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Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-10-2025 With Luv “Social media matters and your wellbeing.”

Hi Lovelies. How are you all doing today? I’m doing alright, no everything is not perfect, and that is wonderful. Sometimes, it’s life’s beautiful derailments that make our lives full of excitement. If life were so predictable, life would be a lot more boring. When it comes to life, nothing else has so seamlessly integrated itself into our happily ever afters as social media. I can say quite confidently that almost everyone uses some form of social media. I personally have accounts on nearly all social media platforms. Ya, I’m all over the internet with my beautiful pictures. For me, the most crucial question is why are you using social media? Because that can significantly determine how social media impacts your well-being.

Initially, I created a Facebook account to grow my business. It was never meant to connect with friends and family members. I was always looking for a place to share my two wonderful companies. Don’t get me wrong, I do share some nice posts with my friends and family, and I’m always open to meeting new people. I just mean my priority is using social media to grow my business. With that mindset, social media doesn’t negatively impact my well-being. However, if your social media is causing you a lot of stress and anxiety, perhaps you should rethink your perfectly imperfect use. Today I wanted to tell a short story bout two different content creators using social media in the wrong way. This incident occurred on Sunday, June 8, 2025. Two YouTubers lives changed forever. The two YouTubers that I’m referring to are Manny and Finny. Manny murdered Finny because of a social media beef. The two were constantly taking jabs at each other for over a year. Then it all came to a head last Sunday on a Vegas strip. Unfortunately, Finnys wife also lost her life. They were live streaming and having fun as usual until Manny showed up. The entire incident was captured on video. To me, this was a senseless murder that could and should have been avoided. There is nothing someone can say to warrant them losing their life. Nevertheless, everyone played their part, and unfortunately, Finny and Bubbly paid the ultimate price. May they both rest in peace. I pray for the well-being of their family. The trauma brought by this tragedy can go on for a while if not adequately addressed. Hopefully, everyone will get some counseling, as I’m sure they can all use some closure. Remember, be kind. You never know what’s going on in people’s minds. Or what a person has on them. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is walk away so that you can see another day. I love you all. Be safe out there and be kind to one another. Bye now and take care.

Rest in heavenly peace, Rodney Finley and Tanisha Finley. You will never be forgotten. Fly high in eternal peace. 🧡🧡😍😍🙏🙏

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-09-2025 With Luv “Money matters and your wellbeing.” Part 2

Ya, Lovelies, in the forefront, money is just a tool that we use to live the life we desire. The money within itself is just a piece of paper that we give value to, which is why each country has its own separate currency. When you leave this happily ever after, you will not be able to take any of your wealth with you, which is why a will will be needed to divide your fortune. For me, as of now, there is no need for a will. Nonetheless, life can change in an instant. Just like that, you can go from rags to riches. I’m reading a great book about ordinary people going from rags to riches.

Lovelies, currently I’m reading “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. In this book, numerous stories are shared about ordinary people becoming wealthy by being money-conscious. Their mindset about money has changed. Lovelies, I recommend reading this book, as I believe it can truly transform your life for the better, but only if you’re ready. Not to say you will become rich by just buying and reading a book, some actions have to be taken. Reading this book has had a profoundly positive impact on my well-being. I’m happier and more hopeful. Most importantly, nothing truly seems impossible. Money troubles can cause a lot of stress and anxiety. Not knowing if you will be able to pay rent next month can be extremely stressful. For example, in New York City, the cost of living has increased a lot. Rent is high, and some of us become homeless for this reason. Homelessness can happen to any of us, really, that is why I never judge. I wanted to offer support to you guys going through trouble with your well-being. I have this Facebook group you can join. Yes, it’s free, and I would be happy to help you through a special place in my heart. I will leave a link in the comment section if you are interested. The bottom line is that financial problems can impact your well-being, and it is essential that you receive the support you deserve. Let’s support each other in the comment section. Leave your online friends some kind words. You never know what someone is going through. Your words can mean a great deal to someone else. Have a great night or day wherever you are. Take care, Lovelies. If you have a question, please don’t hesitate to comment on your concerns, and I will respond. I love you!

