All posts by Francesca Etheart

Hello World! My name is Francesca Etheart. I'm originally from the beautiful Island of Haiti. I came to the United States at the tender age of 8. I came here for the opportunity to grow financially and mentally. Which I did. Upon my journey I discover my love for reading and writing.Pass forward to the future I'm currently 32 yrs old. I work as a security guard and on my off time I do my online business. To be more specific I now work 2 days as a security guard to devote more tme to my business. My biggest dream and desire is to write. I'm a freelance writer. I write on different sites. I'm also working on publishing my first book on kindle self publishing. Look out for that! My next dream is my online business. Which brings us to this site.This site is about loving yourself and being your own comfortable weight. I'm not looking to make anyone a size four. Everyone have their own comfortable weight. After all women come in all shapes and sizes. I myself for most of my youth I was skinny. But then I made the big decision to eat and enjoy food. Needless to say I got a lot of rude and negative comments about my weight gain. Apparently gaining weight is a crime. The reason I created this site is to give advise on how to maintain a healthy weight. If your happy at being a healthy size that's fine too. I'm not here to tell you how to take care of your body and live your life. I'm here to provide relevant information to help you be at your healthy weight.This site is also here to support you. You can email me your questions. I will gladly answer them. Thank you for checking out my site. I Look forward to seeing you again. Have a great day/night in the world

2022 New Spring Dreams.

Hi Lovelies how do you do? I’m doing alright just feeling tired. Ya, my sleep is back to being sporadic and I’m trying to adjust to the wonderful mornings again. I just am so used to being up at night and sleeping the mornings away. The problem is that by the time I wake up it is too late to run my errands. Like my Franchy frantastic bank runs. Additionally, it is spring you know time for my wonderful walks outdoors.

Ya, it is springtime in beautiful New York City. You know Lovelies I absolutely hate the winters. Now it is getting warmer I can go out more frequently. Which when getting up too late possess a really big problem. I like to do 2 hours at least at the park before I can come home. Then it is time to work again. Ya Lovelies I work each and every day. Between Facebook, my business profiles, and blogging I’m pretty busy. We are really into the mid of the New Year as of now Lovelies. By now we can see how our New Year’s Resolutions went. Did you keep your many promises Lovelies? For me ya it has been truly madly deeply a struggle. Ya, bad habits truly die hard. Nonetheless, I’m not giving up. No longer just dreaming my life am living my sweet dreams. Thank you for listening to my Franchy ramblings about the new life that spring always brings. I hope today is going great for you. Stay true to yourself always. Bye, see you all tomorrow.

Franchys Sweet Musings and Mental Health.

Hi Lovelies how are you all doing on this beautiful wonderful day? Today I’m not doing too well, to be honest. Firstly to be honest something I was expecting that would have helped me a lot has fallen through. I’m referring to my tax refund. I was supposed to get it and now I realize I will not be able to receive it. Which is really unfortunate. Moreover, the new relationship that I have been working on is not going too well either. To make matters worse Lovelies I was thinking about my horrible unfortunate ex and anger was truly madly deeply consuming me. My heart was just filled with so much hate and regret towards him. So much so that I made myself sick (it can also be my woman’s issues).

Yes, Lovelies today I’m sick and really don’t feel well. Sweet Lovelies as I said before I’m perfectly imperfect. Today I’m not ok and that is perfectly ok. If I was to blog only when I feel good and am happy then I would not be blogging too often at all. Moreover, I want to share with you all my real-life experiences. Life is not always blue skies and happily ever afters. Things can happen in one moment that can truly change the entire course of your perfectly imperfect life. Like for instance a heart brake by someone you really cared about. I feel like my ex really ruined any good relationship that I can have in the future. His constant lying and emotional abuse were not good for my mental health at all. What really hurts is that it was a guy that I thought was a friend who set me up to be broken-hearted. I should have known better not to get involved with a married man but he lied and said he was not really married. I know Lovelies it truly madly deeply was complicated. He lied and just keep saying his not married. I’m very naive and different I trust too easily and love hard. Lovlies stay away from married man and man that consistently lies. They can only bring you to a truly dark place with no hope.

