Hello Lovelies, good morning, good afternoon, or good evening wherever you are in the world. As you guys may know, I’m very authentic with you all. Yes, I’m a mixed black girl, and I’m very different. I always try to be honest and speak straight from the heart. I see the world totally differently. I have no hate in my heart, just pure love and understanding. As I always say, my eyes are blue. However, my differences have not always been so easily understood. I know it has at times interfered with my well-being. “Differences can impact wellbeing both positively and negatively; embracing them through communication and understanding can strengthen relationships and boost wellbeing, while unresolved conflict can cause stress and harm mental health.”

I remember a post I wrote a bit back on my other website. It says I’m black, but I’m not actually black. Nothing could have been truer. Growing up, I always felt very different, like an outsider of sorts. As a little girl, I knew that I was not like other little girls or boys. There was just something very different and loving about me. For so long I didn’t want to be different I just wanted to fit in. I didn’t want to be so different that some people would be surprised and unsure how to respond. As I got older, I learned to truly, madly, deeply appreciate my differences and realized that I was wonderfully beautiful. I know as a teen, you want to fit in and have a lot of friends who validate you. Even as an adult, you want to be loved and accepted. No one wants to be the odd one out. The one who has to stand alone. As that can feel very lonely and uncomfortable. I wanted to write this post to support you and let you know that it is okay to be different. Our differences are what make the world go around and create a wide range of businesses and opportunities. So be different, be you. Accept your perfect imperfections and observe how beautiful your world becomes. I love you all. Have a great day or night wherever you are. Be safe and be well. Bye for now.

Wow, Lovelies, it is true that I have been blogging since 2013 and working online even before then. If I had let my fear overtake my sweet dreams, I would not be where I am today. What are some of your fears, Lovelies? “Fear is a natural survival response that triggers the “fight or flight” response, but chronic or excessive fear can negatively impact wellbeing by causing physical and mental health issues.” It is healthy to have fears every now and again. Like experiencing stage fright whenever you have to present your project in front of the class. But what do you do when your fear is keeping you from your happily ever after?

Lovelies, I can think of plenty of times when I let my fear get in my way. My most recent fear was cutting my long hair. I was afraid of how it would look and what people would think. I’m so happy to have overcome my fear and finally cut my hair off. It is growing back, thankfully, and looks a lot healthier. I have touched on fear a lot throughout my blog posts—the ultimate dream killer. However, fears are not only detrimental to your dreams but also really destructive to your health. It can rob you of your peace and cause you many physical discomforts, like chest pain. It is important to note that fear, in moderation, can help you avoid harm and sometimes keep you from making a really bad decision. Contrastingly, too much fear can give you medical problems and keep you from living your best life ever. Lovelies, it is all about taking everything one step at a time, reducing stress and excessive worrying. Which I myself am currently working on right along with you. I love you all, be safe, and take care of yourself, Lovelies. Have a good one.

Hello Lovelies, hope you are doing awesomely amazing today. I remember my reasoning for starting this frantastic blog: to learn self-love and compassion for myself. I knew there were others on the same journey, and I wanted to share my story as an inspiration.”Self-love is essential for well-being, acting as a foundation for mental and physical health by increasing self-esteem, resilience, and emotional balance.” As I get older and my perfectly imperfect body undergoes so many changes, practicing self-love becomes so essential. As beauty standards become steeper, practicing self-love is your lifeline to a happier, more fulfilling life.

Yes, Lovelies, we all want to be happy, living our best lives ever. That all begins with loving the person you see in the mirror smiling back at you, loving your flaws and all your perfect imperfections. I know our beauty standards are wildly different as we come from all over the world. Some of us have straight hair. At the same time, others like me have curly hair. Moreover, blue and green eyes may decorate your pretty face. We are all beautiful, truly. Knowing we are beautiful and perfectly imperfect can help with our well-being. Furthermore, practicing self-love daily can help us cope with the most challenging situations. For instance, I’m currently going through a difficult time. By trying to be more understanding and not beating myself up all the time, I’m just practicing self-love. It is really helping to improve my overall well-being. Lovelies, I want to be happy. I want to be at peace. Don’t you all want the same thing? I wish you all the best, Lovelies. After all, you are worth it. If there is anything you would like to add, please share your sweet thoughts below. I bid you all farewell. So you all next time. Bye, take care of yourself.

Hey there, Lovelies. How are you all doing? I hope all is going well for you and you have found some peace. As I get older, the need for a peaceful mind becomes more important. In life, so much is going on, and it can be challenging to find time to create some peace for yourself. “Peace and your well-being are deeply interconnected, as cultivating inner peace leads to improved mental, emotional, and physical health.” For example, you could be experiencing a difficult time in your life, but you find some peace through meditation, and that significantly helps you deal with your hardship.

