Hello Lovelies. How do you do? I hope all is well for you. As for me, things are okay. As you all know, life always somehow throws curveballs your way. For me, that was with my dog being taken to the emergency vet. Now I have a very high bill that is waiting for me. You know, life is all about how you handle life’s hard times. You can’t control what happens to you, but you are always in control of how you react. Another equally important thing is learning to take responsibility for your life.

I was listening to one of my audiobooks. It was talking about the power of owning your responsibilities. Many of us like to say it is not our fault. Or there is nothing we could’ve done. I just learned that something can not be your fault, but you still need to take responsibility, like with my dog. It was not my fault that he was sick, but I had to take responsibility for him because I love him. For me, taking responsibility means you have grown intellectually and are willing to admit you are where you are because of the choices you made. Then you are willing to take it a step further by taking action. Lovelies, there is a lot more I would like to add. Stay tuned for part 2. Have a great day or night wherever you are. Take care of yourself.

Hello there, Lovelies. I’m going to be completely transparent right now and let you all know I’m not alright today. I’m anxious and feel a lot of stress. How are you, Lovelies doing? Hopefully better than I’m doing right now. I was just thinking, why can’t I just be happy? Why am I always sad and depressed? Thinking about what a burden I must be to my boyfriend, messaging him. Not surprised he didn’t respond. Lovelies, it is extremely important that I come off as authentic as possible. I want to use my own life experiences to help you. So yes, absolutely, I will write a blog post as I cry, or maybe make a video while I’m still angry. It is important to see my faults and to learn from them. This blog site is exceptionally personal and factual. I truly, madly, deeply just want to help. Below is a prayer to help you if you are also going through a difficult time.

You don’t need to be of a specific religion to do this prayer. You can absolutely be a non-believer and still recite this prayer. If you say it and mean it from your heart, this prayer will help you. Please take solace and know you are never alone. Let’s come together as a community and pray together. Hope you find this prayer helpful and it puts you at peace. My reward is your happiness. Pray, and may the strength be with you. {Your Sweet Prayer} “Dear Friend. Blessed is my heart, as times are hard right now. Show me the way to everlasting happiness. Remind me over and over again that this too shall pass. Never dwell on things you can’t control—because that causes unnecessary stress. Instead, try to be calm and stay positive. Smile even though I know that is the last thing you want to do. Your happily ever after is waiting for you now, forevermore.”

Hello, Lovelies, and how do you do? Today is a very hot day here in New York City. I’m in Manhattan to do trailer checks for the Minion movie. I love being in Manhattan as it puts me in the right mindset. Moreover, it is hard not to be inspired when you are surrounded by many businesses. Plenty of shopping stores and restaurants. The street was lively, and I loved it. New York has always been the melting pot of the world. There were rich people and poor people. For instance, while I was on my walk, I saw a man just lying on the floor like it was his bed. While other people were begging. Nonetheless, it felt like you had a choice.

Lovelies, every day that you wake up, you have a choice. You open your eyes and take a breath. Where each person wakes up is different, whether it is a lavish mansion or the streets; we each have a choice. The choice you make determines whether you will be successful and happy. Now, I will be honest: There were many times I woke up with worrying thoughts. A lot of negative thoughts floated in my brain. Whenever I chose to worry, the day always turned out badly, with more problems. That is why I’m learning to worry less. It is a process. It is not easy, as problems always persist. I have done a lot of reflection and understand that something has to change if I am to grow my business and increase my wealth. So I chose to change and give it my all.

What about you, Loveliess? Where are you in life? What choices have you been making? Be mindful of every choice you make. It can determine how far your happily ever after is. For so long, I made the decision to bring myself down. I had a dream but was too scared to even try. I didn’t believe I would succeed. This website is never about me telling you how to live your life. It is your life; only you know what you truly desire. Only you can live the life you want. No one is coming to save you. You have to do it for yourself. If you have been wanting to start your own blog, just do it. The perfect time is now. Alright, Lovelies, just sharing a bit of motivation with you all. I will see you all next time with sweet love. Bye, take care of yourself.

Good day, Lovelies. How are you all doing? I’m doing alright. I’m being more mindful of my health and, truly, madly, deeply, trying to take better care of myself. After being sick, I’m no longer taking my health for granted. Without good health, true happiness can not exist. So yes, Lovelies, take good care of yourself and be well. In a later post, I will share exactly what I’m doing to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Hopefully that can also inspire you to take better care of yourself. Similarly, I’m also trying to stop worrying so much. That has severely impacted my health.

