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Francesca is a blogger and freelancer in the New York area. Writing and helping people is her passion she hopes that you are enjoying getting into her Franchy mind. If you would like to know her better visit https://www.myearninglifegog82.com/p/about-fran.html?showComment=1548829755687

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 12-07-2025 With Luv “Self Acceptance Love Of Self and Your Well-being.”

Hi there, Lovelies. I hope you all are doing well and are happy. Today, I wanted to discuss something I have struggled with and still have issues with, and that is self-acceptance. As I got older, the importance of self-acceptance to my overall well-being has become increasingly apparent. “Self-acceptance is crucial for wellbeing, involving embracing your whole self (strengths, flaws, imperfections) without harsh judgment, which reduces self-criticism, anxiety, and boosts resilience, confidence, and inner peace, creating a foundation for personal growth, better relationships, and overall happiness by treating yourself with kindness and focusing on your unique worth.” Lovelies, sometimes we are our very own worst enemies, always putting ourselves down. It is essential to restore our self-worth and to love our perfect imperfections.

I’m perfectly imperfect, and I love that. I know one thing for a fact: no one is perfect. It’s our perfect imperfections that make us unique and beautiful. Far too many of us are turning to plastic surgery to fix our perceived flaws. I know a lot of our self-esteem issues are from looking at magazines and stars, seeing how beautiful and perfect they seem to be, and we end up having unrealistic body images. Unfortunately, many of us don’t practice self-acceptance. We don’t know our worth and understand how amazing we are. We spend so much time just picking out our flaws that we don’t see our true beauty. For example, I used to stare at the mirror, just telling myself how unattractive I was. This really sacrificed my confidence and enabled me to get into a lot of unhealthy relationships. All I needed to do was accept myself just as I am. I don’t need to change anything, just change how I view myself. Lovelies, accept yourself. Really open your eyes and see how gorgeous you truly are. Stop comparing yourself to others. You are an original, not a copy, which is incredible. The sooner you accept all your perfect imperfections, the sooner you can head to your happily ever after. Lovelies, love yourself. Stop worrying about what other people think. Be yourself, and your people will naturally follow you. I love you. Be well. I will see you next time. Bye for now.

Truly, madly, deeply accepting all your perfect imperfections is the most special gift you can give yourself. ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿงก๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿฅฐ

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 12-04-2025 With Luv “Beautiful Blue Faith and Your Well-being.”

Good day, my Lovelies. How is the day treating you? I hope everything is going well in your perfectly imperfect lives. Lovelies, the last few years have really been difficult for me, truly madly deeply. With me being so stressed, I lost a lot of weight and began feeling very tired and weak. Yes, stress is very awful for your well-being. It can slowly eat at your sweet soul if you let it. My only saving grace is having faith that everything will be alright.”Having faith positively impacts well-being by reducing stress, anxiety, and depression, fostering a sense of purpose, providing community support, and encouraging healthy habits, leading to better mental, emotional, and even physical health outcomes like lower blood pressure and stronger immune function, especially when faith is viewed as a loving, supportive relationship.”

Lovelies, I hope from reading my blogs that you have gathered that I’m a genuine, sweet-loving girl who truly, madly, deeply wants to help. I’m exceptional and different. In the past, my being different made me feel insecure and like I didn’t fit in. Now I have come to love that I’m different and in my own world, so to speak. Likewise, my faith has only become stronger with each beautiful new day. For example, I have a wealth prayer that I recite each and every day to help me out of my financial situation. I have faith that I will be wealthy and help as much as I can. Lovelies, having faith can mean the difference between getting up every day to a new start and working on your sweet dream or giving up on it all. Yes, Sweet Lovelies, life is freaking hard and unfair. Some people have it all, big, beautiful houses and a lot of luxurious items. At the same time, others struggle for a hot meal each and every day. The rich keep getting richer, and the poor keep getting poorer. The middle class is slowly disappearing. I’m going to be very transparent with you, Lovelies, and say right now at this very moment, I’m poor. I’m not ashamed to be struggling; neither should you. Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom to reach the very top. Lovelies I have a lot more to share so stay tune for part 2. I love you all, be well, and stay safe. Bye for now.

