. Yes, I genuinely believe that Lovelies. Some of you may disagree with me. That’s okay, you are entitled to your own opinions. I never truly judge. So, what are your thoughts on Faith, Lovelies? Has having faith also helped you with your well-being? Please share your lovely thoughts below. Have a great day or night wherever you are. Take care, see you all next time.

When you can’t explain, smile. 😍😍🥰🥰

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-10-2025 With Luv “Social media matters and your wellbeing.”

Hi Lovelies. How are you all doing today? I’m doing alright, no everything is not perfect, and that is wonderful. Sometimes, it’s life’s beautiful derailments that make our lives full of excitement. If life were so predictable, life would be a lot more boring. When it comes to life, nothing else has so seamlessly integrated itself into our happily ever afters as social media. I can say quite confidently that almost everyone uses some form of social media. I personally have accounts on nearly all social media platforms. Ya, I’m all over the internet with my beautiful pictures. For me, the most crucial question is why are you using social media? Because that can significantly determine how social media impacts your well-being.

Initially, I created a Facebook account to grow my business. It was never meant to connect with friends and family members. I was always looking for a place to share my two wonderful companies. Don’t get me wrong, I do share some nice posts with my friends and family, and I’m always open to meeting new people. I just mean my priority is using social media to grow my business. With that mindset, social media doesn’t negatively impact my well-being. However, if your social media is causing you a lot of stress and anxiety, perhaps you should rethink your perfectly imperfect use. Today I wanted to tell a short story bout two different content creators using social media in the wrong way. This incident occurred on Sunday, June 8, 2025. Two YouTubers lives changed forever. The two YouTubers that I’m referring to are Manny and Finny. Manny murdered Finny because of a social media beef. The two were constantly taking jabs at each other for over a year. Then it all came to a head last Sunday on a Vegas strip. Unfortunately, Finnys wife also lost her life. They were live streaming and having fun as usual until Manny showed up. The entire incident was captured on video. To me, this was a senseless murder that could and should have been avoided. There is nothing someone can say to warrant them losing their life. Nevertheless, everyone played their part, and unfortunately, Finny and Bubbly paid the ultimate price. May they both rest in peace. I pray for the well-being of their family. The trauma brought by this tragedy can go on for a while if not adequately addressed. Hopefully, everyone will get some counseling, as I’m sure they can all use some closure. Remember, be kind. You never know what’s going on in people’s minds. Or what a person has on them. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is walk away so that you can see another day. I love you all. Be safe out there and be kind to one another. Bye now and take care.

Rest in heavenly peace, Rodney Finley and Tanisha Finley. You will never be forgotten. Fly high in eternal peace. 🧡🧡😍😍🙏🙏

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-09-2025 With Luv “Money matters and your wellbeing.” Part 2

Ya, Lovelies, in the forefront, money is just a tool that we use to live the life we desire. The money within itself is just a piece of paper that we give value to, which is why each country has its own separate currency. When you leave this happily ever after, you will not be able to take any of your wealth with you, which is why a will will be needed to divide your fortune. For me, as of now, there is no need for a will. Nonetheless, life can change in an instant. Just like that, you can go from rags to riches. I’m reading a great book about ordinary people going from rags to riches.

Lovelies, currently I’m reading “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. In this book, numerous stories are shared about ordinary people becoming wealthy by being money-conscious. Their mindset about money has changed. Lovelies, I recommend reading this book, as I believe it can truly transform your life for the better, but only if you’re ready. Not to say you will become rich by just buying and reading a book, some actions have to be taken. Reading this book has had a profoundly positive impact on my well-being. I’m happier and more hopeful. Most importantly, nothing truly seems impossible. Money troubles can cause a lot of stress and anxiety. Not knowing if you will be able to pay rent next month can be extremely stressful. For example, in New York City, the cost of living has increased a lot. Rent is high, and some of us become homeless for this reason. Homelessness can happen to any of us, really, that is why I never judge. I wanted to offer support to you guys going through trouble with your well-being. I have this Facebook group you can join. Yes, it’s free, and I would be happy to help you through a special place in my heart. I will leave a link in the comment section if you are interested. The bottom line is that financial problems can impact your well-being, and it is essential that you receive the support you deserve. Let’s support each other in the comment section. Leave your online friends some kind words. You never know what someone is going through. Your words can mean a great deal to someone else. Have a great night or day wherever you are. Take care, Lovelies. If you have a question, please don’t hesitate to comment on your concerns, and I will respond. I love you!

Be Kind, you never know what someone is going through 🧡🧡😍😍🙏🙏

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-08-2025 With Luv “Money matters and your wellbeing.” Part 1

Hello, there, Lovelies. I hope you all are doing frantastic, truly. Today, I would like to discuss a topic that has had a profound impact on my well-being. What I’m referring to is money. Some people have called money the root of all evil. Because of all the things people are willing to do to get a wealthier lifestyle. For instance, I recently watched a documentary where a son killed his mother for some insurance money because he was really in debt. I have also been watching numerous stories about lottery winners, and it is truly amazing how their lives changed after winning a large sum of money. It is clear that money has a significant impact on all our lives. Moreover, it is a remarkable truth that nothing is ever truly free.

