Hello Lovelies, good morning, good afternoon, or good evening wherever you are in the world. As you guys may know, I’m very authentic with you all. Yes, I’m a mixed black girl, and I’m very different. I always try to be honest and speak straight from the heart. I see the world totally differently. I have no hate in my heart, just pure love and understanding. As I always say, my eyes are blue. However, my differences have not always been so easily understood. I know it has at times interfered with my well-being. “Differences can impact wellbeing both positively and negatively; embracing them through communication and understanding can strengthen relationships and boost wellbeing, while unresolved conflict can cause stress and harm mental health.”

I remember a post I wrote a bit back on my other website. It says I’m black, but I’m not actually black. Nothing could have been truer. Growing up, I always felt very different, like an outsider of sorts. As a little girl, I knew that I was not like other little girls or boys. There was just something very different and loving about me. For so long I didn’t want to be different I just wanted to fit in. I didn’t want to be so different that some people would be surprised and unsure how to respond. As I got older, I learned to truly, madly, deeply appreciate my differences and realized that I was wonderfully beautiful. I know as a teen, you want to fit in and have a lot of friends who validate you. Even as an adult, you want to be loved and accepted. No one wants to be the odd one out. The one who has to stand alone. As that can feel very lonely and uncomfortable. I wanted to write this post to support you and let you know that it is okay to be different. Our differences are what make the world go around and create a wide range of businesses and opportunities. So be different, be you. Accept your perfect imperfections and observe how beautiful your world becomes. I love you all. Have a great day or night wherever you are. Be safe and be well. Bye for now.