Hello Lovelies. I hope you all are feeling amazing and doing great things. Lovelies, like everyone else, I do have a certain routine that I try to follow each and every day. Of course, some days I’m not able to follow my normal routine as I have to do trailer checks in Manhattan. Nevertheless, for the most part, I’m pretty consistent with my mindful routine as I know the positive impact that it has on my well-being. “A mindfulness routine involves focusing on the present moment without judgment, significantly boosting well-being by reducing stress, anxiety, and negative thoughts while improving focus, emotional regulation, sleep, and physical health (like blood pressure).”

Yes, Lovelies, when I wake up, I do my two phone check-ins, and I head over to my calm app to begin meditating and clearing my mind. Then afterwards, I lie down and think about things going on in my life and try to resolve any pressing issues. Lastly, I end my meditation perfectly by listening to my lovely audiobook. Yes, it takes a lot of time. Nonetheless, I feel great afterwards, which makes it worth it. Lovelie’s life is highly unpredictable. We need a mindful routine to help heal our perfectly imperfect souls. Lovelies, do you have a mindful routine? If you don’t, I strongly encourage you to start one. It doesn’t have to be something dramatic. It can be something as simple as starting a daily journal entry. You can write down all your concerns in your perfectly imperfect life. It is always good to let go and not keep all your uncomfortable emotions bottled up. Moreover, it is always good to revisit an old entry and reframe your perceptions of life. Remain open to all the wonderful possibilities of life. If later on down the road you feel you have an important message to share, why not start a blog? You can earn an income and help others going through the same situation. Always stay hungry, Lovelies. Never rely on just one source of income. You can lose your job at any moment. Alright, Lovelies, that’s all for now. Stay tuned for tomorrow. I wish you a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world. Bye. Take care.

Hello there, Lovelies. How are you all doing? I’m doing okay, trying my best. Yes, Lovelies, Happy New Year. You know, when it’s the new year, we all get all excited for the start of a whole new happily ever after. We start thinking about letting go of everything that’s not serving us. We try to manifest a whole new happily-ever-after for ourselves. This may last for the first 2 weeks, and inevitably, we lose focus and abandon our New Year’s resolution, which is why I never make a New Year’s resolution. Instead, I just have a set of goals I would like to reach.

What about you, Lovelies, what are your goals for this frantastic year? You know what my secret for making a change for the new year is? It is following my passion and dreams. If you are really passionate about something, you will work hard to achieve it. You will pay the price! Lovelies, seriously, since I have been back to working on this blog consistently, I have felt such passion and pleasure doing precisely what I love. I have found myself thinking about you guys and what I would like to share next. When I have had to make another post, I looked forward to it with great promise in my heart. Because I really love you guys. My feelings are all authentic and completely natural. I have seen so much content that was not sincere. It was all about getting the views and making money. The content creator lacks passion. I believe because of that the success was limited. The content never reaches its full potential. Like Steve Jobs famously said, you’ve got to love what you do.

Yes, Lovelies, this new year, do all the things that you truly love and desire. Don’t waste time doing things that you are not passionate about. Live your dream. Don’t dream your life, live your dream. I believe true success is waking up and living the life you truly madly deeply desire. Money is just a tool that helps us provide for our needs and wants. Never chase money when it is your turn. I believe it will come to you easily and abundantly. So, my new year has started a little bit on the wrong side because I got scammed by an old acquaintance. It really has been hard for me these past years. I’m working to make this year the year. Sometimes you are like Enough is enough. That is where I’m currently in my life, Lovelies. Where are you currently? How is the new year treating you? As always, the comment section is open for your wonderful thoughts. I just wanted to share my Franchy two cents on the New Year. I hope you are inspired to follow your dreams and live life with true passion. Life is too short not to. I genuinely love you guys and wish you all the best. Remember to work hard and never give up. Bye. See you next time.

Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing? I hope all is going well. I wish you all the best New Year’s ever. Wow, I can’t believe I started this blog back in 2015. I have changed so much. As I’m sure you also have changed. I want you guys to make 2026 a New Year that you will never forget. This will be the year that you truly live the life you desire. You are the captain of your ship. You alone are at the driver’s seat of your life. Be proactive to achieve your happily-ever-after.

