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Francesca is a blogger and freelancer in the New York area. Writing and helping people is her passion she hopes that you are enjoying getting into her Franchy mind. If you would like to know her better visit https://www.myearninglifegog82.com/p/about-fran.html?showComment=1548829755687

Franchys Model Your Imperfections

Bonjour (Good Morning) World Fitters!

Good Morning <3

As an adolescent I idolize models, after all they are the “standard beauty.” Their thin bodies decorate every famous magazines and catalog. Well apparently my mother thought I could be a model so my mother had me call a model agency, which I did. Back then I had the “perfect body” absolutely no stomach and a thin frame essentialize with 36C breasts so I certainly had the looks. However I didn’t have the confidence so my modeling career was cut short or was it?

Bye Bye tummy hello curves.

I’ve been thinking World Fitters everything in life does eventually come to full circle. I mean everything you do in your life will one day be actualize. For example, there was a time that I really felt ugly that I could never be a model. Now I have turned to a model thanks to my websites and social media my pictures are all over the web. I remember a time that I had no pictures on the internet now there are many everywhere. Similarly there was a time that I hated my body and every stretch mark that decorated my body. Currently I love the body that is so perfectly imperfect. We all are models in the making as so perfectly stated by the below acrostic poem.

Franchys Model Your Imperfections:

More is more- The more beautiful you realize that you are the less imperfect your body seems.

Ok so I’m fat- Thank you for clearing that up for me, otherwise I couldn’t see that for myself. Yes I know models are supposed to be skinny, thanks again for bringing that to my attention.

Don’t speak- Have  you heard of the old saying “if you can’t say nothing nice don’t say anything at all?” Don’t Speak like my favorite song by No Doubt, please.

End perfection and indoctrinate imperfections- The truth is we are all trying to be perfect without realizing no one or nothing is perfect. Our imperfections are what makes us who we are, put an end to plastic surgeries and perfections.

Laugh of  the haters and that beautiful pouch- “Did you know Laughing intensely for an hour can burn as many calories as  lifting weight for 30 minutes, scientists have found?” So World Fitters don’t sweat it and laugh all the way to the scale because your weight is your business.

World Fitters Mold, Shape, and Paint your perfectly imperfect body. Far to many of us are propagandize by the bodies we see in magazines. Real women have curves, rolls, stretch marks, and some women doesn’t have any of these things and that is fine we all are beautiful. Follow the body positivity model and love you.

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World Fitters I hope you find my many inspirational words inspiring in helping you love your body. Too many times people are putting others down for not being the standard beauty. Loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com understands your bodies struggle to fit in with this backward pressure building to be perfect world. No one is perfect and that is just fine, I love you World Fitters just as you are. Have a wonderful week, bye for now.

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Body Positivity Corissa Edition ??

Hello World Fitters!

How are you? Me I’m fine this lovely early morning, writing to you guys. I like to think loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com is a safe heaven for all body types. If you want to lose weight that’s great and if you want to stay at your perfectly imperfect weight that’s fine too, beauty does not come with a specific size. However you wouldn’t know that with the way the media glorify thinness.

One blogger is fed up with today’s standard beauty, her name is Corissa Enneking. Normally I agree with Corissa we should all love our bodies for the perfect imperfection that they are.  What am I talking about Corissa is the best blogger? Yes I agree I enjoy her blog “Fat Girl Flow” with which she blogs about finding clothes for larger size women. Nevertheless one of her videos talking about if you want to lose weight and join weight watchers you are not being body positive have changed my view of her. What???? So If you want to better your health you’re are not body positive? To me that makes absolutely no sense,  In my opinion wanting to better your health is the most frantastic way to show love to your body. Perhaps knowing more about her life will give us a better insight into why she feels the way she does about dieting.