Ya, seriously, Lovelies, I’m always worrying about something or another. I worry without realizing it. It is what I do when I have problems. Which is a really bad habit. Look how my health has suffered. People always say, “Why can’t you just stop worrying? It is not good for you.” Like it is that simple. If it was, I would have stopped worrying long ago. Yes, I have been worrying since I was young. No wonder my health is not at its optimal. Nonetheless, sometimes you realize you need help, and you learn to ask. For me, that takes the form of different apps I use. Yes, I have to pay. I don’t mind, as my health is priceless. I truly realize worrying doesn’t solve anything at all. It creates more problems. Your brain is just thinking about the same thing over and over.

Yes, thinking is good. When you think too much, then it truly becomes a problem. Your life begins to feel out of control. Which can turn to severe anxiety. Lovelies, I’m now in my forties, and I decided to get help for my excessively worrying mind. I know it is not simple to just stop. It has to be a commitment you make to yourself. A sweet commitment of self-love. If you ever feel you need encouragement, leave me a comment. I would be happy to help. Get the support you need from this lovely community. No judgment zone of acceptance. Never feel ashamed to ask for help. It takes a lot of courage and strength. Mental health is health and is often the most overlooked. It was lovely chatting with you all. I will see you all tomorrow. Have a great day or night, wherever you are in the world. Bye, take care with sweet love.

Hello Lovelies, how are you all doing? I’m doing okay. Ya things have still been difficult; note my absence from this wonderful platform. Gosh, I really don’t know where to start, honestly. You know what, let me start with being honest, as I’m always authentic with you all. My illness returned with another problem: swollen feet. I was put on medication for that. Lovelies, you never realize how precious your health is until you lose it. It can keep you from working as you don’t feel well. As well as cause you to lose some much-needed motivation. Honestly, though, I never forgot about you guys.

Yes, guys, back then, when I first started creating this lovely site. I just wanted to share my own personal account with you all. There was a lot of passion, and it was something I was going through at the time, so creating content came easily. Then gradually my self-doubt began to take hold of me. Each year should have been the year, but just never was. My journey of self-doubt and depression is ongoing. Which is fine. The goal is never to deflect and be happy. The goal is to keep going no matter what. This site has been part of my life for many years now. I have grown, and this site has grown with me. As I’m writing this, I’m reflecting and searching my Franchy heart. You guys really mean a lot to me, and it is always my pleasure, truly madly deeply. I promise you guys I’m here to stay. As we come up on year 11, I’m very grateful you guys are still here.

Wow, 11 years is a lot. A lot of reflecting, a lot of authenticity. Many late nights and early morning blogging. Today, I wanted to add an alternative way to keep in touch. It is on Facebook. A Facebook group, to be more exact. If you are from here, send me a message and let me properly welcome you. That way, we are always connected. Let me reassure you that my absence in no way reflects my feelings for you all. Things just happen, and I have been truly sick. You guys mean the world to me. I love you all, truly, madly, deeply. Take care of yourself. I will see you all next time with sweet love.

Hello Lovelies, how are you all doing? I hope this frantastic post finds you in good health and in good spirits. I myself am doing okay. Just been going through a lot with my mental and physical health. As always, guys, I’m authentic and very honest. Please keep that in mind as you read this post and my other lovely articles. I’m truly sorry I have not been posting. I really genuinely have been missing you guys. What has been going on with my health is that I have been very tired with low energy. Yes, there have been days that I just could not get out of bed despite having plenty to do. With not being able to do my business, I felt depressed and worthless. Yes, Lovelies, one thing after another. Seriously, a lot on my Franchy plate.

Have you guys also had a lot on your plate, too? Earlier today, I did my mental discussion with myself. A daily check-in to see what is going on in my mind and to see how I’m doing. I’m choosing to try to fix my problems instead of my usual constant worrying. Which is not easy at all, but is absolutely necessary. I did a visualization exercise in which I pictured myself living the perfect life. A big house and having a lot of money at my disposal. I didn’t have any problems and no worries. Everything was perfect. Then I remember that it’s life difficulties that make us who we are. A hard life teaches you all that you need to live your best life. Much better than any formal education could have ever taught you. Remember, you are stronger than you think, and never give up, Lovelies. I love you all truly, madly, deeply. Thank you for your ongoing support and your understanding. I just wanted to let you know that I have not forgotten my Lovelies. Just life is throwing a lot of curveballs my way. I will see you all tomorrow. Until then, take care of yourself. Bye for now.