Have faith that everything will be okay with sweet love. Remember that you are never alone. I love you. โค๏ธ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐโค๏ธโค๏ธ

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 12-03-2025 With Luv “Chronic Depression and Your Well-being.” Part 2

Hiya Lovelies. Good day to you. I truly, madly, deeply hope you are happy and are doing well. Today, to be honest, I was feeling depressed. Just had things on my mind. Primarily, I was concerned with my financial situation. Lovelies, I must confess I truly felt the effect on my overall well-being. “Chronic depression negatively impacts overall well-being by increasing the risk of other chronic physical conditions, such as heart disease and diabetes.” Ya, chronic depression goes far deeper than just feeling a little sad. It can really harm your overall health and happiness.

I said this over and over throughout this lovely blog. I’m perfectly imperfect, and don’t know all the answers. The reason I keep reenacting my imperfections is to make a point. No one has all the answers, and most certainly no one is perfect. So I don’t want you to feel like something is wrong with you, that you are chronically depressed. Take this story as an example. Today I was talking to my boyfriend, and we were discussing my dreams. More specifically, about my financial situation and maybe giving up on my dreams, as I was not making enough money to sustain myself.

Naturally, I got upset with him as I felt like I didn’t have his support. Inevitably, I became depressed and felt a huge shadowy cloud over my happily ever after. I try to get off the merry-go-round of broken dreams, but I just can’t. It was like the depression was lying on me, and I could not breathe. You know, Lovelies, I never will understand when people say, ‘Just stop being sad.’ If it really were that simple, then it wouldn’t be chronic in the first place. Moreover, with that comment, it makes you feel like something is wrong with you for being depressed. When the truth of the matter is, it is okay not to be OK. That’s one thing I learned from meditating: whatever I’m feeling, it’s OK.

Life is not about always being happy and everything going as planned. Authentic living begins when you overcome your struggles. You’ve got to fight for the life you want. Nothing worth having ever comes easy. The most important lessons are learned from making mistakes and falling a couple of times. Sometimes you have to reach rock bottom to finally reach the top. Lovelies, I’m saying all this to inspire you to keep moving. Never feel that ending it all is an option. Remember, this too shall pass. Find someone you can trust and tell them honestly what you are going through. Or keep a journal and write down your most inner thoughts. If you need to see a therapist, don’t feel ashamed. Sometimes admitting that something is wrong is the most courageous thing you could have ever done. I love you, and I genuinely do care. Suppose you would like to share your own inspiring story. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section. We are a community of love. Let’s help each other live our very best life ever. Take it easy, Lovelies. See you all next time. Bye for now.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 12-02-2025 With Luv “Chronic Depression and Your Well-being.”

Lovelies, I do hope you are doing well and are truly madly deeply happy. Personally, my happiness throughout the years has been a struggle and consistently continues to be an issue. Which invariably takes its toll on my well-being. “Chronic depression significantly impacts well-being by causing long-lasting limitations in functioning and can worsen with co-occurring medical conditions.” When you are chronically depressed, it is essential to get the support and help that you need. Silence can destroy the beautiful, capable person you are. Leaving you feeling worthless with seemingly no way out.

