Hi Lovelies, and how are you doing? I hope you are well and safe wherever you are. Today, I wanted to discuss the impact of money stress on your well-being. “Money significantly impacts wellbeing, with financial stress linked to physical and mental health issues like anxiety, poor sleep, and chronic diseases.” Money worries can keep you up all night and be the first thing you think of when you wake up. From rent to groceries everything has a price tag. I’m in beautiful New York, and everything is expensive here. Just rent a lone can take most of your paycheck. Money is not everything, but it is everything.

Yes, some people say money doesn’t bring you happiness. It doesn’t help you find true love. While it is true that some people can be absolutely miserable and be wealthy. Similarly, true love is not defined by how much money you have in your bank account. However, having money is necessary for your mental health and overall well-being. There is not much you can do if you don’t have money. For example, if you are in a relationship, financial problems can lead to many arguments. Nevertheless, even though having money is essential, it is not worth constantly stressing about it. As a matter of fact, the more you worry about not having enough money, the longer you are going to be in your financial situation. You will continually struggle with the daily necessities of life. Instead, I encourage you to seek help. Look for financial assistance online. Also, working a side gig can be beneficial. There is a lot more I would like to say. Stay tuned for part 2. Have a blessed day or night wherever you are, ya.

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Happy birthday to me. Yes, today is my perfectly imperfect day. So many years of living and trying to make all my dreams come true. Having a great well-being will help me to celebrate many more days. If today is your birthday or you are about to celebrate a birthday, awesome. Birthdays are our special day. A celebration of life. To see how far you have come. Boy, I have come so far from no pictures online to a host of pictures. Now, when it comes to my well-being, I can still use a bit of work.

Yes, guys, of course, I’m always authentic with you, even at the grand old age of 43. I’m still trying to find my place in this perfectly imperfect world and thinking about getting therapy for some unresolved issues. Moreover, I learned a bit more about myself just from cutting my hair and starting over. Yes, life and all its beautiful possibilities. Focusing on more important things. At my age, I didn’t need many presents. Some people taking the time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday was fulfilling enough. So, if you are also near my age or just trying to find life’s meaning, you are not alone. My birthday wish is that all of you are doing well. If you have something on your mind and would like some support, please share your beautiful thought in the comments. Have a blessed, gorgeous day or night, wherever you are.

Hello Lovelies. Hope all is well with you. I genuinely care and wish the best for you all. Today, I wanted to continue our discussion about procrastination because there is a lot I want to say about it. “Procrastination is the act of unnecessarily delaying or postponing a task despite knowing there could be negative consequences.” Gosh, that is so true. I keep saving a task for later when I know it has to be done. Which inevitably leads to unnecessary stress. Which is extremely bad for my well-being. The truth of the matter is that later or tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Anything can change within a split second. Knowing our time is limited and the negative consequences of procrastinating. Why are so many of us willing to risk it all?

My self-doubt is linked somewhat to my procrastination. Since when you doubt yourself, and you make excuses to put off the work for later? Then you keep putting it off, and it just never gets done. Lovelies, that is my true story, and one of the main reasons why I’m still not successful. I keep putting off my dreams because I honestly don’t believe I can do it. Wow, what a revelation. Needing accountability is one great reason to start a blog, as your audience holds you accountable. That way, you can’t blame your failures on anything else. Another reason I procrastinate is my fear. Yes, my fear of actually succeeding. Lovelies, doesn’t that sound unbelievable? Why be afraid of something you truly, madly, deeply desire? Yet we all do that, don’t we? Let our fears keep us away from our dreams on the merry-go-round of broken dreams. Lovelies, let’s support each other and help one another stop procrastinating for our well-being, with sweet love. Have a good one.

Hello Lovelies, and how are you all doing today? I’m doing alright —thankfully, I’m doing well. I wanted to apologize for my recent procrastination on my content. The thing is, procrastination is not only counterproductive. “Procrastination can significantly impact well-being, leading to increased stress, anxiety, and even depression.” Moreover, “It can also negatively affect self-esteem and productivity, and lead to missed opportunities and poor time management.” 

Ya Lovelies, while I know when I procrastinate, I can miss out on my productivity for the day. Nonetheless, it is something I always find myself continually doing on the merry-go-round of broken dreams, which is extremely bad for me as I work for myself in my own businesses. Working for myself requires discipline and the ability to get as much work done as possible. What’s more likely is that I don’t get my required work done. Now I’m stressed out, trying to get everything done on short notice. What I have noticed is that my unproductivity is linked to my depression. Lovelies as I have a lot more I would like to say on this topic. Stay tuned for part 2. I will see you all next time with love. Bye take care.

Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing? I hope you are doing well and are healthy. Truly madly deeply. I never forget the actual reason for creating this frantastic blog. To help people who are also going through a difficult situation in life. As I continually face difficult situations, my passion to help is even stronger. I want to share what I’ve learned so you don’t have to go through it yourself.

So, where am I currently in my perfectly imperfect journey? I’ve lost a lot of weight due to stress. I remember these days when people came bothering me about my weight. Now looking back on old pictures, I realize I was still beautiful. Most importantly, I was happy. Now I have started a new relationship. Still slowly working things out. I have some stuff on my end to mend, and luckily, he is patient. I have come to realize the role that being in a supportive relationship can play in your overall well-being.

My overall well-being needs work. I am always honest with you guys and never want to claim that I know all the answers because I don’t. I’m perfectly imperfect, and I’m learning as I blog. This website is a community space to show each other support. I thank you guys for being here with me since 2015. Have a wonderful day or night wherever you are. Take care of yourselves.

Hi Lovelies. How are you all doing today? I’m doing alright, no everything is not perfect, and that is wonderful. Sometimes, it’s life’s beautiful derailments that make our lives full of excitement. If life were so predictable, life would be a lot more boring. When it comes to life, nothing else has so seamlessly integrated itself into our happily ever afters as social media. I can say quite confidently that almost everyone uses some form of social media. I personally have accounts on nearly all social media platforms. Ya, I’m all over the internet with my beautiful pictures. For me, the most crucial question is why are you using social media? Because that can significantly determine how social media impacts your well-being.

Initially, I created a Facebook account to grow my business. It was never meant to connect with friends and family members. I was always looking for a place to share my two wonderful companies. Don’t get me wrong, I do share some nice posts with my friends and family, and I’m always open to meeting new people. I just mean my priority is using social media to grow my business. With that mindset, social media doesn’t negatively impact my well-being. However, if your social media is causing you a lot of stress and anxiety, perhaps you should rethink your perfectly imperfect use. Today I wanted to tell a short story bout two different content creators using social media in the wrong way. This incident occurred on Sunday, June 8, 2025. Two YouTubers lives changed forever. The two YouTubers that I’m referring to are Manny and Finny. Manny murdered Finny because of a social media beef. The two were constantly taking jabs at each other for over a year. Then it all came to a head last Sunday on a Vegas strip. Unfortunately, Finnys wife also lost her life. They were live streaming and having fun as usual until Manny showed up. The entire incident was captured on video. To me, this was a senseless murder that could and should have been avoided. There is nothing someone can say to warrant them losing their life. Nevertheless, everyone played their part, and unfortunately, Finny and Bubbly paid the ultimate price. May they both rest in peace. I pray for the well-being of their family. The trauma brought by this tragedy can go on for a while if not adequately addressed. Hopefully, everyone will get some counseling, as I’m sure they can all use some closure. Remember, be kind. You never know what’s going on in people’s minds. Or what a person has on them. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is walk away so that you can see another day. I love you all. Be safe out there and be kind to one another. Bye now and take care.

Ya, Lovelies, in the forefront, money is just a tool that we use to live the life we desire. The money within itself is just a piece of paper that we give value to, which is why each country has its own separate currency. When you leave this happily ever after, you will not be able to take any of your wealth with you, which is why a will will be needed to divide your fortune. For me, as of now, there is no need for a will. Nonetheless, life can change in an instant. Just like that, you can go from rags to riches. I’m reading a great book about ordinary people going from rags to riches.

Lovelies, currently I’m reading “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. In this book, numerous stories are shared about ordinary people becoming wealthy by being money-conscious. Their mindset about money has changed. Lovelies, I recommend reading this book, as I believe it can truly transform your life for the better, but only if you’re ready. Not to say you will become rich by just buying and reading a book, some actions have to be taken. Reading this book has had a profoundly positive impact on my well-being. I’m happier and more hopeful. Most importantly, nothing truly seems impossible. Money troubles can cause a lot of stress and anxiety. Not knowing if you will be able to pay rent next month can be extremely stressful. For example, in New York City, the cost of living has increased a lot. Rent is high, and some of us become homeless for this reason. Homelessness can happen to any of us, really, that is why I never judge. I wanted to offer support to you guys going through trouble with your well-being. I have this Facebook group you can join. Yes, it’s free, and I would be happy to help you through a special place in my heart. I will leave a link in the comment section if you are interested. The bottom line is that financial problems can impact your well-being, and it is essential that you receive the support you deserve. Let’s support each other in the comment section. Leave your online friends some kind words. You never know what someone is going through. Your words can mean a great deal to someone else. Have a great night or day wherever you are. Take care, Lovelies. If you have a question, please don’t hesitate to comment on your concerns, and I will respond. I love you!