Just who is Corissa Enneking? Corissa is a 30 something plus size women living in the midwest, USA. She currently reside in a house with her husband with whom they share it with their dog and cat affectionately called Kanka and Meouse. Another thing worth knowing about Mrs Enneking is that she loves nature and adores every artifact that makes it as lovely as it is. For instance  rocks, dirt, flowers, animals, and sunshine etc……. Corissa decided to create fatgirlflow.com after receiving a lot of support from the “fat community.” “The fat community welcomed me with open squishy arms.”

It’s this very support that body positive communities encourage that got a lot of people rub in the wrong way about what Corissa say body positivity is not. I’m sure many people are thinking who gives Corissa the authority to say what body positivity is not? She made it seem like in other for someone to be body positive they have to take a class and get a certificate in other to say they are body positive. Huh????? The whole point of body positivity is to feel comfortable and be yourself, how can you be that way if you have to think am I being body positive now? I’m sorry I don’t agree with Corissa on this matter no one should be excluded from being body positive because they decided to lose weight.

What do you think, do you agree with Corissa? As I mention before I don’t agree with her, however I respect her opinion. We all are entitled to our opinions. Most importantly we all are entitled to love our perfectly imperfect bodies. I trully hope you feel safe to be yourself, I’m always here for you either way. Have a great week, see you next time.

 

Happy New Years, Lose Weight Not Yourself 2017

Happy New Year World Fitters!

Franchy wishes you the most amazing 2017 

Good evening my lovelies, it’s three days  into the end of the year I truly hope 2017 will be the best year for you all!  Not that 2016 was such a bad year for me,  afterall it was this year I truly decided to love myself and accept myself.  In “Franchy’s weight loss lookbook” I showed you my progress  in my weight loss journey. Yes there were definitely ups and downs in my journey. Hey I’m not perfect, and I’m not going to pretend to be something that I’m not.

What I’m is fat, yes I’m fat. I put on weight after I decided to stop starving myself. Wow that wasn’t so bad, the word fat is not a disease or some sort of malfunction that we should avoid like the plaque.  I feel after my more curvier and sexier figure I had to defend my body. They all wanted to know how I put on the weight. The answer “I wanted to” was not the answer they were waiting for. This year World Fitters you don’t need to defend your rolls, your bloated belly, or the cellulite that has been making their way to your thighs because it is okay to be imperfectly you. There is no need to pretend you will diet when you really have no plans to. Love every inch of cellulite that is you, be your perfectly imperfect self.

At the end of the day no one is perfect. Celebrate your imperfections because that is what makes you, you. When I created loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com on june 2, 2015  I was fade up with people constantly telling me I’m too big I need to lose weight. I realize now that was the wrong reason to start my business (however that wasn’t the only reason) because you should never do something for someone else. For instance Back in september 2014 when I fall for this guy I lost weight for him because he doesn’t want me to be too big. Now he is gone he is no longer part of my life why did I lose myself for him?  Don’t do nothing for anyone because you don’t know how long the person will be there to see you change for them.

I love you World Fitters. I share blogs about personal things going on in my life to help you. I know I’m not alone, you are not alone either loseweightandfeelgreatwithwithfran.com is here for you. Remember I love you as you are never change for anyone, change for you. Have a frantastic New year World Fitters see you in 2017.

Part 1 Feederism Feed Your Mind

Hey World Fitters!

How are you doing? Me I’m fine, I’ve just been doing some research about feederism. In case you miss last week’s post “feederism is a sub-category of fat fetishism, where individuals harbour a strong or even exclusive sexual attraction to people who are overweight or obese.” As you know World Fitters I’m not one to judge. This blog post is not to judge a sub culture group but rather to seek to understand it. I always say don’t judge you never know why the person is doing whatever is that they do. Instead seek to understand and educate yourself.  Let’s get right to it shall we? Below i will discuss two very special women who are both into feederism.

Donna Simpson A Former Weight Gainer

 

I’m happy to say that Donna Simpson is no longer a gainer. She was able to open hers eyes to the dangers of feederism.  She wants to be more mobile so she can better care for her daughter and son. Furthermore she is no longer in an unhealthy relationship, one day when her boyfriend went to work she pack up her things and left with her two children. She knew she no longer wanted to live this forbidden lifestyle.

