Hiya Lovelies. Today I feel good and am grateful. No, everything is not alright, but I’m learning to accept myself where I am. Many of us feel inadequate because we are not where we want to be in our lives. When we reach a specific age, we have expectations that we think we must meet. For instance, by the time we reach our 30s, we are supposed to know exactly what we want out of life. However, having too many expectations can harm our well-being. By obsessing about what could and should be, you can create a lot of stress. Instead, why not meet me where you are?

Whatcha talking about, Franchy? I mean, accept yourself and come as you are, and all your perfect imperfections. If you are currently homeless and experiencing a hard time, I will meet you where you are. Perhaps take you to a nearby Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts. It’s okay; you haven’t found your true calling just yet. Some of us need more time, that’s all. I have heard of people who are successful on paper, living the life that many can only dream of, yet they are absolutely miserable. My happiness is key, and everything else is just icing on the cake, seriously. Perhaps you’re doing just okay and barely getting by, and you’ve a very successful sibling, wondering if you’ve missed out on the successful gene or something. No worries, I will meet you at your small apartment and maybe bring over some Chicken sandwiches. There, we can discuss your dreams and desires. Being able to be honest with yourself and saying this is where I’m can do wonders for your wellbeing. Then you can form a plan for your very own happily ever after. By no means am I saying not to have big dreams and aspirations. I’m just saying be patient and kind to yourself and meet yourself where you currently are. Whatever this looks like for you. Where are you now, Lovelies, and what are your hopes for the future?