I’m currently dealing with some hardships and am trying to make peace with my perfect imperfections—things like accepting that making mistakes is part of living and learning. Not letting painful memories overtake your happiness. Being able to close your eyes and have a restful, peaceful sleep. Your peace is priceless. It deserves to be protected and cared for unconditionally. Steer clear of acquaintances that rob you of your peace. If they don’t love and support you, then they don’t deserve to be part of your life. Lovelies, you deserve all the happiness in the world. Know that and never settle for less. I genuinely love you all and want the best for you all. I encourage you to make peace and head to your happily ever after. Have a blessed day or night wherever you are. Bye for now with sweet love.

Hiya Lovelies. Today, I wanted to discuss the impact of technology on our well-being. I have a love-hate relationship with technology. On one side, it allows me to work from the comfort of my own home. Contrarily, it can create unnecessary stress and anxiety. For instance, I enjoy social media. It can be very entertaining and funny. However, social media can create a feeling of unease and anxiety. Everyone on social media seems to be having a fantastic life, while you’re struggling to get out of bed. Some filters can make someone’s life seem perfect, which leaves you wondering what is wrong with me.

Absolutely nothing is wrong with you, Lovelies. You are perfectly imperfect and beautiful. As a content creator myself, I know how to create content for different audiences. A lot of the pictures are smoky mirrors. Things are not as they seem. For instance, I was watching a true story of a big influencer. Everything was a lie. The mansions and beautiful cars were just rented. They were really in debt from trying to live beyond their means. You know me, Lovelies: I’m always authentic with you all and never pretend I have all the answers. Because I really don’t. Constantly being bombarded with unrealistic expectations can seriously affect your well-being. Which is why I think it is good to take mental breaks from technology from time to time. Put your life into perspective, care about the things that are truly dear and near to your heart. What matters is that you are happy and healthy. That you are living your best life ever. I hope you are doing well, truly madly deeply. Take care of yourself, truly madly deeply. Bye for now.

Hi Lovelies, I hope you are doing well and are having a good day. Today I wanted to talk about change. Personally, I don’t like change. I like things to stay the same. For instance, I’m pretty predictable when I find something I want, I stick with it. For instance, I’m still using a mirror I have had since I was 18. Lovelies, I will admit it, I find change uncomfortable. The truth is, everything is constantly changing. So it’s best to build a healthy relationship with the inevitability of change. “Adapting to change is crucial for well-being and can be managed by focusing on what you can control, maintaining routines, and practicing self-care.”

Lovelies, as I get older, I’m constantly practicing self-care. For example, every day I try to make some time to meditate, as that is very good for my well-being. Similarly, learning to accept change rather than fight it can exponentially improve your well-being. I have recently been experiencing some changes in my life. I just chopped off my hair and started a new relationship. What changes have you recently experienced? Comment below to get the support you deserve. I wanted to write this post as I know many people have difficulty with change. It can be challenging and make you feel uncomfortable. Nevertheless, change is a part of life that you can’t escape. If you are experiencing difficulties in life, there is a change that needs to be made so you can be happy while living a more fulfilling life. I myself have to change something soon. As it is almost the end of the year, I want a fresh start. Change is good, Lovelies. Try to make the best of it. One thing that will never change is my genuine love for you all. I’m going to bid you farewell. I will see you all next time. Bye for now.

Hiya, Lovelies, how are you doing? I truly hope all is going well at the moment. If you know me, then you will realize that I’m literally addicted to worrying. I worry about everything seriously. My thinking is very negative, unfortunately. Which is really bad when “your thinking is deeply connected to your well-being, as thoughts influence your emotions, actions, and even physical health.” Yes, Lovelies, you can’t have negative, doubtful thoughts and expect to succeed in all you do. In short, if you think you will win, you are right, and if you think you will lose, you are also right. As you become what you think about.

Lovelies, imagine you are at a restaurant having a good time with your friends and family, celebrating a new job prospect. Then, all of a sudden, your mind is bombarded with negative thoughts. Suddenly, you become tense and stressed. You are no longer having a good time. That’s precisely how it can get for me. Lovelies, I know I have a problem with worrying. Which is why I use an app like Calm to help quiet my mind. When I’m in a better place, I’m thinking about using Better Help. I also need therapy. Like with anything else, realizing you need help is the first step. Then take it one step at a time. Another thing I’m thinking about giving a go at is my online diary. It also helps to write down your thoughts. Just doing my meditation is good for my well-being. You don’t need to make a significant change for your life to take a turn for the better, Lovelies. Sometimes one little decision can make all the difference in the world. Choose happiness every day, and everything else will begin falling into place. I love you all. Be well, and take care of yourself. Remember, you are perfectly imperfect and you are beautiful.