Sweet Lovelies I truly hope you don’t mind me writing my heart out in this wonderful article. My mental health today was not doing good. Even with daily exercise, my Franchy mind was racing in a never-ending tunnel of broken dreams. I was lost in a sea of despair. Lovelies writing has always been an outlet for my beautiful soul. Also exercising daily helps some too. Mostly I really want to help by sharing my Franchy story. If you are also going through a difficult situation. Remember it will be okay for nothing last forever. Additionally, if you are in a toxic relationship try your very best to leave. No, it will not get better. I also want to mention that therapy is a great thing and nothing to be ashamed of. Mental health is really important. Take care and be well. See you all tomorrow ya.

Franchys Weekly Water Challenge.

Good day, Lovelies and how do you do? Thankfully I’m truly madly deeply doing fine. I’m not perfect but at least I’m still here creating my very own happily ever after. I truly hope you Lovelies are having a very awesome day mmmmmmmmm ya. Oh gosh, where shall I begin with my Franchy not so frantastic update? Mmmmmmm here it goes ya. So not surprisingly I have stop drinking water again Lovelies. Ya I know old habits truly never disappear. Ya, it is definitely a daily challenge for me Franchy. I don’t know why but I really struggle with drinking water. It’s just really difficult to commit. This is exactly why I created this water challenge. Additionally, I truly wanted to inspire my other Lovelies that have this unfortunate attribute. So ya, starting all over again!

Franchy What’s The News?

Lovelies this water challenge is officially starting all over again. As you will see I have missed more than a month of recording my frantastic results and it would really be difficult to go back and fix things. Hence why I’m starting a brand new happily ever after. However, from this very moment, I will have to report to you all every week. As it is essential to see my results going forward. Sweet Lovelies this is exactly why I started this lovely beautiful challenge. Ironicly through missing my fantastic weekly updates I was still inevitably recording my Franchy results though not the way I truly wanted to. Nevertheless, I will not be too hard on myself for my frantastic failure. As I’m truly madly deeply perfectly imperfect. Additionally, I know drinking water daily would not be easy for me. That is the reason I started the challenge in the first place. So in short I have not been really drinking water Lovelies. Nonetheless no worries I can always start all over again. Which is exactly what I’m doing. See you all next week. Bye, bye chabella.

Franchys A Water Update.

Mmmmmmmmm water happy ya ?????????

Good morning, hi Lovelies how are you all doing this lovely day? To be honest I have not been enjoying those lovely spring days I have been at home sick from my woman issues. Ladies do any of you get really sick during that time of the month? I do, sometimes I’m so unwell that I cant even get up to feed and clean myself. Moreover the other reason I have not been outside as much is because I keep waking up too late. I’m awake all night and sleep during the day ugg not easy. I really need to take better care of my health ya. So that I can truly madly deeply create my very own happily ever after ya.

Ya Lovelies I’m not taking that much good care of my health. I at times feel unwell. For instance, ya I’m having difficulty at drinking water again. I don’t know it is just really hard for me. Do you Lovelies have any suggestion on how to drink more water? I was thinking about adding some flavors as I just don’t like the plainness of water. I love taste and how it awakens my Franchy senses. Sweet Lovelies that is exactly what I need to do I think add some flavor. I will keep you all posted on my progress. I truly need to drink more water as my chronic constipation has unfortunately returned. I truly madly deeply need to be a better Francesca. As I truly madly deeply love all my perfect imperfections. Bye Lovelies see you all next time ya.

Mmmmmmmmm live your best water life ya ?????????

Franchys Weekly Water Challenge.

Hi, there World Fitters, how are you? I’m doing well can’t complain actually. Hope you all are doing awesome. So this is the 2nd week into the challenge. I guess I’m still in the honeymoon phase of my challenge. The lovey-dovey and everything is going well phase. As I go more and more into the challenge as I suspect things will get harder and life will always happen. It is never easy to make a change. You just have to make the decision that you can’t truly madly deeply live like this anymore. That is exactly where I’m at in my Franchy life right now mmmmmmm ya.

Franchy Whats The News?