Lovelies, this is another very personal blog post. However, I’m willing to put myself out there to help and inspire you. I don’t want you to feel alone. At its core, chronic depression can feel very isolating. You can feel trapped and feel there is no way out of your despair. This can then lead to suicidal thoughts. Please, if you are feeling that way, seek help. I know right now things are really bad and don’t seem to ever get better. Just remember, nothing lasts forever. This too shall pass. Yes, ya Lovelies, I’m speaking from experience. The last few years of my life have been challenging. So now I’m not writing to you, putting out the illusion that life is perfect and easy. Life is freaking hard! Sometimes just getting up to start your day can be a battle. For instance, I have had days where I stayed in bed the whole day, too depressed to get up, not wanting to go on. Even my passion for my business was not enough to sustain me. Thankfully, that feeling slowly passed, and I was on my way to my happily ever after. So I’m not going to throw in a cliche “don’t worry, be happy.” Another of my favorites is “Why can’t you just be happy? Everything will be okay.” Chronic depression is not a little sadness from day-to-day living. It can consume you, leaving nothing else. Lovelies, I’m very passionate about this topic, and I have a lot more I want to say. So stay tuned for Part 2. Enjoy the rest of your day or night wherever you are. I love you. Take care and be well. Bye for now.

Get the care you deserve. We care and love you. Call 988 when you need someone to talk to. ๐Ÿงก๐Ÿงก๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿงก๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 11-22-2025 With Luv “Body Dysmorphia Pessimism and Your Well-being.”

Hiya, Lovelies, good day to you all. Today, I wanted to talk about something I suffered for many years without realizing. That is body dysmorphia.”Body dysmorphic disorder is a mental health condition that disrupts how you see and feel about your own body and appearance. People commonly experience negative thoughts and emotions about how they look, which can cause severe disruptions in their lives and undermine their mental and physical well-being.” In my case, my body dysmorphia began taking shape through people’s unkind bullying in school and out of school. For instance, I have strabismus or I’m cross-eyed. My peers were always so mean and made me feel I was ugly and had ugly eyes. Which later developed into an eating disorder. It is essential to be kind and caring to everyone. As you never know what they are going through.

I have been through a lot, Lovelies. Life hasn’t always been kind to me. There have been plenty of times when I cried myself to sleep. For so many years, I did not see the beautiful and capable woman that I am. Which inevitably led me to getting into a lot of unhealthy relationships. The reason I’m sharing this is because I know so many of us also suffer from body dysmorphia without even knowing it. We don’t see our true beauty and know confidently that we are worth it. For example, I remember back in college, I was in class with a gorgeous blond young woman who was very sad as she did not know how beautiful she was. I was so surprised to learn this. From looking at her, you would think she is so conceited and has all the guys going crazy over her. Unfortunately, the reality was very different. Lovelies, it doesn’t matter how others perceive us. What truly matters the most is how we perceive ourselves. To be continued with sweet love.

You are beautiful just the way you are. You are perfectly imperfect and beautiful. ๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿงก๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 11-12-2025 With Luv “Your Frantastic Self-esteem Looking and Feeling Great and Your Well-being.”

Hello Lovelies. Hope you are all doing well. Today I wanted to talk about a topic that is near and dear to my heart. Something we all suffer from time to time is low self-esteem. Growing up, I was teased mercilessly and was told I was unattractive. Moreover, my caregivers kept telling me that I was slow mentally. Understandably so, I developed a really low self-esteem. I just never felt that I was good enough. I thought everyone was better than me. Eventually, my low self-worth began taking its toll on my well-being. “Self-esteem is a core component of your well-being, affecting how you think, feel, and act; high self-esteem is linked to resilience, confidence, and better mental health, while low self-esteem can contribute to negative thought patterns, insecurity, and mental health issues like depression and anxiety. “

I’ve developed a lot of anxious thoughts due to my self-esteem issues. Always thinking about what people think about me and who likes me. Having low self-esteem has had a destructive impact on all my romantic relationships. I have gotten my heart broken many times from being with guys who did not care about me. Similarly, my non-romantic relationships have also suffered. Ya, Lovelies, I’m being very transparent with you right now. I’m sharing something that has been buried deep in my soul for many years now. I’m very vulnerable, and I hope that by sharing my story, I can help you. Life is much more complicated when you don’t love yourself and constantly put yourself down. Never seeing the beautiful mind that you possess, which can propel you to great things. Lovelies, there is so much I have to say on this topic. I will have to continue on this topic. I feel I have a wealth of knowledge to share. Please, if there is something you wish to share with the community, never hesitate to comment. I will respond with sweet love. I want this to be our safe space for sharing knowledge. I want all of us to be wealthy and happy. We all deserve to be happy, living the life we truly desire. This is our special place. Alright, Lovelies, see you all next time. I love you all, be safe out there. Take care with sweet love.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 11-08-2025 With Luv “Dreaming of my happily ever after and your well-being.”