Before this mind blowing realization Simpson was earning $90,000 yearly from her undying  supporters.  Wow $90,000 yearly I can certainly understand the attraction to this job. Yep webcam modeling can be quite lucrative, during which time she was gorging on 15,000 calories worth of junk food a day.  The question is how much is your life worth? I honestly feel like those fat admirers are paying these women to kill themselves, sort of like a grim reaper collecting payment for a less desirable place in hell. On the contrary if they don’t die they end up living a life completely dependent on others for their day to day care. I myself have been independent for most of my life, and that’s the way I like it. I can not imagine being completely dependent on someone else because people can always disappoint you. I’m sure Donna has had her share of disappointments throughout her life. Similarly I’ve had many disappointments as well. Let’s go back to when the world was still magical and full of promise.

Donna Simpson was conceived on 1967 in mogadore, Ohio. She mentions that her mother used to cook big meals for her family that by the age of 9 she was already 184 pounds. Donnas struggle with weight loss seemed to end when she met husband Robert Simpson and fiance Phillippe Gouambia. They encourage her to keep gaining because she is beautiful like that. Additionally her fiance Phillippe encourage her to start a career with her plus size figure.  Donna did just that by becoming a very popular web model. In the end she came full circle and went back to where it all started Akron Ohio. I trully hope Donna Simpson succeeds at her weight loss. It’s going to be hard and it’s gonna take a lot of determination.

Want your weekly dose of determination come here more often? Loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com will be here for you to the end. I’m sorry World Fitters I was not able to finish this topic tune in next week for the finale part 2. As always thank you for joining me. Have a lovely week, bye till next time.

 

Hello World Fitters!

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I’m just here at home on this lazy Friday. Fall has come to New York and the chilly air is keeping me hidden in my beautiful apartment. Have no fear I’ve come to bring you the latest post on loving your body. Below is a poem I have created for the days when it is chilly and you feel like using that as an excuse to hide the perfection that is your body.

My beautiful body.

I see you there, hidden underneath a bunch of clothes.

Starving for attention, starving for perfection.

Your perfection I can’t denied, you are in a class of your own.

Your mind you own, don’t know your true worth.

You own every shape magazine but you don’t love your shape.

#Your happiness shouldn’t be determined by the numbers you see on the scale.

True happiness comes from self acceptance.

True acceptance is knowing it’s going to rain and learning to dance in the rain.

Dance like you know you are watching

Whatching how every curve sway in a way to do justice to your true bueaty.

You are beautiful.

Love every curve that make up the beautiful perfection that is you.

Franchy note to you

World Fitters show the perfection that is your body no matter what the  season. Come here often for your daily dose of body positivity. Comment below and let me know what you are doing on this lazy Friday. Have a great weekend everyone from you neighborhood blogger.

Fall For Franchy

Hello World Fitters!

So It has happened, summer is over. I’m sure there is a question you are dying to ask me. What’s on your mind World Fitters? I was doing my workouts out doors what do I do now? I’m currently facing the same problem now. I’m about to switch my workouts from my lovely park to my even  lovelier apartment.  I recommend you do the same. There are plenty of workouts you can do from home.

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Frantastic Home Workouts.

When it comes to your home getting in workouts can be tricky. For instance your favorite show can come on and you may feel its okay to ditch your daily workouts. With life somethings always comes up which is why it takes a lot of resolve to get up and exercise. So you need motivation.

Get Motivated With Franchy

There is nothing like a daily dose of motivation to get you going. As you guys know in order to keep you at your own perfect weight you need to be consistent. For you to remain consistent you need proper motivation hence this web-blog. That’s right, I’m here for you World Fitters. Each blog post is here to motivate you to be the best you that you can be. Additionally I have some more tips to help you stay motivated.