Be Kind, you never know what someone is going through 🧡🧡😍😍🙏🙏

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-08-2025 With Luv “Money matters and your wellbeing.” Part 1

Hello, there, Lovelies. I hope you all are doing frantastic, truly. Today, I would like to discuss a topic that has had a profound impact on my well-being. What I’m referring to is money. Some people have called money the root of all evil. Because of all the things people are willing to do to get a wealthier lifestyle. For instance, I recently watched a documentary where a son killed his mother for some insurance money because he was really in debt. I have also been watching numerous stories about lottery winners, and it is truly amazing how their lives changed after winning a large sum of money. It is clear that money has a significant impact on all our lives. Moreover, it is a remarkable truth that nothing is ever truly free.

Yes, Lovelies like it or hate it, having money is very important. Almost everything you want to do has a price tag of sorts. There are a few things that you can enjoy absolutely free of charge—for example, going for a walk in a beautiful park or on a beach. Needless to say, the impact of money is significant. The question is, in what ways specifically does money impact our well-being? “Money significantly impacts wellbeing by influencing both mental and physical health, as well as social relationships.” Lovelies, that is precisely what I’m currently experiencing. Not having enough money is causing me a significant amount of stress; for instance, I’m having trouble paying bills and don’t have any money left over to do the things that I truly, madly, deeply enjoy. I’m originally from Haiti, and I was never a stranger to struggle. Everything I have, Lovelies, is because I work hard. No one has ever just given me anything. I believe that is why I’m so humble and know the actual value of money. You know what, Lovelies? I have just realized that this is a really important topic, about which I have a lot to say. Which means we will discuss things further in part 2. In the meantime, I’m interested in knowing what money means to you all. For me, money is just a tool to create the life I truly, madly, deeply need. Alright, Lovelies, be safe. Have a great night or day wherever you are. Bye, take care.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-07-2025 With Luv “Honesty is good for the soul and warms the heart.”

Hello Lovelies. I’m currently obsessed with a new music video, and how are you all presently doing? I hope you enjoy and appreciate the honesty I bring to our conversations. Ya, sometimes I can be a bit too honest, I suppose. Nevertheless, that is just how I am. I’m a beautiful open book. You know what, Lovelies, honesty turns out to be good for your well-being—just being absolutely honest about your perfect imperfections while learning to accept and love yourself. It can do wonders for your happiness and overall well-being. Honesty is truly madly deeply the best policy.

Learning to accept myself for all my perfect imperfections wasn’t that easy at all. Growing up, I was the nerd and was very awkward. If I’m being honest, I’m still awkward and pretty nerdy, just older. It was my journey of body acceptance that led me to create this lovely site. When we stress ourselves out by trying to impress others and be someone we are not, it can have a significant toll on our health and well-being. Constantly being too hard on yourself and comparing yourself to others can take a toll and eventually affect your physical well-being. If you don’t feel good about yourself, you also won’t look good. Ya, it is really that simple. Similarly, by constantly not being truthful about who you are and just trying your best to live your life, you are just not being the person you were meant to be. Besides, the truth always finds its way out of your happily ever after. It is much better to be honest and upfront with yourself. If you are not happy with where your life is currently going, acknowledge this and make plans to get back on track to where you want to go. To me, it’s life’s perfectly imperfect derailments that make it so beautiful and worth living. Be honest with me, Lovelies. What are your thoughts about honesty being the best policy? I do promise to always be honest with you all. Lies don’t help, they hurt! You know, I want to help! On that note, I’m going to bid you farewell. Have a blessed day or night. Take care with love.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-03-2025 With Luv “Just breath into your happily ever after.”

Good evening, Lovelies. Today I feel much better. It’s amazing what a breath of fresh air can do for you. It can take your well-being on a ride right to your happily ever after. From reading my other blog posts, you can gather that I love walking and nature as a whole. The natural beauty of waterfalls, the green grass, and the blue skies can be truly breathtaking. You can easily fall in love with nature and give in to its effortless beauty. That’s truly madly deeply beautiful. Having peace and a wellbeing that is incomparable is what I genuinely want for you all.