Hi Lovelies. How do you do? I’m doing pretty awesome, thanks. I hope you are doing amazing. Today, I wanted to talk about how having dreams can support your well-being. For me personally, my dreams are what help me get up and start my day. Dreams are the reason I never give up, no matter how bad things get. Dreams give me purpose and fulfillment. I want to live my best life. To do that, I have to make my dreams come true. “Living your dream while maintaining your well-being involvesย aligning daily actions with your vision, prioritizing your needs, and practicing self-care.” After all, dreams only work if you do.

Yes, L,ovelies, I have such big, beautiful dreams. I remember, as a young dreamer at just 12, knowing I wanted to do great things with my life. I don’t want to collect a paycheck and then my time is done, which is precisely why I created Francesca Etheart INC and Frans Online Business INC. My dreams keep me going as I navigate this challenging transition in my life. What brightens your eyes, Lovelies? What drives you? I’m here to tell you never give up on your dreams. It may seem impossible at first. Remember, anything is possible if you are willing to put in the work. Go for your dreams and never look back. Lovelies as I’m always authentic with you all. I will have to do regular life updates about my life. So that you too can live a successful, happy life. I don’t want to be on top by myself โ€”please join me. I will always share helpful information to help you guys outโ€”alright, Lovelies, time to say goodbye. I love you all. Have a great day or night wherever you are in the world.

Dreams only work if you do.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 11-04-2025 With Luv “Happiness and your wellbeing.”

Lovelies, your happiness and well-being are closely intertwined, much like a commitment is to a healthy relationship. You can’t have one without the other. Similarly, you being wealthy if you’re not happy doesn’t make much sense to me either. Does it make sense to you? Ya, your happiness is very important. When it comes to your wellbeing, feeling good and living the life you truly desire is key to keeping your wellbeing intact. “Happiness plays a crucial role in overall well-being, acting as both a contributor to and an outcome of a healthy and fulfilling life.”ย 

So, currently, I’m not happy. My old demons are presently visiting me unexpectedly. Needless to say, my well-being for today is not good. It’s making it hard to get any work done and do other chores that I needed to get done for today. Gosh, I’m always writing about things I’m currently experiencing in my perfectly imperfect life. Lovelies I genuinely hope you appreciate my transparency in my business. So why am I sharing these personal facts with you all? I’m sharing firstly to offer you support if you are also currently going through a difficult time. Moreover, I wanted to provide you with an example of how your happiness or lack thereof can impact your well-being. Which inevitably keeps you from going on with your day and doing all the things you need to do. Sometimes we go through life like we are zombies, doing all the things that are necessary while feeling miserable. The stress from all that can really hurt your health in the long run. Causing irreversible health conditions that keep you from living your sweet dreams. Lovelies, you deserve all the happiness in the world. Take care of yourself and be well. Wishing you all the best, bye for now.

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 10-30-2025 With Luv “Faith and your wellbeing.”

Hiya Lovelies. Yesterday wasn’t the best day ever. Let me be honest, that is a total underestimate. In my mind, the worst thing that could have happened did just that happen. Needless to say, this created a great deal of stress, which was accompanied by considerable worry. You know what, Lovelies? All I needed was some faith, as not everything is as it seems. Moreover, not everything will be clearly determined and explainable. This is when your faith and well-being come together to create your happily-ever-after. Sometimes, the best thing that could have happened to you is something you can’t explain, so you smile.