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Fran Tips You

  1. My number one tip is that you gotta love yourself. With out self love whatever project you start your won’t succeed.
  2. My second tip is make technology your freind. Meaning there are a lot of fitness apps design to help you stay at your own special weight. For instance Pact, Pact is an app that pays you to be healthy. I’ve been using the app for a year now and they always pay me. To be honest you won’t become rich but you can make some extra cash for life daily expenses. Click here for more information.
  3. Another way technology can help to motivate you is by being your own personal coach. The product I’m referring to is Moov. Moov can help you push yourself to do your very best. I recently purchase the manufactured item from Amazon and it was a good experience. Stay tune for my blog post about my experience with Moov. If you also would like to purchase the electrical commodity click here.
  4. Lastly I suggest you use the best motivational tool that ever existed. Can you guess what that is World Fitters? You, you are your very own best motivational tool. It’s your body you have to live with it daily. Love your body take care of it, take pictures with each milestone and share it with social media. That will help you with your motivation as well as held you accountable for your body.

 

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In conclusion World Fitters it is your body, your life don’t let anyone body shame you. Shape your body the way you want. Have a great week. Thank you for joining me, if you have any questions please feel free to comment below.

Hola World Fitters!

How are you? I myself am fine I’ve been going through a bit of changes as to be expected as I grow older. Likewise loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com is also getting older.

Lets Celebrate
Lets Celebrate

Currently loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com is one year and one month old. Through out that frantastic time loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com have been here for you. Encouraging  and pushing you to be the very best you that you can be.

Celebrating you World Fitters
Celebrating you World Fitters

Be you it’s your body, your life, take care of what matters most. What  matters is that you are at your very best. Don’t let anyone keep you from reaching your goals, you are beautiful and strong.

All it takes is consistency in order for you to create the perfect you.
All it takes is consistency in order for you to create the perfect you.

Come here often to get your daily dose of body loving positivity. Way to much body hating going on now, be positive and love your body. Check out my other website myearninglifegog82.com to get more doses of positivity. Do you have any more tips to help your fellow World Fitters stay positive comment below and let us know?

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Thank you for joining me through my first year  of my frantastic business! I look forward to seeing you for many more years to come.

Cheers,

Francesca Etheart

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Ashley Graham What Do You People Want?

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Lane Bryant Magazine: Ford+ Model Ashley Graham Talks About Plus Size Fashion from HighKinFilms on Vimeo.

As the summer is in full spring and fall is heading our way weight loss and our body is never to far away from our minds. Does our bodies look okay with this certain out fit? Do our spouses still find us attractive and sexy?

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Its normal to doubt our bodies, and to wonder how we measure up? Especially with the media bombarding us with so many images of the “perfect body.” Speaking about the media recently a plus size model lost weight and is not so plus size anymore. Now she is being shamed for being too skinny, I’m referring to Ashley Graham.

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Ashley Graham have recently lost some weight and thought it would be great to post some pictures about her weight loss. Boy was she ever wrong. What? I know how can anyone say anything bad about someone losing weight? Well I guess plenty of people can say negative things about someone losing weight and they did. This is simply the case of “damn if you do, damn if you don’t.” First you say she is too fat so she lose some weight now she is too skinny. Are people ever happy? The answer is no. It is definitely true when people say you cant please everyone.

So please yourself world fitters. Its your body shape it the way you want to. As I mention before loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com is all about loving yourself #LoveMyShape. Whether you are apple shape or whether you have an hourglass figure. You wont find no body shamming here. Comment below and tell me what you need support with, or comment just to say hi. Thanks so  much for reading. Bye for now World Fitters.

 

 

Franchys Weight Loss Lookbook

Hello World Fitters!

Francesca here, how are you doing today? Wherever you are in the world hope you are having a fantastic day. I myself am having a fantastic day here in beautiful New York. Why is that you might ask? Well I’m almost at my very own special weight. As many of you guys who have been reading my blogs know that I’ve been working hard all year long. So many sweat and tears went into this body.

This body is my very own work of art. I molded and shaped every curve in my body. However I have to admit I have had some help a long the way. Such as Pact and S Health two very good apps to help you keep the weight off. Additionally I have had help from Rodney who have been there for me walking and bringing me salads. So I wanted to say thank you to all of them.