Yes, Lovelies, what I’ve noticed for myself is that when I don’t go outside, even for a little while, to get a breath of fresh air, it can have an adverse effect on my mood for the entire day. I need to see the sun and the beautiful skies. It doesn’t seem to matter even if it is raining. I just got to get out and about. Can you relate, Lovelies? Something about nature takes me to my happily ever after. I feel good, I feel alive. I can clear my thoughts and heal my heart. So I’m starting a new wellness journey activity. Every day, I will step out, even if it is for a little while. Now you know, being in New York, stepping outside daily can be challenging during the colder months. That will be fun to see what I do then. I have made this decision because, for a while, I have noticed that it is what my body needs. It is always a good idea to listen to your perfectly imperfect body. It can tell you the most beautiful stories and keep you healthy. What are your thoughts, Lovelies? Do you also notice that sometimes you just need to be out in nature? I’m always interested in your thoughts. I believe that having a community that supports and shares helpful tips is terrific, as it helps you never feel alone. Which is and will always be my goal. Have an excellent rest of your day or night wherever you are in the world. Bye, take care, Lovelies.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-02-2025 With Luv “Don’t worry be happy don’t stress it.”

Good evening, Lovelies. I do hope you are well and happy. Today, I wanted to get a little personal with you all and help you if you are also experiencing something similar. Today, I had a particularly intense worrying session. With no end in sight, truly. I was worried so much that my head and eyes began hurting me. Ya, it got pretty bad today and could have led to some serious consequences. Today, I wanted to delve deeper into stress and its potentially negative consequences for your wellbeing. We’re all about improving our well-being and achieving our very own happily ever after.

Stress is defined as “a natural psychological and physical reaction to challenges or demands in life.” Stress, like anything else, is not as harmful if it is in moderation. What is really dangerous to your well-being is constant and persistent worrying, which was my experience today. You want to know my frantastic distressor? I was reading a book. The book I was reading is Think and Grow Rich. It actually was an audiobook, so I mean I listened, not read. So my suggestion to you, if you are experiencing a strong stressful occurrence, is to try to divert your mind to a more positive thought. Yes, I understand that it’s not easy and may require some practice. For me, it was a book. For you, it can be something completely different. It’s incredible the power books can have on your overall well-being. It turns out that your teachers may have had a point. Do you love to read, Lovelies? If so, what is your favorite book? I hope you have a great night or day wherever you are in the world. Take care with love.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-01-2025 With Luv “Meet me where you are”.

Hiya Lovelies. Today I feel good and am grateful. No, everything is not alright, but I’m learning to accept myself where I am. Many of us feel inadequate because we are not where we want to be in our lives. When we reach a specific age, we have expectations that we think we must meet. For instance, by the time we reach our 30s, we are supposed to know exactly what we want out of life. However, having too many expectations can harm our well-being. By obsessing about what could and should be, you can create a lot of stress. Instead, why not meet me where you are?

Whatcha talking about, Franchy? I mean, accept yourself and come as you are, and all your perfect imperfections. If you are currently homeless and experiencing a hard time, I will meet you where you are. Perhaps take you to a nearby Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts. It’s okay; you haven’t found your true calling just yet. Some of us need more time, that’s all. I have heard of people who are successful on paper, living the life that many can only dream of, yet they are absolutely miserable. My happiness is key, and everything else is just icing on the cake, seriously. Perhaps you’re doing just okay and barely getting by, and you’ve a very successful sibling, wondering if you’ve missed out on the successful gene or something. No worries, I will meet you at your small apartment and maybe bring over some Chicken sandwiches. There, we can discuss your dreams and desires. Being able to be honest with yourself and saying this is where I’m can do wonders for your wellbeing. Then you can form a plan for your very own happily ever after. By no means am I saying not to have big dreams and aspirations. I’m just saying be patient and kind to yourself and meet yourself where you currently are. Whatever this looks like for you. Where are you now, Lovelies, and what are your hopes for the future?

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 5-31-2025 With Luv “Forgiveness”.

Hi, Lovelies, how are you all doing? I’m doing better. Today was a bit of a doozy, if I’m being honest. I just had a lot on my mind, along with my sweet heart. Yes, Lovelies, there is some resentment that I have been holding on to, and today I have decided to let it all go. Holding on to past resentments can really impact your mental health by creating unnecessary stress. Additionally, other new relationships can also be affected. Often, when we forgive someone, we think that we are helping the person whom we are forgiving. In reality, you are allowing yourself to heal while building up resilience.