I started the New Year with a deep reflection on my life, the past year, and what I wanted to accomplish this year. I found I was very reactive. I was the victim and poor me. I blamed my mother and grandmother for not being there for me when I needed them and for not believing in me. The truth of the matter is, I did have a bad childhood. My mother and grandmother were unfit at times. They contributed to my low self-esteem. I don’t hate them because they made me the strong woman I am today. For instance, I had to take care of myself since I was 16. Gosh, I have been through a lot, and I’m still here. Yes, I have been hurt. Lied to. Mistreated. Cheated on and a lot more to be frank. I’m always authentic with you guys. I share very personal information just because I want to help and inspire you all. As usual, I’m getting quite emotional and have a lot more to say, so I will finish this tomorrow. Before I go, I just wanted to leave some inspiring quotes. To help inspire a whole new direction in life. Quotes to love by:

1. “Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom to climb to the top.”
2. “Sometimes not knowing all the right answers makes you the smartest person in the world.”
3. “Don’t dream your life, live your dream.”
4. “When life hurts the most, it means you truly have the biggest heart.”
5. “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know which one is sweeter until you decide to give love a chance.”
6. “As long as your beautiful heart is in the right place, everything will be alright.”
7. “Love is so beautiful, but what becomes of a broken heart?”
8. “Live like today is your last day, and one day you will be right.”
9. “Money is just a tool. Use it wisely and pay your last fare to the merry-go-round of broken dreams.”
10. “Fight for the life that you want or lose to the life that comes easy.”

I really hope you find the quotes inspiring and enjoyable. Make this the year. As next year is not promised. I love you, Lovelies. Happy New Year.

Good day, Lovelies. How are you doing? I’m doing well, just enjoying my life. Lovelies, I love sharing my perfectly imperfect life with you all. I share special sweet pieces of me with you all in the hope of being a positive inspiration in your life. Let me be honest, my sharing has not always been as consistent as I would like. For instance, I have gone months without posting. It is just that I do a lot and am busy. Nevertheless, I do understand the correlation between success and consistency. It can mean the difference to a consistently happy well-being. “Consistency is crucial for well-being because it  builds stable routines, reduces stress, fosters self-trust, and creates sustainable healthy habits in areas like sleep, nutrition, and exercise, leading to better physical and mental health, emotional stability, and a sense of accomplishment, proving that small, regular efforts compound for big, lasting results, far more effectively than sporadic perfectionism.” 

Ya, Lovelies, I’m on a lot of social media sites and have many videos and pictures of me online. I remember being 18 and not even having a single picture of myself online. Now you do a Google search, and you will find lots of pictures. One of the reasons my brand is so well defined is my consistency. My brand of self-love is strongly associated with me. Which I absolutely love. I love people being able to find me from all over the world and me helping them. Lovelies, one consistent theme about my life is that I want to help and spread love. Similarly, one consistent theme with a happy, healthy wellbeing is self-acceptance and eliminating stressors to promote an overall happy, happily ever after. Everything in life requires consistency in order to strive. Having a healthy, happy well-being is no different. You have to work on it each and every day. Never giving up, no matter how difficult it is, truly madly deeply. I find it very helpful to keep a journal to keep track of your perfectly imperfect thoughts. To help discover your triggers and get the help you desire. Furthermore, I wanted to say thank you so much for the support that I have been getting. You truly help more than you know. I promise from here on out I will be consistent, as I want to be here for you all. Yes, I know life is difficult; that is why we have each other. This wonderful community of love and acceptance is your safe haven to a happily ever after. Have a great day or night wherever you are. I love you. Take care of yourself and be well. Bye for now.

Hello Lovelies. Hope all is going well for you this lovely Christmas Day. It’s a magical day, and as such, should be a truly happy day for all. No, that does not mean everything is going perfectly well. It just means you are willing to not worry about your struggles just for one day. I know it won’t be easy at all, but it will most certainly be worth it if you find yourself alone on this Christmas Day. You are in luck, for today, we, as a lovely family community, will be spending the day together. You are never alone, as we are forever here for each other. Yes, I truly, madly, deeply mean that from the bottom of my lovely, Franchy heart.

Today is a special post. I will not be doing my regular postings on Christmas Day, as I say it is truly a magical day filled with love. Today, I wanted to share a story to bring in the holiday spirit. To put a smile on your sweet faces. Let’s all get under the covers, with our friendly mug in hand, drinking our favorite drink. Let’s escape to our happily ever after, and let’s enjoy Franchy Lovely Story Time. Yes, from time to time, I like to take it back to where it started. My love for writing is always with me. I have a big imagination and would like to share it all with you. I hope you all enjoy it. Merry Christmas, my lovely online family. I love you all so much. Truly madly deeply.