When it comes to weight loss you can do it alone however it is better if you get some support from your love ones. That way if you ever get unmotivated they can give you the motivation you need. In the end it is only you that can shape and mold your body. That is why I don’t believe in fat shaming. It is never okay to make someone feel ashamed of their body. The chances are they already feel ashamed and hate their bodies. This website is all about getting the support you need, whether you’re fat or skinny. Loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com is here for you every step of the way. Look at my blog and see you.

Everyday I look at myself in the mirror I don’t see the person I truly am. I only see what others see in me. The biggest mistake I’ve made is seeing myself through someone else eyes.

She Say He Say

Hey you gotta lose the belly it’s not good.

You gotta stop whatever you are doing.

You looked better when you were thin.

What happen to you?

I see you’ve only been walking no exercise.

Are you pregnant?

Have you been stressed is that why you put back on the weight?

And the lists goes on and on……………..                                                                      Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah……………..

Don’t let people define you, be you, love yourself World Fitters.

Really look at yourself and see the real you.                                                          Look at me Franchy.

Franchy’s 2016 Weight Loss Lookbook

Me in spring ready to spread my wings.
Me in spring ready to spread my wings.
Bye Bye tummy hello curves.
Bye Bye tummy hello curves.
Ready for a night out not ready for a weight gain come back.
Ready for a night out not ready for a weight gain come back.
All me every curve and crevice!
All me every curve and crevice!
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Once upon a time where it all begin!
Love the #1 person in your life.
Love the #1 person in your life.
The faces of beauty!
The faces of beauty!
All it takes is consistency in order for you to create the perfect you.
All it takes is consistency in order for you to create the perfect you.
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Are you bikini body ready? Hell yeah! 🙂
Bikini body ready, oh yeah! ;-)
Bikini body ready, oh yeah! 😉
Loving me, that's the way to be.
Loving me, that’s the way to be.
A summer dress to remember.
A summer dress to remember.
The faces of self love! RIP Jackie Ojo.
The faces of self love!
RIP Jackie Ojo.
Kiss body shaming away. Muahahahahahah
Kiss body shaming away.
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Look in the mirror and love what you see <3
Look in the mirror and love what you see <3

 

 

Summer Weight Loss Madness

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Summer weight  loss madness.                                                                 Ah summer is here.                                                                                         Flat abs and buns of steel are in.                                                             Time to bring out the razors for hair stabs                                       Are illegal this this of year.                                                                             Bring out the sunscreen lotion and perfect your tanning skills.     Barbecues are all around you  as you celebrate the 4th of July.   However apple shapes are not in so you must not indulge Yourself too much.                                                                                           Romances are scarce as the boys of the summer are chasing Short skirts and size 6 plated dresses.  Lucky for you you dodge The summer weight loss madness this year. Like the birds of the Summer traveling south to avoid the frigid weather of winter.       You are comfortable with your body you know weight loss will Come if you are consistent and never give up.                                     You conceded that the media wants you to be in great shape by Constantly testing your endurance by continually displaying Fast foods that get you fatter within seconds.                                       You know you are beautiful in your imperfections.                             Perfectly you in all your glory.                                                                 Your curves exhibit your life accomplishments.                                   Life have a lot of curves,  a lot of  tears.                                                   You cry many nights trying to figure out why you are still here.     Still breathing the summer air that endlessly leaves You breathless .

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Still here to tell you curves are sexy and your voluptuous body is Beautiful till the end of time.                                                                       Still here to inform you to love your body.                                                     Love you forever.

Summer!!
Summer!!
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Beautiful Beach

Hi  World Fitters!

Summer is here at last are you bikini body ready? Probably not and that’s okay. I encourage you to get into a bikini even if you are not bikini body ready.

Get ready for the love my body challenge. Love the rolls the curves and the dents that makes up your body, celebrate your imperfections.  Celebrate perfectly imperfect you.  Join the love my body challenge comment below and let us know how you are loving your body.

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Nature Beauty
Nature Beauty