Hello, there, Lovelies. I hope you all are doing frantastic, truly. Today, I would like to discuss a topic that has had a profound impact on my well-being. What I’m referring to is money. Some people have called money the root of all evil. Because of all the things people are willing to do to get a wealthier lifestyle. For instance, I recently watched a documentary where a son killed his mother for some insurance money because he was really in debt. I have also been watching numerous stories about lottery winners, and it is truly amazing how their lives changed after winning a large sum of money. It is clear that money has a significant impact on all our lives. Moreover, it is a remarkable truth that nothing is ever truly free.

Yes, Lovelies like it or hate it, having money is very important. Almost everything you want to do has a price tag of sorts. There are a few things that you can enjoy absolutely free of charge—for example, going for a walk in a beautiful park or on a beach. Needless to say, the impact of money is significant. The question is, in what ways specifically does money impact our well-being? “Money significantly impacts wellbeing by influencing both mental and physical health, as well as social relationships.” Lovelies, that is precisely what I’m currently experiencing. Not having enough money is causing me a significant amount of stress; for instance, I’m having trouble paying bills and don’t have any money left over to do the things that I truly, madly, deeply enjoy. I’m originally from Haiti, and I was never a stranger to struggle. Everything I have, Lovelies, is because I work hard. No one has ever just given me anything. I believe that is why I’m so humble and know the actual value of money. You know what, Lovelies? I have just realized that this is a really important topic, about which I have a lot to say. Which means we will discuss things further in part 2. In the meantime, I’m interested in knowing what money means to you all. For me, money is just a tool to create the life I truly, madly, deeply need. Alright, Lovelies, be safe. Have a great night or day wherever you are. Bye, take care.

Hello Lovelies. I’m currently obsessed with a new music video, and how are you all presently doing? I hope you enjoy and appreciate the honesty I bring to our conversations. Ya, sometimes I can be a bit too honest, I suppose. Nevertheless, that is just how I am. I’m a beautiful open book. You know what, Lovelies, honesty turns out to be good for your well-being—just being absolutely honest about your perfect imperfections while learning to accept and love yourself. It can do wonders for your happiness and overall well-being. Honesty is truly madly deeply the best policy.

Learning to accept myself for all my perfect imperfections wasn’t that easy at all. Growing up, I was the nerd and was very awkward. If I’m being honest, I’m still awkward and pretty nerdy, just older. It was my journey of body acceptance that led me to create this lovely site. When we stress ourselves out by trying to impress others and be someone we are not, it can have a significant toll on our health and well-being. Constantly being too hard on yourself and comparing yourself to others can take a toll and eventually affect your physical well-being. If you don’t feel good about yourself, you also won’t look good. Ya, it is really that simple. Similarly, by constantly not being truthful about who you are and just trying your best to live your life, you are just not being the person you were meant to be. Besides, the truth always finds its way out of your happily ever after. It is much better to be honest and upfront with yourself. If you are not happy with where your life is currently going, acknowledge this and make plans to get back on track to where you want to go. To me, it’s life’s perfectly imperfect derailments that make it so beautiful and worth living. Be honest with me, Lovelies. What are your thoughts about honesty being the best policy? I do promise to always be honest with you all. Lies don’t help, they hurt! You know, I want to help! On that note, I’m going to bid you farewell. Have a blessed day or night. Take care with love.

Good evening, Lovelies. Today I feel much better. It’s amazing what a breath of fresh air can do for you. It can take your well-being on a ride right to your happily ever after. From reading my other blog posts, you can gather that I love walking and nature as a whole. The natural beauty of waterfalls, the green grass, and the blue skies can be truly breathtaking. You can easily fall in love with nature and give in to its effortless beauty. That’s truly madly deeply beautiful. Having peace and a wellbeing that is incomparable is what I genuinely want for you all.

Yes, Lovelies, what I’ve noticed for myself is that when I don’t go outside, even for a little while, to get a breath of fresh air, it can have an adverse effect on my mood for the entire day. I need to see the sun and the beautiful skies. It doesn’t seem to matter even if it is raining. I just got to get out and about. Can you relate, Lovelies? Something about nature takes me to my happily ever after. I feel good, I feel alive. I can clear my thoughts and heal my heart. So I’m starting a new wellness journey activity. Every day, I will step out, even if it is for a little while. Now you know, being in New York, stepping outside daily can be challenging during the colder months. That will be fun to see what I do then. I have made this decision because, for a while, I have noticed that it is what my body needs. It is always a good idea to listen to your perfectly imperfect body. It can tell you the most beautiful stories and keep you healthy. What are your thoughts, Lovelies? Do you also notice that sometimes you just need to be out in nature? I’m always interested in your thoughts. I believe that having a community that supports and shares helpful tips is terrific, as it helps you never feel alone. Which is and will always be my goal. Have an excellent rest of your day or night wherever you are in the world. Bye, take care, Lovelies.