Before I tell you the story, please read this wealth prayer to help you out of a bad situation. I know life is hard and unfair. We all need hope and something to believe in. Here is the wealth prayer, believe it so it will work: “I pray today my financial situation will change forevermore. Let me have the freedom and peace my heart truly desires. Let me be healthy and see many more sweet years. Let me be wealthy to my heart’s content.” Here you go, Lovelies, a nice wealth prayer to help you through a difficult situation. PS, the more you read and believe it, the more powerful it will truly be. Are you ready for the story? This shall continue tomorrow. Stay tuned for Part 2. See you all very soon, ya. Bye for now.

Hello Lovelies. How are you all doing today? I wanted to say that I appreciate the last few days of sharing my authentic story with you all. This lovely community is all about love. Sharing stories of perseverance and self-determination in the hope of inspiring one another. Stories of never giving up, no matter how hard things become. It’s during our most difficult times that we truly know what we are capable of. Lovelies, I have been all over the internet. Hearing about different stories. Stories of unimaginable wealth as well as heartbreaking stories of poverty. I’m from one of the poorest countries. I have had a good amount ot money in my bank account as well as barely scraping by. I’m working to accumulate a good amount of wealth so I can help others.

At my core, I’m a people pleaser. Always trying to make people happy and feel good, even at my own expense. I’m a kind soul trying to spread love and unity. Even as I experience my own hardships and self-doubt, I still manage to smile and find ways to help others. Lovelies, there are families in hotel rooms celebrating their Christmas. They are unable to celebrate the holidays the way they truly desire. My sweet heart goes out to them. If you are also experiencing a hard time, have faith that everything will be okay in the end. Sometimes we have to be at our worst to see our true beauty. Lovelies, I catch myself feeling bad when I don’t see the amount of money I would like to see in my bank account. I know the life that I want to live, and I see how far I’m from my very own happily ever after. Lovelies, I have forgotten to think about how far I have come in my self-love journey. I see a beautiful girl with blue eyes consistently working on her sweet dreams. I have a gift, and I want to use my knowledge to help you all. If you are spending this holiday by yourself, you are no longer lonely; you have this wonderful community behind you. We are a lovely online family—Lovelies from my family to yours. I hope you have a frantastic Christmas. Take care of yourself with sweet love. Bye for now until next time.

Hello Lovelies. I hope all is going well for you. As for me, everything is currently okay, and I’m incredibly thankful for that. I genuinely hope I’m inspiring and supporting you on your very own self-love journey. I really consider this as our community where we can help and support one another. I always encourage you to share your perfectly imperfect thoughts in the comment section. I believe that, with all of us coming from all over the world, we can share our unique stories that, realistically, are not all that different. After all, we all just want to be loved and feel connected.

Lovelies, as I previously mentioned, I’m currently working on a different way to connect with you all. We currently have a podcast and a YouTube channel. Now I’m working on creating a platform for all of us. Where we can connect and spread sweet love with each other. I just wanted to update you all. To inform you where I’m currently in the process. In the coming year (2026), I plan to continue to engage with you all. Share more of my stories. Always, no pressure. This community is a safe haven where you can be your authentic self. No judgment ever! When I get another update, I will share it in another blog post. Stay tuned for that. I’m interested in your thoughts. Feel free to share them below in the comment section. Sending you a lovely virtual hug. I love you, and I will see you next time. Bye, take care.

Hiya Lovelies. How do you do? I hope all is truly madly deeply going well for you. Thankfully, I’m feeling better. I’m trying to be positive through it all. More specifically, be more body positive. “Body positivity promotes self-love by accepting all bodies, reducing anxiety, depression, and body dissatisfaction, boosting self-esteem, and improving overall mental wellness by focusing on your body’s function and strength, not just its looks, though some find body neutrality (accepting without judgment) more helpful than forced positivity. “

Lovelies, as you all know, it is all about positivity. You can’t truly live the life you desire by being negative all the time and constantly focusing on your shortcomings. Likewise, you won’t live a rich, happy, healthy life by not being body positive. You only have one body. You have to take very good care of it. If you don’t feel confident in your very own body, then other areas of your perfectly imperfect life will also suffer. For example, my dating wasn’t easy when I didn’t feel attractive to my partner. I was constantly looking at other women and comparing myself to them. I didn’t feel like I was worth it and was pretty enough. Consequently, I got into so many bad relationships. Lovelies, I have more I would like to share with you. So please stay tuned to Part 2. I love you all. Please take care of yourselves. Bye for now with sweet love.