Lovelies, I want all of us to be strong and bounce back from hardships. Some of us never know how resilient we can be until we are put to the test. I’m not sure if it’s just me. Whenever I make a promise to be positive, it seems like I’m put to the test not long after, which is precisely what happened earlier today. Moreover, having an open mind and heart, learning to let go of people’s past transgressions, will help you build stronger bonds in all your relationships. Creating a peaceful happily ever after for you. Ultimately, we desire to be loved and to find peace, for the most part. After all that has been said, let me assure you that I know it is not easy to forgive. Especially if we don’t think the person is sorry, honestly. Let’s face it, we may feel some things are unforgivable. When you find it especially difficult to say ‘I’m sorry,’ I invite you to consider things in this way. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting. You can forgive and just never forget. Lovelies, I’m a person who never forgets ever. You could have done something for me a while ago, and I’ll give you a lovely gift out of the blue. Are you also holding some resentment deep within your souls, Lovelies? If so, let it go, and your healing can begin. Please put some encouraging words for your fellow online friends in the comment section. I love you all. Have a great night or day, wherever you are in the world. Stay safe out there, Lovelies.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 5-30-2025 With Luv “Overwhelmed but hopeful.”

Hiya Lovelies. I hope this lovely article finds you well. I’m not sure if you’re aware of this, but my wellness posts are based on real-life situations I’m currently experiencing, so they can sometimes be a bit personal. With my branding for Franchy Luv, I share sweet, imperfect pieces with you, hoping to inspire. I genuinely hope to help you and inspire you. With that said, I wanted to talk about a topic near and dear to my sweet heart. I feel overwhelmed and learning how to balance my life with my perfectly imperfect business. “Being overwhelmed negatively impacts overall well-being by causing both mental and physical health issues. “

Ya Lovelies, I do a lot as I have multiple streams of income and work seven days a week. But I’m not complaining, this is what I wanted and decided to do. I said I wanted to work on my own perfectly imperfect dreams, not someone else’s. For the most part, I enjoy working for myself and having the flexibility to choose my own schedule. It can just be overwhelming at times, impacting my well-being and state of mind. This Friday was one such day I had to do trailer checks and lobby checks at AMC theaters. I got home at night and left in the morning. Additionally, I’m expected to attend to some work on my other business activities when I return home. That is the thing about owning a business. You can never truly clock out. You are always on the clock, working, it seems. I have accepted that I can never take the entire day off; I can only take part of the day off. As mentioned before, one thing I have been doing to improve my well-being is taking some ‘me time’ through meditation. Sometimes, doing nothing and watching a movie can also be equally helpful. The primary way to prevent burnout is by maintaining a schedule that supports your overall well-being. Many people don’t truly grasp the importance of mental health and life-sustaining wellbeing. We are always concerned about our physical health. What we fail to realize is that it begins and ends in the mind. So be good to yourself, Lovelies. Grab some of your favorite ice cream and sit down in front of the TV, take a well-deserved wellness break. You are worth it. Have a blessed day or night wherever you are in the world. Bye, take care with love.

Franchys Daily Wellness Journal 5-28-2025 With Luv.

Hello Lovelies, typing another thoughtful post that hopefully will inspire you all. Today, I wanted to talk about how powerful your mindset can be for your wellbeing. “You become what you think about.” When I first came upon these magical words, it was like my life was flashing right before my eyes. Suddenly all my trials and tribulations begin making a lot of sense. All my heart aches and what-ifs swirling around my mind. I sometimes would ask why me? I keep thinking that life is not fair. What I didn’t ask myself is what have I been thinking about lately? Your thoughts become your actions and your action shapes your happily ever after. Yes, it is absolutely mandatory to have a good mindset so your well-being can remain intact.

For most of my life, I have been thinking negatively. All I saw was darkness and no light. I could never do anything right. I was never enough. Needless to say, I suffer from stress and anxiety. My mental health at the surrender of my sweet thoughts. You see, Lovelies, these positive posts I have been posting are never easy to pen down. I’m always fighting off negative thoughts. Like I mentioned before, it was my anxiety that inspired me to create this beautiful website. Full of personal stories. I share my stories in the hope of supporting you and helping you feel less alone. Often, when we are going through a difficult situation, we keep it bottled up. Rationalizing that no one would understand. No one will care. Which keeps our mental health with little healing and peace. I’m not saying at all that it is easy to change your mindset. If it were that easy then we all would be always smiling and dancing through our perfectly imperfect days. Changing your thinking is a long process. You may need help, such as seeing a therapist. Lovelies, always remember it is okay not to be OK. There is nothing to be ashamed of. You are perfectly imperfect, and I love you. Sending a nice virtual hug for those going through tough times. Stay blessed and know that nothing lasts forever. Have a good one Lovelies. Bye and take care.