“Money and wellbeing are closely linked; financial stress can cause or worsen mental and physical health issues, while financial stability improves wellbeing.” Yes. Which is why I wanted to talk more about how money can impact your well-being. With all these different ways to earn an income. Things have become quite pricey. For example, a McDonald’s meal is no longer as cheap as it used to be. Yes, the cost of living is much higher, and the price of an apartment has become intolerable. Luckily, working for a company is a lot more flexible. Allowing for different ways to earn every breath you take. Many people like me enjoy the convenience of working from home. Additionally, now, being a model and an actress is made easier by platforms like YouTube. For instance, I myself am an independent model. But I’m much more.

Yes, Lovelies, I’m much more than a pretty face. I have a dream and I’m determined to make it come true. If you have dreams, don’t let your hardships define you. I just wanted to be authentic and transparent with you all. The last three years of my life have been difficult financially. With me working on my dreams and no longer exchanging my time for money, my finances have really dwindled, and I have personally been struggling with my well-being and mental health. Yeah, some days are easier than others. There are days when I’m too depressed and don’t want to get out of bed. Moreover, there are days when I’m like, “What are you doing? Get a job and forget your dreams.” But I do have jobs, and those are my two businesses, Francesca Etheart INC and Frans Online Business INC. I do various jobs and I’m everywhere. I love that! I love controlling my own destiny. What I don’t love is the impact of my financial problems on my well-being. I need to remember why I wanted to work from home: to write my dreams and model my perfect imperfections. I have come a long way from not even making a penny online to now paying my bills and surviving on my online work. Yes, money is necessary, but not having enough of it doesn’t define you. You can make a whole lot of money and lose it all on a bad business deal, and make it all over again. But your health and mental health are priceless and not so easily restored. I wanted to share this with you all to support you in your time of need. Let you know you are not alone and remind you to keep fighting for your dreams. Like I always say, I’m not a guru with all the answers. I’m just a girl sharing pieces of her perfect imperfections in the hope of helping those in need. I love you and take care. Bye for now.

Francesca Etheart INC

Hi Lovelies, and how are you doing? I hope you are well and safe wherever you are. Today, I wanted to discuss the impact of money stress on your well-being. “Money significantly impacts wellbeing, with financial stress linked to physical and mental health issues like anxiety, poor sleep, and chronic diseases.” Money worries can keep you up all night and be the first thing you think of when you wake up. From rent to groceries everything has a price tag. I’m in beautiful New York, and everything is expensive here. Just rent a lone can take most of your paycheck. Money is not everything, but it is everything.

Yes, some people say money doesn’t bring you happiness. It doesn’t help you find true love. While it is true that some people can be absolutely miserable and be wealthy. Similarly, true love is not defined by how much money you have in your bank account. However, having money is necessary for your mental health and overall well-being. There is not much you can do if you don’t have money. For example, if you are in a relationship, financial problems can lead to many arguments. Nevertheless, even though having money is essential, it is not worth constantly stressing about it. As a matter of fact, the more you worry about not having enough money, the longer you are going to be in your financial situation. You will continually struggle with the daily necessities of life. Instead, I encourage you to seek help. Look for financial assistance online. Also, working a side gig can be beneficial. There is a lot more I would like to say. Stay tuned for part 2. Have a blessed day or night wherever you are, ya.

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Happy birthday to me. Yes, today is my perfectly imperfect day. So many years of living and trying to make all my dreams come true. Having a great well-being will help me to celebrate many more days. If today is your birthday or you are about to celebrate a birthday, awesome. Birthdays are our special day. A celebration of life. To see how far you have come. Boy, I have come so far from no pictures online to a host of pictures. Now, when it comes to my well-being, I can still use a bit of work.

Yes, guys, of course, I’m always authentic with you, even at the grand old age of 43. I’m still trying to find my place in this perfectly imperfect world and thinking about getting therapy for some unresolved issues. Moreover, I learned a bit more about myself just from cutting my hair and starting over. Yes, life and all its beautiful possibilities. Focusing on more important things. At my age, I didn’t need many presents. Some people taking the time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday was fulfilling enough. So, if you are also near my age or just trying to find life’s meaning, you are not alone. My birthday wish is that all of you are doing well. If you have something on your mind and would like some support, please share your beautiful thought in the comments. Have a blessed, gorgeous day or night, wherever you are.