Yes, Lovelies like it or hate it, having money is very important. Almost everything you want to do has a price tag of sorts. There are a few things that you can enjoy absolutely free of charge—for example, going for a walk in a beautiful park or on a beach. Needless to say, the impact of money is significant. The question is, in what ways specifically does money impact our well-being? “Money significantly impacts wellbeing by influencing both mental and physical health, as well as social relationships.” Lovelies, that is precisely what I’m currently experiencing. Not having enough money is causing me a significant amount of stress; for instance, I’m having trouble paying bills and don’t have any money left over to do the things that I truly, madly, deeply enjoy. I’m originally from Haiti, and I was never a stranger to struggle. Everything I have, Lovelies, is because I work hard. No one has ever just given me anything. I believe that is why I’m so humble and know the actual value of money. You know what, Lovelies? I have just realized that this is a really important topic, about which I have a lot to say. Which means we will discuss things further in part 2. In the meantime, I’m interested in knowing what money means to you all. For me, money is just a tool to create the life I truly, madly, deeply need. Alright, Lovelies, be safe. Have a great night or day wherever you are. Bye, take care.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-07-2025 With Luv “Honesty is good for the soul and warms the heart.”

Hello Lovelies. I’m currently obsessed with a new music video, and how are you all presently doing? I hope you enjoy and appreciate the honesty I bring to our conversations. Ya, sometimes I can be a bit too honest, I suppose. Nevertheless, that is just how I am. I’m a beautiful open book. You know what, Lovelies, honesty turns out to be good for your well-being—just being absolutely honest about your perfect imperfections while learning to accept and love yourself. It can do wonders for your happiness and overall well-being. Honesty is truly madly deeply the best policy.

Learning to accept myself for all my perfect imperfections wasn’t that easy at all. Growing up, I was the nerd and was very awkward. If I’m being honest, I’m still awkward and pretty nerdy, just older. It was my journey of body acceptance that led me to create this lovely site. When we stress ourselves out by trying to impress others and be someone we are not, it can have a significant toll on our health and well-being. Constantly being too hard on yourself and comparing yourself to others can take a toll and eventually affect your physical well-being. If you don’t feel good about yourself, you also won’t look good. Ya, it is really that simple. Similarly, by constantly not being truthful about who you are and just trying your best to live your life, you are just not being the person you were meant to be. Besides, the truth always finds its way out of your happily ever after. It is much better to be honest and upfront with yourself. If you are not happy with where your life is currently going, acknowledge this and make plans to get back on track to where you want to go. To me, it’s life’s perfectly imperfect derailments that make it so beautiful and worth living. Be honest with me, Lovelies. What are your thoughts about honesty being the best policy? I do promise to always be honest with you all. Lies don’t help, they hurt! You know, I want to help! On that note, I’m going to bid you farewell. Have a blessed day or night. Take care with love.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-02-2025 With Luv “Don’t worry be happy don’t stress it.”

Good evening, Lovelies. I do hope you are well and happy. Today, I wanted to get a little personal with you all and help you if you are also experiencing something similar. Today, I had a particularly intense worrying session. With no end in sight, truly. I was worried so much that my head and eyes began hurting me. Ya, it got pretty bad today and could have led to some serious consequences. Today, I wanted to delve deeper into stress and its potentially negative consequences for your wellbeing. We’re all about improving our well-being and achieving our very own happily ever after.

Stress is defined as “a natural psychological and physical reaction to challenges or demands in life.” Stress, like anything else, is not as harmful if it is in moderation. What is really dangerous to your well-being is constant and persistent worrying, which was my experience today. You want to know my frantastic distressor? I was reading a book. The book I was reading is Think and Grow Rich. It actually was an audiobook, so I mean I listened, not read. So my suggestion to you, if you are experiencing a strong stressful occurrence, is to try to divert your mind to a more positive thought. Yes, I understand that it’s not easy and may require some practice. For me, it was a book. For you, it can be something completely different. It’s incredible the power books can have on your overall well-being. It turns out that your teachers may have had a point. Do you love to read, Lovelies? If so, what is your favorite book? I hope you have a great night or day wherever you are in the world. Take care with love.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-01-2025 With Luv “Meet me where you are”.

Hiya Lovelies. Today I feel good and am grateful. No, everything is not alright, but I’m learning to accept myself where I am. Many of us feel inadequate because we are not where we want to be in our lives. When we reach a specific age, we have expectations that we think we must meet. For instance, by the time we reach our 30s, we are supposed to know exactly what we want out of life. However, having too many expectations can harm our well-being. By obsessing about what could and should be, you can create a lot of stress. Instead, why not meet me where you are?

Whatcha talking about, Franchy? I mean, accept yourself and come as you are, and all your perfect imperfections. If you are currently homeless and experiencing a hard time, I will meet you where you are. Perhaps take you to a nearby Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts. It’s okay; you haven’t found your true calling just yet. Some of us need more time, that’s all. I have heard of people who are successful on paper, living the life that many can only dream of, yet they are absolutely miserable. My happiness is key, and everything else is just icing on the cake, seriously. Perhaps you’re doing just okay and barely getting by, and you’ve a very successful sibling, wondering if you’ve missed out on the successful gene or something. No worries, I will meet you at your small apartment and maybe bring over some Chicken sandwiches. There, we can discuss your dreams and desires. Being able to be honest with yourself and saying this is where I’m can do wonders for your wellbeing. Then you can form a plan for your very own happily ever after. By no means am I saying not to have big dreams and aspirations. I’m just saying be patient and kind to yourself and meet yourself where you currently are. Whatever this looks like for you. Where are you now, Lovelies, and what are your hopes for the future?