This week was similar to last week as I only missed one day of not drinking water. This is still good nonetheless there is always room to improve and get better. I really am drinking more because of my health. As I have a big problem with constipation. Additionally, I have a big bloated belly majority of the time which is not good at all. As a matter of fact, at times I can look like I’m pregnant. With my modeling business Francesca Etheart INC it is very important for me to look my very best. I want to be comfortable Lovelies. I don’t feel comfortable with a big belly wearing a bikini. I really hope I change for the best ya. This week was another 4 out of 5 which is awesome ya.

Franchys Weekly Water Challenge.

Hi, Lovelies welcome to my weekly water challenge in which I update you on how I’m doing in terms of my water intake. I will primarily update you guys on Tuesdays. Nonetheless, if life happens as it likely does I will do it on another day more convenient to my Franchy life. I hope to inspire you all to also drink more water for better health.

Franchy Whats The News?

Well, this week I consider being a success. As I think I just missed one or two water days. Moreover, my constipation was not as bad this week. I was able to easily go to the bathroom which is awesome. I’m still waiting for my women’s issues to go away completely for my belly will go down. Overall I give this week a solid 4 stars out of 5. Not bad for my first week. What do you think Lovelies? I hope you are proud of me. Mmmmmmmm ya.

Self Love Is Your Happily Ever After.

Self-love. What is that?

Self-love is the love I truly madly deeply have for you my darling.

Once upon a midsummer nights stream, I just could not see the beauty that had always been there. A beauty so effortless with sweet hope.

Self-love. What is that?

Self-love is truly madly deeply accepting all your faults and all your perfect imperfections and loving yourself still till your very last breath.

Self-love. What is that?

Self-love is a journey to your very own happily ever after. An eternal love that is truly everlasting. Additionally, an inspiring heart that sweetly reminds you to stop dreaming your life and begin living your dream.

Self-love. What is it?

Self-love is everywhere and anywhere. Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel, it is truly madly deeply up to you to open your beautiful heart. Moreover opening your beautiful blue eyes to all the wonderful possibilities. Sweet Lovely live the life you truly madly deeply always wanted. Carpe diem seize the wonderful day. Darling let’s dance to our very own happily ever after mmmmmmmm ya.

True love truly madly starts from within. Love yourself, Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel, and always believe in your beautiful sweet dreams mmmmmmmmmm ya.

Today Is The Day Lovelies.

Today I start a brand new blue of me. Full of wonderful possibilities as far as my beautiful blue eyes can see.

Today I start my day with a beautiful smile. With a promise to make the most of my very own perfectly imperfect life. For tomorrow is truly madly deeply never promised. Tomorrow may never come.

Today I count my many blessings and decide to live my life exactly as I choose. No regrets just with a warm heart that is truly madly deeply ready to love.

Today I celebrate myself and all my perfect imperfections. No, I’m not perfect for I’m truly madly deeply perfectly imperfect. Nevertheless, I love me always. Realizing all my struggles and failures were really created to make me a Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel.

Today I live my life like it is the last day until my very own happily ever after. I dance like no one is watching. I sing like my lungs go on infinitely. I love like this can be my very last chance to tell you I love you. I always have.

Today I closed my beautiful blue eyes forevermore. I’m surrounded by loved ones here to say their goodbyes. Nevertheless, I’m truly madly deeply content. For I lived like each day could be my last and today is that very day. Suddenly all the ghosts of last year’s past begin surrounding me with great big smiles on their faces. For I truly lived life just as I should with no regrets. The sweet angels all begin helping me out. Helping me get to my very own happily ever after. I look back at my beautiful loved ones. They now all were smiling and waving at me. I smiled and said one last time don’t dream your life live your dream. While disappearing into the light.

Sweet Lovelies this too can be your story some day. You can live the life you truly madly deeply always wanted to live. I know things may not be as you like just always remember this too shall past. Sweet Lovelies dont dream your life live your dream. Create your very own happily ever after now and forevermore ya I love you so much.

Forgive Someone And Create Your Happily Ever After In Loving Memory Of Victoria Ruvolo.