Hello there, Lovelies. I genuinely hope you are doing wonderful today. Now, Lovelies, let me assure you that I’m by no means conceited. I know and understand that true beauty comes from inside. Nevertheless, it is no surprise that your natural beauty is forevermore interlocked with your well-being. “Your beauty and well-being are deeply connected: taking care of your physical health (diet, sleep, exercise) enhances your appearance (glowing skin, energy), while nurturing mental and emotional health through self-care, confidence, and appreciating beauty boosts overall well-being, creating a positive cycle where feeling good leads to looking good, and vice versa.”

Yes, Lovelies, we all want to feel and look our very best. We only have one body; it is essential to take the very best care of our perfect imperfections. When we meet someone for the first time, we want to make a great impression, look great, and feel great in our own skin. This all starts with our mental health. If everything is not alright within, sweet emotions will start pouring out and coming to the surface. For instance, I remember seeing this beautiful young girl. She was gorgeous on the outside. She has lovely hair and skin. She was a Black-and-Asian beauty. Nonetheless, inside, something catastrophic was happening. Eventually, what was within her began to come out for everyone else to see. Which invariably led to her ending it all at just 16. Lovelies, that is why I stress talking to someone you trust and not letting your emotions be bottled in.

Keeping everything inside can have devastating consequences. Be well. Take great care of your well-being. True beauty has many layers. This includes your physical and mental well-being. Beauties, I believe our bodies are our temples. It is a special vessel that we are placed in for our lifetime to make our mark on this earth. To make the best impact, we must first love ourselves. There is no greater practice of self-love than taking care of your perfect imperfections. Let your beauty from within shine bright. Lovelies, I truly, madly, deeply believe that we are all beautiful in our own special way. So no, you don’t need any plastic surgery. You are perfectly imperfect, and you are beautiful just the way you are, seriously. You need to love yourself and take care of your natural beauty and your well-being. Be happy and smile often. Tomorrow is not promised; enjoy every breath you take. I love you all. I will see you next time. Bye for now.

Hiya there, Lovelies. Hope all is going well for you, truly madly deeply. Today I have decided to forgive myself. I let my self-esteem and self-doubt truly madly deeply affect my natural beauty. My teeth and hair need to heal. It is not something that I’m proud of. As a matter of fact, I feel great shame for what has happened. Thankfully, I was able to forgive myself and was able to start my perfectly imperfect self-healing journey. “Forgiveness is a powerful tool for well-being, significantly boosting mental and physical health by reducing stress, anxiety, and depression while improving heart health, sleep, and immunity, and fostering healthier relationships; it’s an act of self-care that releases emotional burdens, allowing for greater resilience, peace, and life satisfaction by choosing to let go of resentment, not condoning harm.” 

Lovelies, my low self-esteem has taken more from me than just my looks. It has also taken away my dreams at one point. I remember being 18 years old, bright-eyed, wanting to be successful, yet not believing I would succeed, so I never tried. I would write my stories in my notebooks and never publish them. It really makes me sad to think about where I would be now if I had followed my dreams. Forgiving myself for these lost opportunities was not easy. I was feeling a lot of shame and guilt for letting my life pass me by. Nevertheless, I understand that it takes a lot of guts to follow your dreams and never give up. In my older years, I’m able to fight for my dreams and understand the consequences of giving up again. Lovelies’ forgiveness gives a feeling of being free like no other. It’s a huge burden that you no longer have to deal with. So, forgive yourself for your peace of mind. Remember you are perfectly imperfect, and that is beautiful, truly madly deeply. Moreover, the best lessons are learned from making mistakes. So don’t be afraid to fall. Just enjoy the free fall. Then have a laugh, then get back up and try again. Forgive yourself and show yourself some compassion. Love yourself enough to know that you are much more than your mistakes. What defines you is your perseverance. I love you lovelies. I’m going to bid you farewell for now. See you next time. Bye.