There is always a first time for everything.
First kisses and first intimacies are intertwined into this beautiful thing called life.
My first times made me nervous as I was not sure what to expect.
Life is truly unexpected at times, one day you are living as sure as one day you shall die.
I truly hope through and through you learn to love your perfectly imperfect body.
We all are beautiful.
I love you World Fitters.
My weight is my business.
Your weight is your business.
Their weight is their business.
Will there ever be a time when your weight doesn’t matter?
That time is now at loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com your weight never matters, the only thing that matters is that you’re happy.
Be happy, be you love your body!
Such a pretty face nonetheless I see the pain behind those baby blues.
Each night tears of sadness slowly seeps through them and slowly soaks my heart which I wear on my sleeves.
My heart is heavy with thoughts of my body playing continuously in my my mind like a bad rerun of the worst movie ever.
When suddenly a voice said unto me love your perfectly imperfect body.
Which I decided to do from this very moment for not even a thousand years but forever.
I love you World Fitters.
Buenos Dias World Fitters!
No addiction is ever easy or worth your life. The feeling of not being able to live without a certain guilty pleasure can be earth shattering. You end up feeling weak and stupid that you cannot control yourself. From my description you are maybe thinking that I’m talking about a illegal drug like heroin and crack but I’m not. I’m talking about food addiction which took the life of Manuel Uribe.
On May 26, 2014 at the age of 48 Manuel Uribe lost his battle with creating his perfectly imperfect body. After many years of being obese his body finally gave into many years of over indulgence. In my opinion a food addiction is the hardest to break free from. Meaning if someone have a drug problem you just tell them to stop using the drug. Contrastingly when someone have a food addiction you can’t tell them to stop eating. We all need food to survive, the problem comes in when we are using the food for more than satisfying our hunger. In today’s article we will take a closer look at Manuel Uribe last moments and try to understand why his life was cut short.
After many unsuccessful attempts at weight loss Manuel finally find one that was able to work for him. The diet that was his ultimate savior was the Zone Diet which was created by Barry Sears. What exactly is the Zone Diet? “The Zone Diet is a fad diet in the low-carbohydrate diet school that was created by Barry Sears, a biochemist” (Thank you wikipedia). With the Zone Diet you eat three meals and two snacks that have proteins and carbohydrates. It have been said with the diet he lost approximately 230 kg (510 lb) which I think is very impressive.
With the weight loss came love. Manuel Uribe was able to show the world that anybody can find love. On October 26, 2008 Manuel married his second wife after four years of dating. Unfortunately at the time of his marriage he was unable to lose enough weight so that he could walk down the aisle.
A little more about his ex wife, her name was Claudia Solis she was a hair stylist by trade. When I found out that Manuel Uribe got married truthfully I was concern about Claudia’s intentions. I don’t truly believe she ever loved him, she just loved being in the media. I think Manuel knew that but with his size being what it was he accepted what he could get.
Toward the end of his life he was nursing a broken heart after his second marriage ended so quickly. I can imagine how you no longer want to take care of yourself after your significant other have abandon you, life would be depressing and lonely again. Many people were sad but not surprised that he died of liver failure on 2014. I really hope Manuel Uribe finded some peace in his life. Additionally I hope that his family is getting on well without him. It doesn’t matter if the death was a surprise or not all loss of life are equally sad. Thank you guys for joining me here at my little internet space it really means alot to me. I’m looking forward to my next frantastic post, stay tune!
Hola World Fitters!
Today I received an email from namecheap.com. In case you’re wondering namecheap.com is a website that provides businesses with domain names. I brought my domain loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com from them. I know what you are thinking Francesca (Franchy) where are you going with this.
Where I’m going with this is that I wanted to talk to you all a little about how I feel about my website turning 2 years old. I’m so happy to have come this far. In these two years I have shared with you my heart felt experiences with putting on weight.
I feel like we have become some sort of family. I have shared with you personal experiences that I’ve gone through. Additionally I shared with you my weight, which will held me accountable to you all. World Fitters I really hope loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com is really making a difference in your life. Love your perfectly imperfect body, may loseweightandfeelgreatwithfran.com lasts many more years. Thank you for visiting me for the last two years. I’m looking forward to posting more posts more regularly. I love you all have a blessed day, bye.
Darling.
I love the way you love me.
So unprejudiced, so unconditionally.
You see right pass all of my rolls and stretch marks, you see me.
When suddenly I burst out crying from staring at myself in the mirror.
You gently grab my waist and whisper in my ears and say I cry too when I see such beauty staring back at me.
Today we say I do and promise our love will last for not a thousand years but till the end of time.
I’m yours forever more, I love you.
I love you World Fitters.
Bonjour (Good Morning) World Fitters!
For so long I’ve been trying to lose weight and keep it off. In my younger days losing weight was not a problem, I stayed at 130 pounds for a while with no problem. However when I got in my late 20’s I put on weight that was difficult to come off later. When Dominique Lanoise said that no one chooses to be obese it speaks of her desperate need to lose weight and her compulsion that prevents her from creating her perfectly imperfect body.