Hi Lovelies, how are you all doing this beautiful wonderful morning? I’m doing alright just sick from my perfectly imperfect women issues. Thank you for caring enough to ask how I was doing Lovelies ya. Today I wanted to talk about what has always been in my mind while I was growing up in New York. As you guys may know I came to the US at 8 years old. At about 10 years old I was teased mercilessly by kids about my crossed eyes. I was told that I was ugly and from that time on I always felt I was ugly. I would go home crying. Likewise, that insecurity followed me through my Franchy adulthood. Which inevitably lead me to get into a lot of unhealthy relationships. The guys didn’t love me and I didn’t truly feel that I deserve any better how sad is that? I think it is very sad actually. I remember my so-called friend setting me up with a guy that was absolutely horrid and I stayed. I was unhappy and I stayed. I just didn’t truly feel beautiful.

Lovelies I came across a story about an absolutely beautiful woman that made me change my Franchy thinking on what is beautiful? The story took place in Long Island New York at Ronkonkoma. This 40-year-old woman called Victoria Ruvolo was driving home from a family event during the Thanksgiving holidays. When this teenager throws a 20-pound frozen turkey through her windshield. The turkey and broken glasses struck the woman directly on her face. When the police finally realized what happened they did an investigation and found out it was a local teenager that was responsible for the tragic accident. The court was going to give the teenager 25 years for the pain he cost Victoria Ruvolo. But what was truly madly deeply beautiful was that Victoria asked the court to give the youngster the least minimum time which was just 6 months. After all this, she just wanted to move on with her perfectly imperfect life and didn’t see the point in making the kid be locked away for 25 years. That is really beautiful and I was truly madly deeply touched. She is really beautiful. She has a really beautiful soul. She may not be attractive on the outside but on the inside where it truly counts she is gorgeous. Sweet Lovelies be beautiful where it truly counts. We all are beautiful and don’t let the fact that you are not model beautiful depress you. You can make a difference in someone’s perfectly imperfect life and be the change you want to see. Hope this story inspires you as much as it inspired me. Have a wonderful day mmmmmmmm ya.

Forgive someone today in Victorias Ruvolo memory.” March 12, 1960 to March 25, 2019.

Franchys Update Promise Of Sweet Love.

Hi Lovelies, how are you all doing? I’m doing all right just feeling sick from my women’s issues. Nevertheless, my commitment to producing great content is always somewhere close to my heart. My promise of writing daily content is not always easy as I don’t always have something exciting happening to me personally. I’m just a Beautiful Sweet Soul Angel trying to live my very best life ever. Nonetheless, I do try my best to publish as much as I can. Moreover, I know in the past my postings have not always been consistent. Yes, I do a lot and sometimes it is truly madly deeply difficult to turn my laptop on and begin writing sweet pieces of me. This is why in 2022 I have made the promise to my Franchy dreams to bring new blue life to all my websites and I will do it this year. Likewise, my commitment to self-love is truly madly deeply renewed each and every new year.

Ya Lovelies this website is all about my journey of self-love to help you with any difficulty you may also be experiencing as well. Life is hard and I’m truly madly deeply perfectly imperfect. I have made a lot of mistakes throughout my Franchy life and I’m sure I will continue doing some more mistakes. I never write under the pretense that I know everything. Rather than we are all learning together and truly giving guidance to each other. There will never be any judgment here. You are free to be your absolute true self. Whatever that mate be. Sweet Lovelies I remember when I was big. I was always feeling so uncomfortable. I truly felt great shame for becoming big. I felt so ugly and so unattractive. For so long I did not weigh myself. Until I visited the doctor because I was not feeling good. He weighs me after so long of me not doing so. I was so nervous Lovelies. Then I learned I was 5’5 and 173 pounds. From that day on November 1, 2016, I began my self-love journey. Lovelies love yourself don’t let the scale define you. Love yourself no matter what. I will continue being here for you all. I love you all ya.

Sweet Lovelies the moment you realize how beautiful you truly madly deeply are thats when you truly madly deeply realize that your happily ever after has been there now an forevermore. Carpe diem size the beautiful wonderful day. Live today like it is your last. Dont drem your life live your dreams. Dance like no one is watching. Sing like your vocal cords go on infinately. Love like your heart is everlasting and always sending sweet love. For this is your very own perfectly imerfect life make every breath count mmmmmmmmm ya.