Growing up, one of my favorite shows to watch was Unsolved Mysteries, hosted by Robert Stack. Yes, I actually began watching Unsolved Mysteries when I was 9 years old. Ya, I was still a baby. Something about the mysteries in our perfectly imperfect lives truly piques my interest. As mysteries are rarely provable, we need faith to understand and make sense of the perfect imperfections. Yes, Lovelies, our faith can go a long way toward supporting our well-being. “Faith can significantly contribute to overall well-being byย offering a sense of purpose, hope, and peace, while also fostering social connections and providing coping mechanisms during difficult times.” On my blog, I try to avoid discussing my religious beliefs. For one thing, I believe that it should be private and is deeply personal. Additionally, you guys come from all over the world and believe whatever you feel, and that is perfectly fine. When I mention faith, I’m not referring to your religion or spiritual beliefs. I’m referring to the optimistic belief that everything will be okay, no matter how bad things may seem now. The ever-optimist smiles through life’s perfectly imperfect derailments. For example, a childhood personality I used to watch in my teen years just recently died from Cancer. Her name was Annada Lewis, the ’90s VJ who grew to fame. It was heartwarming to see that she still had faith, despite knowing she didn’t have much time with her friends and family. She had a son whom she wanted to watch grow up into a wonderful man. Her faith allows her to live just long enough to see him graduate from middle school. If she had been miserable, feeling sorry for herself that she was dying, she might not have lived that long. Yes, I genuinely believe that Lovelies. Some of you may disagree with me. That’s okay, you are entitled to your own opinions. I never truly judge. So, what are your thoughts on Faith, Lovelies? Has having faith also helped you with your well-being? Please share your lovely thoughts below. Have a great day or night wherever you are. Take care, see you all next time.

When you can’t explain, smile. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

Franchy’s Daily Wellness Journal 6-10-2025 With Luv “Social media matters and your wellbeing.”

Hi Lovelies. How are you all doing today? I’m doing alright, no everything is not perfect, and that is wonderful. Sometimes, it’s life’s beautiful derailments that make our lives full of excitement. If life were so predictable, life would be a lot more boring. When it comes to life, nothing else has so seamlessly integrated itself into our happily ever afters as social media. I can say quite confidently that almost everyone uses some form of social media. I personally have accounts on nearly all social media platforms. Ya, I’m all over the internet with my beautiful pictures. For me, the most crucial question is why are you using social media? Because that can significantly determine how social media impacts your well-being.

Initially, I created a Facebook account to grow my business. It was never meant to connect with friends and family members. I was always looking for a place to share my two wonderful companies. Don’t get me wrong, I do share some nice posts with my friends and family, and I’m always open to meeting new people. I just mean my priority is using social media to grow my business. With that mindset, social media doesn’t negatively impact my well-being. However, if your social media is causing you a lot of stress and anxiety, perhaps you should rethink your perfectly imperfect use. Today I wanted to tell a short story bout two different content creators using social media in the wrong way. This incident occurred on Sunday, June 8, 2025. Two YouTubers lives changed forever. The two YouTubers that I’m referring to are Manny and Finny. Manny murdered Finny because of a social media beef. The two were constantly taking jabs at each other for over a year. Then it all came to a head last Sunday on a Vegas strip. Unfortunately, Finnys wife also lost her life. They were live streaming and having fun as usual until Manny showed up. The entire incident was captured on video. To me, this was a senseless murder that could and should have been avoided. There is nothing someone can say to warrant them losing their life. Nevertheless, everyone played their part, and unfortunately, Finny and Bubbly paid the ultimate price. May they both rest in peace. I pray for the well-being of their family. The trauma brought by this tragedy can go on for a while if not adequately addressed. Hopefully, everyone will get some counseling, as I’m sure they can all use some closure. Remember, be kind. You never know what’s going on in people’s minds. Or what a person has on them. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is walk away so that you can see another day. I love you all. Be safe out there and be kind to one another. Bye now and take care.

Rest in heavenly peace, Rodney Finley and Tanisha Finley. You will never be forgotten. Fly high in eternal peace. ๐Ÿงก๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™