Dominique Lanoise was born on May 18, 1970 in Haiti, it was our shared country of birth that personally connected us. I immediately could relate to her and I supported her fight to get her weight under control. I wanted her to win and get her life back to where she wanted it nevertheless she lost her battle with her perfectly imperfect body.
According to Dominique her body begin changing after her first child was born, she just put on so much weight. It is understandable to put on a couple of extra pounds after giving birth. Nonetheless most women lose the weight after giving birth with diet and exercise. One major contributing factor to Dominique Lanoise weight gain was the area she called home Miami, Florida. Meaning she would get people in her neighborhood to give her food. I don’t understand why those people would bring her bad food when they know how devastating it could be to her. That’s why I always say your weight is no one’s business, and you have to love yourself first.
Unfortunately Domonique loved her food too much that her health came second. In the infamous show called my 600 pound life Dominique Lanoise declared she can eat two to three double cheese burgers for one day everyday that’s approximately over 4,000 calories a day. I can sort of understand her plight, Haiti is a poor country which don’t have a lot of food but America have an abundance of food which you can eat at your own risk. Self control is not something we all can practice. For instance today I came from my exercise at the park and it took a lot of self control not to eat all the cookies however not all of us can do that.
I don’t understand why some people ask wow how you let yourself get so big, like you choose to be obese? When I started putting on the weight it crept up on me because I didn’t weigh myself. People’s rude comments didn’t make the situation better I was left confuse and shock at my own weight gain. Even though I’m not as big as Dominique Lanoise was i can still relate, we all understand sometimes how one bite isn’t enough nor is two or three.
I want to leave you with the thought you never know someone’s inner struggles don’t just judge without knowing the full story. Next post I will continue with the full story of Dominique Lanoise sorry I just couldn’t put it all in this one article. I want you all to enjoy the rest of your week don’t let a weigh in destroy your whole week you are still beautiful no matter what the scale says. Bye my lovelies.
As summer approaches we all rush to our nearest park or gym.
Trying to create our perfectly imperfect body at any cost.
The tinny tiny polka dot bikini waiting on our bed for us.
With the scale not to far away, prepared to tell you your mood today.
My mood is happy to be alive no matter what the scale says.
Live your perfectly imperfect life!
Hola (hello) World Fitters!
I see that out of all my websites a large amount of my traffic seem to gravitate to this website. I believe the reason for this website’s popularity is that this website really comes from straight from my heart. I created this website because I was body shamed and I felt that was wrong and I wanted to support other people who are going through the same thing.
One such women that was struggling with her weight was Sharon Mevsimler a native of Great Britain. For most of her youth Sharon was of normal weight, nevertheless by the time she got married her weight started to pile on her 5’2 body. As some of you may know a short frame body does not carry extra weight well. Who was Sharon Mevsimler and what caused her unprecedented weight issues?
Sharon Mevsimler was born on 1969 in England, from the start she witness her own mothers battle with her own weight. During her childhood Sharon’s mother Anne would put her on a diet so that she would not suffer the same weight issue as she did. For the most part it worked Sharon remained thin throughout her teen years.
Unfortunately after a beautiful marriage to her husband Bulent, Sharon Mevsimler begin putting on weight after giving birth to her children. While most mothers would shed the pounds after giving birth Sharon kept on the pounds and added additional weight to her short frame. Her short frame was put under its maximum string when in 2003 she could no longer fit into her scooter. Surgery seemed like it was the best solution to get Sharon’s life back on track. When “she was told the NHS had agreed to the gastric bypass” she was ecstatic and her hope of a normal life was restored.
By the grace of God Sharon Mevsimler surgery went well without any complications. She was able to go home after 4 days. Sharon went from 42 stone to 23 1/2 stone that is approximately half her weight. While the surgery was able to help Sharon shed the extra weight that made her so miserable however it didn’t stop the war that was going on in her head. I believe if Sharon was able to go to therapy after the surgery she may still be alive today. Sadly Sharon Mevsimler lost her life on 2010 at the age of 41. She left behind 4 children (Jayden, Paige, Emrah, Tyler), husband Bulent, and her mother Anne who loved her so much. Sharon story is a cautionary tale which tell us that there is no such thing as a quick fix. I truly believe that the wrong problem was fix.
World Fitters so many of us see our weight as the problem and we try to fix that with diet and exercise. So many of us forget that our weight begins in our mind. For instance When I was being put down for my weight gain by so many people, I didn’t realize frankly I don’t care about what they think about my body it is none of their business. The truth of the matter is it was all me. I hated myself I thought I was fat and ugly which was exactly what I became. World Fitters the best weightloss program is to love yourself and the weight will come naturally off. Unfortunately for Sharon Mevsimler she didn’t love her perfectly imperfect self and now she is gone forever. Love yourself World Fitters have a great day!
Getting into a body suit was a lot harder than it looked.
The suit hugging every fat roll that makes up my body.
Thinking about maybe the camera will add 10 pounds.
Learning to love my body use to be a daily struggle.
In my mind I was always ugly and nothing ever seems to fit me correctly.
Oh how blessed I’m to finally see the true beauty of my imperfections.