Good day, Lovelies. How do you do? Wow, so sorry I have been gone for a while. A lot has been happening to my perfectly imperfect life. For starters, I was feeling very tired. Finding it hard to get up and start my day. I was just sleeping my life away, seriously. I felt nauseous and like I wanted to faint. Ya a really difficult time indeed. At some point, I thought I was pregnant, so I made an appointment to see my doctor. Although I want to be a mom, now is not a good time. So I was pleased to find out that I was not pregnant. Now is just not the time to bring a child into the world with all my struggles. I found out that I suffer from low iron anemia. Ya, Lovelies, take wonderful care of your health. Good health is the best gift in the world. When you wake up smiling and feeling good is the best way to start your day. Take care of yourself, Lovelies, be well. Now I’m starting all over again to be consistent. Yes, I have a very busy, crazy life. I still want to commit to being there for you. After all, this is our safe haven. I’m working on finding a community platform where we all can engage and help one another. I love you all, thank you for your continued support, ya.

Sweet Healing.

Like a soothing bubble bath.

Or a warm summer night stream.

Healing is the beginning of something beautiful.

Like time, it gets better a little at a time.

Join me here on my sweet journey.

Let’s start yours with sweet love.

Oh, sweet journey, I’m forever yours.

Truly madly deeply.

Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing? I’m doing okay. Ya, Lovelies, you know I’m always authentically honest with you. This post certainly is no different. All my posts are all heart felt and personal. As I really want to share hard-learned lessons. One hard lesson I’m learning is how housing insecurity can occur even when renting from your parents. “Housing insecurity—which includes unaffordability, poor housing quality, and residential instability—is a critical social determinant of health that acts as a fundamental driver of poor well-being across the entire lifespan.”

Ya, Lovelies, I know I have touched on the topic of homelessness. Homelessness results from housing insecurity. In the expansive, lovely state of New York, the median cost of an average apartment is 2000 per month. It is possible to get a cheaper place, but it will be in a very bad neighborhood. Even some bad neighborhoods can be 2000 per month. With how expensive housing is, it is no wonder that there are a lot of families who are homeless. For instance, since the trains and buses run 24 hours here in New York, that is where a lot of homeless people go to for shelter. Moreover, there are some programs available to help with rent if you are eligible. Being self-employed like me makes it difficult to show my earnings and verify my eligibility. What about people like me? We all need to feel secure in our housing situation and protected if we lose our job prospects. Or other unforeseeable problems in the future. True wellbeing is knowing you have a safe haven to lay your head at night and a place to leave your things. Food, shelter, and water are everyone’s right, regardless of their financial situation. In the future, I would like to help with my business, Frans Online Business INC. I will talk more about that in a future post. Until then, take care of yourself with sweet love. Bye for now.

Hello there, Lovelies, and how are you? I’m doing okay for now. Earlier, I was not doing too well. I was experiencing a really bad mindset. “A poor or scarcity mindset—characterized by beliefs of limitation, fear, and chronic lack—severely degrades mental and physical well-being by fostering constant stress, anxiety, and feelings of unworthiness. This mindset restricts decision-making, causes neglect of self-care, and traps individuals in cycles of depression and strained relationships, limiting both personal and professional growth.

Ya, Lovelies, your mindset is everything. Today, when I woke up, I was just not in a good mood. I was very stressed out and worried. Furthermore, I was unable to get out of bed and start my day. Ya my well-being was taking a really hard beating, seriously. It was just a cycle of negative thoughts and worries about what could go wrong. No good thoughts at all. To the point I almost did not do my daily post for the Dare To Post Challenge. I just wanted to end it all, Lovelies. As it was all-consuming. It’s beginning to scare me to have these thoughts again. I just have to remind myself, ya, this too shall pass. When I get this way, I don’t get much work done, and I lose motivation. The I can do anything feeling is completely gone. I’m sharing this very sensitive story to encourage you to get help. I also show you that you are not alone; you have this community behind you. I have read other blogs in my niche, and I stand out. I share deeply personal, sensitive parts of me with you all in the hope of helping you to go through pain with grace. I’m not an expert, I’m just someone who is going through the same thing as you and learning in the way. I’m truly here for you all. I love you all. Be well, and I will see you next time. Bye for now.