Happy birthday to me. Yes, today is my perfectly imperfect day. So many years of living and trying to make all my dreams come true. Having a great well-being will help me to celebrate many more days. If today is your birthday or you are about to celebrate a birthday, awesome. Birthdays are our special day. A celebration of life. To see how far you have come. Boy, I have come so far from no pictures online to a host of pictures. Now, when it comes to my well-being, I can still use a bit of work.
Yes, guys, of course, I’m always authentic with you, even at the grand old age of 43. I’m still trying to find my place in this perfectly imperfect world and thinking about getting therapy for some unresolved issues. Moreover, I learned a bit more about myself just from cutting my hair and starting over. Yes, life and all its beautiful possibilities. Focusing on more important things. At my age, I didn’t need many presents. Some people taking the time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday was fulfilling enough. So, if you are also near my age or just trying to find life’s meaning, you are not alone. My birthday wish is that all of you are doing well. If you have something on your mind and would like some support, please share your beautiful thought in the comments. Have a blessed, gorgeous day or night, wherever you are.
Hiya Lovelies. Yesterday wasn’t the best day ever. Let me be honest, that is a total underestimate. In my mind, the worst thing that could have happened did just that happen. Needless to say, this created a great deal of stress, which was accompanied by considerable worry. You know what, Lovelies? All I needed was some faith, as not everything is as it seems. Moreover, not everything will be clearly determined and explainable. This is when your faith and well-being come together to create your happily-ever-after. Sometimes, the best thing that could have happened to you is something you can’t explain, so you smile.
Growing up, one of my favorite shows to watch was Unsolved Mysteries, hosted by Robert Stack. Yes, I actually began watching Unsolved Mysteries when I was 9 years old. Ya, I was still a baby. Something about the mysteries in our perfectly imperfect lives truly piques my interest. As mysteries are rarely provable, we need faith to understand and make sense of the perfect imperfections. Yes, Lovelies, our faith can go a long way toward supporting our well-being. “Faith can significantly contribute to overall well-being by offering a sense of purpose, hope, and peace, while also fostering social connections and providing coping mechanisms during difficult times.” On my blog, I try to avoid discussing my religious beliefs. For one thing, I believe that it should be private and is deeply personal. Additionally, you guys come from all over the world and believe whatever you feel, and that is perfectly fine. When I mention faith, I’m not referring to your religion or spiritual beliefs. I’m referring to the optimistic belief that everything will be okay, no matter how bad things may seem now. The ever-optimist smiles through life’s perfectly imperfect derailments. For example, a childhood personality I used to watch in my teen years just recently died from Cancer. Her name was Annada Lewis, the ’90s VJ who grew to fame. It was heartwarming to see that she still had faith, despite knowing she didn’t have much time with her friends and family. She had a son whom she wanted to watch grow up into a wonderful man. Her faith allows her to live just long enough to see him graduate from middle school. If she had been miserable, feeling sorry for herself that she was dying, she might not have lived that long. Yes, I genuinely believe that Lovelies. Some of you may disagree with me. That’s okay, you are entitled to your own opinions. I never truly judge. So, what are your thoughts on Faith, Lovelies? Has having faith also helped you with your well-being? Please share your lovely thoughts below. Have a great day or night wherever you are. Take care, see you all next time.
Hello Lovelies. Hope all is well with you. I genuinely care and wish the best for you all. Today, I wanted to continue our discussion about procrastination because there is a lot I want to say about it. “Procrastination is the act of unnecessarily delaying or postponing a task despite knowing there could be negative consequences.” Gosh, that is so true. I keep saving a task for later when I know it has to be done. Which inevitably leads to unnecessary stress. Which is extremely bad for my well-being. The truth of the matter is that later or tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Anything can change within a split second. Knowing our time is limited and the negative consequences of procrastinating. Why are so many of us willing to risk it all?
My self-doubt is linked somewhat to my procrastination. Since when you doubt yourself, and you make excuses to put off the work for later? Then you keep putting it off, and it just never gets done. Lovelies, that is my true story, and one of the main reasons why I’m still not successful. I keep putting off my dreams because I honestly don’t believe I can do it. Wow, what a revelation. Needing accountability is one great reason to start a blog, as your audience holds you accountable. That way, you can’t blame your failures on anything else. Another reason I procrastinate is my fear. Yes, my fear of actually succeeding. Lovelies, doesn’t that sound unbelievable? Why be afraid of something you truly, madly, deeply desire? Yet we all do that, don’t we? Let our fears keep us away from our dreams on the merry-go-round of broken dreams. Lovelies, let’s support each other and help one another stop procrastinating for our well-being, with sweet love. Have a good one.
Hello Lovelies, and how are you all doing today? I’m doing alright —thankfully, I’m doing well. I wanted to apologize for my recent procrastination on my content. The thing is, procrastination is not only counterproductive. “Procrastination can significantly impact well-being, leading to increased stress, anxiety, and even depression.” Moreover, “It can also negatively affect self-esteem and productivity, and lead to missed opportunities and poor time management.”
Ya Lovelies, while I know when I procrastinate, I can miss out on my productivity for the day. Nonetheless, it is something I always find myself continually doing on the merry-go-round of broken dreams, which is extremely bad for me as I work for myself in my own businesses. Working for myself requires discipline and the ability to get as much work done as possible. What’s more likely is that I don’t get my required work done. Now I’m stressed out, trying to get everything done on short notice. What I have noticed is that my unproductivity is linked to my depression. Lovelies as I have a lot more I would like to say on this topic. Stay tuned for part 2. I will see you all next time with love. Bye take care.
Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing? I hope you are doing well and are healthy. Truly madly deeply. I never forget the actual reason for creating this frantastic blog. To help people who are also going through a difficult situation in life. As I continually face difficult situations, my passion to help is even stronger. I want to share what I’ve learned so you don’t have to go through it yourself.
So, where am I currently in my perfectly imperfect journey? I’ve lost a lot of weight due to stress. I remember these days when people came bothering me about my weight. Now looking back on old pictures, I realize I was still beautiful. Most importantly, I was happy. Now I have started a new relationship. Still slowly working things out. I have some stuff on my end to mend, and luckily, he is patient. I have come to realize the role that being in a supportive relationship can play in your overall well-being.
My overall well-being needs work. I am always honest with you guys and never want to claim that I know all the answers because I don’t. I’m perfectly imperfect, and I’m learning as I blog. This website is a community space to show each other support. I thank you guys for being here with me since 2015. Have a wonderful day or night wherever you are. Take care of yourselves.
